An EB reader asks for your honest opinion... Kindly read below...

We moved to a new apartment in an estate with neighbours everywhere, "mind your business" was the order of the day but my next door neighbour was different.

She seemed really nice and friendly. My husband and I are no longer together: in other words, I'm a single working class mother, I had a helper and my aunty also lived with me.

I have changed my help so many times and I don't know the reason why they always left. Maybe its something i do? *just thinking aloud*. My neighbour is newly married and is an expectant mother.

One faithful day, my help left and my aunty travelled. As a busy woman, I approached my neighbour and begged her to help me watch my children after school till I got back from work.

The response I got from her made me realize she did not want to help me. I had to pay for "after school care" in my children's school for them.

Should I be offended with my neighbour or accept my fate as I see it?

Source: www.esther.com.ng

Jamb kwestion. As if she come that estate to become your baby nurse. Some people get mind sha.

Hae!!!!! The next one we will hear is " I always feel like eating when I'm hungry, should I see it as a habit or a curse Chaiii we have seen things on NL.

You came here to ask nkechi maraobimooo...


You should have bitten her bum bum for not helping you watch your kids.. with all these children molestation issues upandan

Young lady i know it's not easy being a mom but trust u shudnt be offended by wht ur neighbour said. You should apologize for trying to give her such responsibility. It's her first pregnancy and we all can agree it's always hard, she can't be taking care of herself while looking after ur kids and also taking care of d home. It'll be grossly unfair on ur part and u knw growing kids are really playful. My son usually doesn't want to come home after school coz there's nobody to play with and I'll be dere telling him you're breaking mommy's heart

Modified: didn't read the story well, go ahead and be furious dear it's allowed she cudnt watch ur kids till u got back from work or maybe she tot it wud be a permanent thing, i suggest u keep ur distance.

lesbiangirl:
Young lady i know it's not easy being a mom but trust u shudnt be offended by wht ur neighbour said. You should apologize for trying to give her such responsibility. It's her first pregnancy and we all can agree it's always hard, she can't be taking care of herself while looking after ur kids and also taking care of d home. It'll be grossly unfair on ur part and u knw growing kids are really playful. My son usually doesn't want to come home after school coz there's nobody to play with and I'll be dere telling him you're breaking mommy's heart

Modified: didn't read the story well, go ahead and be furious dear it's allowed she cudnt watch ur kids till u got back from work or maybe she tot it wud be a permanent thing, i suggest u keep ur distance.

So the neighbour who is expectant has no choice in the mater shey? Do you know how she is copping with being pregnant? Free the woman na.