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I would have replied here yesterday, friends. But I got the shocked of my life and I have not been happy ever since.

The potential buyer who seem more serious to buy the domain name changed mind that they are no longer interested after discussing about it in the meeting that was held a day before yesterday. They were the one who wanted to £3000

I have been so bitter.

While one have replied us, the other interested buyer has not replied yet. They are UK based firm and one bad thing about these people is that they will show interest and when you expect them to come forward, they will just go silent. I have had 2 deals with people from UK but never came through... Same pattern, silence after showing interest.

I dont know what to do now as what I feel at the moment is like a hearybreak from a girl-i swear!

Though this firm have a range they want to pay which is £2000-£4000 but they have not responded yet and that is their style. UK companies will keep you waiting till you are almost frustrated. Emailing them again may look unprofessional and protray you as desperate.

Just this morning, another person entirely has agreed to $350.

I am fuccking confuse at the moment.

On one hand, we are waiting for £2000-£4000 peeps to come forward and someone who seem more serious is offering $350.

Guys what do I do?

2sexy

Bebetter: [size=14pt]Guy, make i advise you...

Key points
I'm even sure that when her family members ask about you, she will say that "he is fine oh, he is ok" i'm sure they still think both of you are dating.

Dat Ben guy was her school Boyfriend that used to bang her steady (different styles too). You are her lover boyfriend that she will like to marry, her lover boy that cares for her. Bro... its the truth.

She is still holding on to the hope that when she is done sampling... she can always run back to you and you will forgive her after all, you where never meant to know, you where never meant to come to visit.. it was supposed to be her secret, and her, the angel in your eyes but fate played a fast one when you came unannounced.

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The only way to get the feelings of her faded (because you need to for your own good... who knows she might even have done abortion for that guy sef) is to:

1. start planning on getting a new girl. (not necessarily for a serious relationship) make new friends, the more you focus on this and start getting chummy with new girls and people the more she will gradually fade from ur memory.

2. When next she calls, act as if you don't know who is calling... then suddenly realize and tell her that you have deleted her number from your phone and that you've moved on. (when she asks "cant we just be friends? say NO!)Infact, tell her to greet her boyfriend for you, cut the phone sharply. refuse to pick any of her calls until she uses an unknown number, then you can now give her some polite insult, stuff like (what is the meaning of this now? why are you bugging my phone? why are you so desperate?) you will feel a mixture of pleasure & pain but bro this is your sure road to redemption.

3. Be a man! when next any of her relatives calls, be quick to tell them that you don't have anything to do with her again, and when they asked why? tell them that she now has a new Guy, she even told you herself that she is not interested in you again besides you are now in a new relationship (lie).

4. Finally, live your life bro! you are still a young man and you have your whole life ahead of you... abeg go chop catfish peppersoup jor, plan strategy of how you go turn millionaire, go cinema watch film, buy yourself a samsung smartphone, whatever just live your life bro and be happy...

bro... i don run this parole before... just follow my advise. it is well.[/size]

This is the BEST advice to so far from a someone who had been to same school... lol

firetrap: we both went to the same university and lived together for the whole duration of the relationship and the new guy moved into the hostel as I was about going for service. and[b] I already use a Samsung smartphone among other gadgets[/b]

He didnt mean that you are broke and cant afford it... he meant you should spend more money on yourself and make more money for yourself as you try to be independent as well. It wasnt an insult.

Look, when my own did has, I felt so it is because I dont have money that was why she is doing all this? Just as the guy I quoted above, she found a guy that would be warming her( na so dia life be) and the way she talked about the guy, the guy was spending money on her.

She also told me that the guy bought things for her, he man his father's company... etc. I dont want to go into details. The truth is that they ended up having Bleep and she also told me lol. I was mumu at that time.g

Everything happened because of money. She also went as far as saying I dont plan ahead.

But today, story don change...

when she visited me at school, she asked if I was into yahoo yahoo. lol

I am just busy making my own money and before this year ends, I will be millionaire bro and I am still a corper. I am also doing this from scratch without any help from anybody, just me, my brain and my God.

By the time she sees me or anytime for that matter, she will always wish that the ground opens and swallow her

Well said...

She probably never took the guy serious.

alutacontinua: That shows you too have an issue to deal with. I've refrained commenting on this issue because I was also wondering how busy she was that it took one week to apologize but calling her a b*tch is also uncalled for. Two wrongs, they say, do not make a right. You can express your anger, but not with using such foul words. Your wife is gonna do worse things to you in future (yes, you heard me right, worse things) and that doesn't justify calling her a bi*ch. So, you saying you would call her something worse means you also have anger issues to deal with before you put a woman in your house.

Good morning, everyone!

People even said I shouldnt have burnt her pic. Someone I would have beaten black and blue.

She was really lucky that I am very slow to anger. But when it is here, my brother, i could do things you wouldn't believe.

She was largely TOO selfish.

She did all those thing because of money. But today, I am growing financially.

I am currently serving on Ondo, batch A set and doing what many of my mates can't do.

This week will be my happiest week since I will be closing a deal big enough to make me almost a millionaire.

That notwithstanding, I can make it a million after a few weeks from now. And while she is at her own end wondering where her luck would come from, who will marry her as she has found out that guys are just Fvcking and dumping her.

She will see me rise to become a millionaire, the once broke a55 guy she dumped lol. I wasn't really broke at that time sha cos I still spent money on her.

She has begged but the truth is that I can't forget what she did till I die.

firetrap: guy u harsh oh

Amen...

biolabee: It is well bros..
So much anger in the system

You will go from grace to grace
Amin

True -but you know the thing with emotions, it clouds your thinking.

If I didnt call myself to order, I would have had BP at an early age. For some weeks I had respiratory difficulties.

But God is a marvelous God because financially, I am far better than she left me or more than she could have ever imagine... I almost moving up the ladder of a million... Just a corper

That is what this man should have done, concentrate on making himself a better person. The truth is that, the wife did what she did for a reason she finds so difficult to tell her husband.

Na God get power

biolabee: Irrespective of how bad it looks, NO ONE, I repeat NO ONE MALE OR FEMALE deserves to be murdered because of infidelity or to take his or her life

Why don't you leave it to God to judge as we all have sinned and should not judge

Once again, may the departed rest in peace

Tell them... Tell them bro.

You wonder why men kill their girlfriend/wife, pour acid on them, behead them? That is the hight of anger and disaster cheating or heartbreak can have on a man.
Looking at it more critically, someone would have still kicked the bucket, either the brother or the wife. And that is if the man had not taken his own life. At that point in time, that man was more dangerous than Osama Bin Laden...

All the women talking do not know how men feel when cheated on, especially when you had trust that person.

If not for the sake of God and the fact that I am slow to anger, but only God knows what could have happened to my ex back in 2009.

I just thank God I had left her presence when my anger started. Each time I think about that day, such as this post just reminded me of, I thank my God.

If not, she would have been hospitalized!

There is nothing I hate in this world as being treated like a fool. I could tolerate many things, but hardly can I do same when treated like a fool. I just dont know why.

May be that's why I am very slow to anger. Else. It would have been disastrous!

pleep: Its not competition its the fuckin truth lady.

Cheating hurts men more because of different instincts. This is not only about ego and self confidence bla bla bla, its about "who is the real father of my child." That is something males have to deal with but women don't. And so we evolved to have a deep seated tik that women don't have

You ever wonder why many women can tolerate polygamy but almost no man can? its because we are wired differently

You cant argue with evolutionary biology... cheating effects men more, just accept it.

We pay the "bride price" so its not so much to ask.

Una just dey talk...

What is industrialization without constant power supply?

This is what I found and it may be of use.

I have not use it yet because my phone can't download one of the software out of the 3 on there.

Anyone who successfully use it should report here.


http://ratnayesu..com/2013/02/permanently-unlock-huawei-e303-modems.html?m=1

Sexkillz even try... Omo, I burn all her pictures.

All of them...

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha... Hmmmm ...

We need First Aid. Emergency!

You are just 2% in the lots. Yes, it is that bad!

the reality facing us out there is a direct opposite of what you have written.

You are right that she has lost a gem but I say again, if he continue treating girls as he has done for his ex, he will most times get burnt.

I've tried to remain that nice guy but unfortunately, it has never paid me. The last happened a few days ago and I made up my mind NEVER to be again.

Did you see what I wrote about my ex? She confirmed what sholly wrote and I quote " is it when I am married I will have the experience?"

It is what they want and that's what I shall give them.

bukatyne: Truth is relative dear

I met my guy 7 years ago and I have not thought of seeking 'excitement' else where. My guy is a very nice guy who treats me as a queen and I have not thought of taking his love for granted.

The OP's gal does not know what she has lost until she is ready to marry then she will realize she don her hubby do BF.

I am sure that if she felt her relationship was boring and she used her initative, she would have together with the OP thought of a way forward.

The OP obviously treats her like they are already married and I wonder if she would seek her yeye fun outside.

I also do not understand what some posters mean by too much love. Can love be too much? Is there a certain measure that a man uses to gauge his love for his wife or GF? Yes, the OP's relationship failed but it's not because of over love or over nice. The girl didn't know what she wanted.

^ ^Story!

Nope, I like what she said because it is REAL and confirmation of what my ex told me.


Don't pretend and hide truth.

bukatyne: Dear, your previous posts on this thread will be a reference point by all men who wants to insult women.

For the gadgets, ebay.com is your best bet!

spikes C: I met this thread today, i went to the first thread,season 1, and read the first 40 pages.
I don tire, and can't read this 60+ pages, so dnt blame me for a few questions.

I have actually leant enough, i've even made contacts...just that ofcourse, i wouldn't be updated with the latest info.

I would like to go into gadgets for now,mainly BB from UK/US and i would like to possibly place an order this night.
I am also looking at android tablets from alibaba in the forthcoming weeks.

I've settled on uk2naija for my UK/US dealings, is it ok or is there a better option. They offer $5/lbs from US to lagos and 5pounds from Uk to other states.

So, my main question is where do i get these gadgets very cheap from UK/US stores. Possibly news ones,refurbs.....and if possible, well packaged with there cartons and accessories.

Thanks for the replies, i'll keep reading a few pages back.

I have downloaded the code write. How do I use it?

How do I flash it, what do I use to flash it and what is a firmware?

ciphoenix: if it doesn't work, flash the modem with an earlier firmware then use your normal unlocker

Let me add that i have used the unlocker to generat code in the past and it work for older MTN modem. Dont you think there is possibility it will work?

So, what do i do if it does not work? Try a different unlocker?

What unlocker works the code writer?

When you say "if I have an unlock code that will work", do you mean I generate the unlock code with cracking software and then use the huawei code writer in connection to unlock it- in this case, I will be using two different software , right?

Thank you. May God bless you in abondance!

ciphoenix: if you have an unlock code that you are sure will work, then download huawei modem code writer. you use it to unlock when the prompt doesn't show

We did not hear from them yesterday and so, we contacted them as a reminder.

They replied us today that they will discuss the purchase of the domain name in the meeting which was held today.

Hopefully, we shall get a reply from them tomorrow.

2sexy

Rooney, so sorry bro.

And when I told some women at the family section that NO woman gets an automatic shirt in my house, they felt I was being wicked.

If the wretched daughters of eve make she born 100 pikin for me, that is no guarantee that you own a pin in my house.

Rubbish!

I have tried to crack it myself but it does not request for the code when you insert a different network SIM.

And that is where the problem is. Else, it would have been much easier.

Hello House, I need to crack my Glo modem because here in Ondo where I am serving, the network is slower than a snail walking on a sunny afternoon.


I heard that Airtel is the best in Ondo and that is why I want to switch.

The modem is Huawei E 303

Thanks!

Na wa o. The babe mean business man... Just dropping PIN and phone number like say tomorrow no dey.

Omo. This babe na desparado

No be small thing...


Very soon, me sef go place adverts for nairaland...

And give my spec as well..

No time.

A) she must a millionaire!

No call me thief oo

B) she must sabi romeo and juliet

brb with more

Idowuogbo: Carry go! U cuuuuute! But, dis ya marketing style carry comma o! B careful....

Women are the cause why men act that way...

I said MOST... I didnt say all

sanb: Wow that was harsh.....don't forget we have them as sisters, cousins, nieces and also mothers.

Remember that men can also be classed in that category as well…

Use and dump her...

xyoung: Looking from this angle
I meet a girl, we start talking, she finds out I'm working class, she is probably unemployed or still undergraduate...remember we are just friends and no strings attached..she ask me for money to sort out 'some issues' and I reply "I don't have money to give you"
Out of the blues, she call me stingy and says she was only testing me
Now my questions is
1... Is it COMPULSORY for every dude to help a girl financially even when she isn't ur sister/relation or girlfriend
2... What is ur opinion about a girl always asking dudes (with the exemption of her brother or BF) for money..how do u rate her personality
3... Assuming I use 'zero spending' policy on my interested female friends to seperate out the ones interested in money to the ones interested in me..Is this really a good justification or a stingy attitude
Contribution, comment and suggestions welcomed

Well said!

kambo: as a man , and in ur future relationships, learn the hard art of unplugging from women. This is to clear ur head and stiffle/purge needy tendencies from taking root. Once a woman knows tht she's got u , it's just a matter of time b4 she begins treatg u like dirt. Think of it this way, theyre some people wu giv away their things -that are still workg- because their tired of it. Introduce breaks into ur relationships where u'r inaccessible 4 extended periods of time. Also, introduce deliberate friction instead of always talking soft and cooey - like bust on her if she messes up, get angry with her and dnt reconcile - for emotional variety. Soft guys like u bore girls silly and make thm wanna cheat but d girl will never tell u y she's tired of u. Even if u get anoda girl it's likely dat she'll cheat or get bored wt u.

You are just being emotional and who told you they give Fvck how you feel... It is man eat man damn it.

Shollypopz has told you what most girls will hardly tell you. That is the big picture there.

I didnt say you should go about fvcking ashis ooo

The truth is that girls want to experiment with different d1ck b4 dey settle down. Take it or leave. They want to Fvck as many d1ck as they can. They dont want to be tied down.

Let me tell you what my ex told me: she said I was too serious back then and that she wanted to have fun or is it when she get's married that she will have the needed experience. And the bastard was begging me to accept her back o when she said those word, unknown to her about my reaction. THAT IS THE REALITY. I felt hurt but because if I knew, i would have known what to do at that time-- of course use the ba5tard and dumb her. I was busy doing mr. Nice guy and lover boy while another guy was FVcking.

It is left to you what you wanna do. I didnt just say those words, I said them based on what sholly wrote up there.

It is what they want, it is what you should give them.

Didnt you see where sholly said you should let her experience different d1ck? And to think it is coming from a girl!

As for my ex, she has experimented different D1ck and now, she has no guy to marry her. She has been used and dumped.

I just told you the truth... Use and dump them because that is what they want. Be a player. NEVER be serious till you have had enough. You get heartbroken when you are serious with them. That is the truth and to over 80% of girls in this country.

Take it or leave it!

You seem fixated on the marriage thing guy make that money and enjoy life man. Dont worry about girls because they dont care about you but what they will get from you.

I dont hate them just that being nice to them has never yielded any thing good for me. Being Nice to them has been a nightmare.

It's lfet for you what you wanna do, but for me o. I will give them what they want. This is no time to be emotional because if you die from heartbreak, another guy will take over.

I don talk my one

firetrap: @2jideofor I take offence at u for calling women worthless scumbags and no matter whatever was done to me does not and will never make me ever refer to women in general as worthless scumbags and changing women like clothes did not help me. believe me when I say that I went to town with my dicck and it only made me feel worse. I almost became something I'm not because I allowed what someone did to me almost change my perception of how i related with the opposite sex.