ayoaces:

Really? OK so let's look at the facts. A child ' followed ' a man to his village and married him without her parent's consent ( at least nobody has denied that). Oga even if the girl followed willingly, let me ask you this... Na so you take marry? Did you marry your wife like that? And if you are not married, I that how you intend to take a wife?

I don't go into conclusions easily. It's not about personal preferences or whathaveyou on this issue but from experience, it's always safe to hear from all sides and then get to reasonable conclusions. Therefrom will you observe loopholes, reconcile differences and obtain correlations of various accounts.