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Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by Allwility: 12:01pm On Mar 19, 2016 |
teddybear007: No we need not go back to the old days. I cited that to remind us of our culture as Africans. Forget the western civilization thingy. You must realize that mothers in their protective nature want what's best for their children. When a young man is in love, more often than not, he closes his eyes to certain behaviors of his partner. Some women have even perfected the art of pretending and covering things up just to get married. After the wedding, out comes the true character and simple things as who does what at home becomes an issue. Just like seasoned HR managers can determine within minutes if a candidate would be an asset to their company or not, most mothers can tell with about 90% accuracy if the lady their son brings home would make a good spouse or not. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by teddybear007(f): 12:08pm On Mar 19, 2016 |
Allwility: Thanks for ur nice response. Welcome to my world. Gracias. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by Nobody: 12:40pm On Mar 19, 2016 |
reverse is my case. ive never washed for my mother inlaw. she washes for me wnever she visits. she loves me like her daughter, besides im her daughter as my husband is her only child. she is the only one i complain to whenever we have issues and u wont believe it, she never supports her son. shes always on my side. im so blessed to have someone like her and i wil forever Love her like i love my mum. 7 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by bukatyne(f): 6:20pm On Mar 19, 2016 |
aforti: Laugh wan tire my belle 4 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by bankybobo11: 6:21pm On Mar 19, 2016 |
SANDOSKI: Please refer to my post on https://www.nairaland.com/2998851/wooing-challenge-2016-selection-thread/24 |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by bukatyne(f): 6:32pm On Mar 19, 2016 |
Lols @ topic. Wouldn't wash Again, might wash And end the relationship depending on the guy's reaction 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by cococandy(f): 7:06pm On Mar 19, 2016 |
No sane woman would make such a demand. And no self respecting girl would indulge her. 5 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by marbee(f): 11:32pm On Mar 19, 2016 |
I will tell her politely that I am not prepared to wash for her at the moment,maybe next time,but there will not be a next time. Those type of mother in laws smell of trouble,they will never give you a breathing space once you eventually get married to their son. 7 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by Pidggin(f): 12:14am On Mar 20, 2016 |
Izzy002: On the first day? I will do it if her son has no hands, if he does, I will simply smile and pass the clothes to him. Such a mother-in-law will cause trouble in her son's home, it is either one is ready to face it or opts out. 6 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by olashas(f): 2:04pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
I can just imagine how funny it would be if the guy dumps her after she washes piles and piles of clothes. 4 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by RiloKiley: 4:01pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Allwility:1000likes. Well said. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by RiloKiley: 4:07pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Its possible the mother in law didn't like the girl at first glance and is using the opputunity to chase her away. Her response would determine where the relationship would go next. Her getting angry and walking out of the relationship could be just what the mother in law was planning all along. She could humbly take the clothes to waah and the mother will drag the clothes back from her, or she cold go ahead and wash it and her mother in law will respect her all the more for it. She can quarrel with the boy after they have left the house to show her displeasure but the fact that she can wash her mother's clothes means she should be able to wash her boyfriends mothers clothes as well. If your boyfriend's mother telling u to wash her clothes is enough to break your love for him then what kind of weak yeye love is that? Good riddance I say. |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by Miami11: 5:43pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
RiloKiley: Washing clothes for a prospective mother in law does not make them like you, some hate you immediately they hear you are from a specific village, I think it is outright evil for a mother in law to make a potential wife wash her clothings. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by jashar(f): 6:32pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
my own is this... why is it that it's when there's a 1st time visitor you know there are dirty clothes? What kind of yeye test is that? Some ladies are desperate and can form humility by washing the clothes. But let them enter the house 1st... na fire on the mountain be that. Literally, 'Don't wash your dirty laundry in public'. A girlfriend sef, if it had been fiancée ehen... 1 Like |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by Nobody: 6:32pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Will just fold it and take to the nearest dry cleaner's. It must be a test from her and I'm sure I've passed jare 1 Like |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by AlphaHandMaiden(f): 12:47pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Test fire! On the first day of meeting someone?! It will be a miracle if that relationship survives till daybreak! If refusing (politely of course) is to fail please take your f9 and wear it as a badge of honour. If she can do that on the first day..... beware what will happen when you marry the guy. Dont start what you cant finish. There are other more effective ways to test people's character. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by aameyah(f): 8:24pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
lilmax:Ops mum!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by aameyah(f): 8:33pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
KissCODE: Would you help your father-in-law wash cloths, starch and iron since sons wash their dads cloths too... On your first visit, without being offered anything? Just asking.... 1 Like |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by aameyah(f): 8:35pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Kaldakinn: Looool @ glory be to God... |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by KissCODE(m): 10:04pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
aameyah:yes i will do everything a son does for a father to him. What is hard there? |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by aameyah(f): 11:03pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
KissCODE: Talk is cheap!! 3 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by Rotab4life: 11:04pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
HABA WHO DOES THAT. WILL JOKINGLY TELL MY MUM TO LOCK UP..LOL 1 Like |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by K9blunt(f): 12:09am On Mar 23, 2016 |
KissCODE: Your reasoning sha. *mimics him* this is Africa , Nigeria my foot. Let's call a spade a spade, I am just meeting you for the first time, hell I am marrying your kid not you. That action is just plain rude , of that is a criteria for marriage nna u na nnegi je laula na transformer, make I stay my own side biko. And the pop of this world is over 7 billion for those that are feeling too important. 4 Likes |
Re: My Mum VS My Girlfriend. by buoye1(m): 8:39pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
spill: may God bless you for this comment, e sweet my belle 1 Like |
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