nuattitude74: Very sad. To those doubting this story, I tell you that these things happen. I have a similar story. Three years ago, a long-time friend of mine caught his wife in their matrimonial bed with their neighbour, a married man. He sent the woman packing. However, he never recovered from the shock. He stopped going to work and became a partial and eventually a total recluse. He would lock himself in the house all day and refuse to answer calls or socialise with friends. A week or so after the incident, he took ill and was admitted to hospital. One day, he just didn't wake up. He died in his sleep in hospital. Everything happened in less than THREE weeks ! Although he didn't commit suicide, we, his friends, could safely say that incident killed him. His story still gives me the shakes till this day when I hear similar tales.

vivian chinaza: I don't feel sorry for him, committing suicide? That's the height of selfishness!






*let the insult begin! *

This just came from a woman

ednut1: NOTHING CAN CONVINCE ME TO GET MARRIED, PURE RUBBISH, SWEET BEGININING TROUBLE PROBLEM WAHALA FOLLOWS , LOVE DIES

ednut1: NOTHING CAN CONVINCE ME TO GET MARRIED, PURE RUBBISH, SWEET BEGININING TROUBLE PROBLEM WAHALA FOLLOWS , LOVE DIES

Rooneyboy:

This just came from a woman

maclatunji:

Without marriage, you would still have these problems. Why not have a sweetheart to worry with? It is unfortunate, but people forget about the emotional aspect of marriage. Most people put 90% on sex- this guy didn't die because of sex. He could have it after his wive's betrayal, he died because he was broken- died of a broken heart. I doubt if he even felt pain at the point of dying.

This is some seriously messed-up ish. Really sad!

vivian chinaza:

Yea, it came from a woman. Look, I know you must be hurt, losing someone you love sucks, alright?
And the wife cheated on him with his brother, that's a terrible thing, but sweetheart these things happen all the time, even worst. When life knocks you down, you and only you will decide to remain down or to beat it. And in his own condition, he chose to give up, not putting other people that love him unconditionally into consideration, including his lovely daughter!
I don't feel sorry for him, to me he was selfish, and stu.pid. And if my own brother for any reason takes his own life, a life that does not belong to him in the first place, not minding the impact his action will have on me? I will spit on his corpse!
A lot of us have passed through hell, we have been heartbroken, betrayed, and hurt. Did some of us at some point contemplated suicide? Hell yes! I know I did! Let's face it, there was nothing to live for, so we thought, so I thought. But we were wrong! There are plenty of things to live for! And those reasons are manifested in the faces of those who chose to love us no matter what, those who still need us.
The pains are excruciating, lord knows! But it gets better with time cos we must learn to find joy again through those pains, if not for anything, for the sake of those who love us! For the sake of that beautiful son or daughter who is gonna live without a father, who in ages to come would live with the shame, the psychological trauma and the stigma that her father committed suicide.

Now, if this man didn't think of all these? I'm sorry, I don't feel sorry for him, and I know as hell God will not!

I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive, this is just how I feel about suicide, and I'm not wrong.

I'm also sorry you have to go through this pain, I'm just mad that this pain is so not worth it.

ednut1: sory dude am built to operate alone, will look for baby mama or surrogate, nd giv d kids to my mum, nd enjoy my life alone hehehehehe

maclatunji:

Big lie.

byvan:



You are on point,if women with cheating husbands start commiting suicide,I wonder what the mortality rate ll be like.

byvan:



You are on point,if women with cheating husbands start commiting suicide,I wonder what the mortality rate ll be like.

vivian chinaza:

Yea, it came from a woman. Look, I know you must be hurt, losing someone you love sucks, alright?
And the wife cheated on him with his brother, that's a terrible thing, but sweetheart these things happen all the time, even worst. When life knocks you down, you and only you will decide to remain down or to beat it. And in his own condition, he chose to give up, not putting other people that love him unconditionally into consideration, including his lovely daughter!
I don't feel sorry for him, to me he was selfish, and stu.pid. And if my own brother for any reason takes his own life, a life that does not belong to him in the first place, not minding the impact his action will have on me? I will spit on his corpse!
A lot of us have passed through hell, we have been heartbroken, betrayed, and hurt. Did some of us at some point contemplated suicide? Hell yes! I know I did! Let's face it, there was nothing to live for, so we thought, so I thought. But we were wrong! There are plenty of things to live for! And those reasons are manifested in the faces of those who chose to love us no matter what, those who still need us.
The pains are excruciating, lord knows! But it gets better with time cos we must learn to find joy again through those pains, if not for anything, for the sake of those who love us! For the sake of that beautiful son or daughter who is gonna live without a father, who in ages to come would live with the shame, the psychological trauma and the stigma that her father committed suicide.

Now, if this man didn't think of all these? I'm sorry, I don't feel sorry for him, and I know as hell God will not!

I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive, this is just how I feel about suicide, and I'm not wrong.

I'm also sorry you have to go through this pain, I'm just mad that this pain is so not worth it.

maclatunji:

If he truly loved her, her betrayal with his brother would have killed his spirit. I think those who knew about his condition amongst his family and friends could have done more for him.

The devil whispers into the hearts of men at their weakest point. Suicide is wrong but at that point- do you think the guy was mentally stable?

vivian chinaza:

Yea, it came from a woman. Look, I know you must be hurt, losing someone you love sucks, alright?
And the wife cheated on him with his brother, that's a terrible thing, but sweetheart these things happen all the time, even worst. When life knocks you down, you and only you will decide to remain down or to beat it. And in his own condition, he chose to give up, not putting other people that love him unconditionally into consideration, including his lovely daughter!
I don't feel sorry for him, to me he was selfish, and stu.pid. And if my own brother for any reason takes his own life, a life that does not belong to him in the first place, not minding the impact his action will have on me? I will spit on his corpse!
A lot of us have passed through hell, we have been heartbroken, betrayed, and hurt. Did some of us at some point contemplated suicide? Hell yes! I know I did! Let's face it, there was nothing to live for, so we thought, so I thought. But we were wrong! There are plenty of things to live for! And those reasons are manifested in the faces of those who chose to love us no matter what, those who still need us.
The pains are excruciating, lord knows! But it gets better with time cos we must learn to find joy again through those pains, if not for anything, for the sake of those who love us! For the sake of that beautiful son or daughter who is gonna live without a father, who in ages to come would live with the shame, the psychological trauma and the stigma that her father committed suicide.

Now, if this man didn't think of all these? I'm sorry, I don't feel sorry for him, and I know as hell God will not!

I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive, this is just how I feel about suicide, and I'm not wrong.

I'm also sorry you have to go through this pain, I'm just mad that this pain is so not worth it.

Rooneyboy:


*Ladies, insatiable sets of creatures*

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Rooneyboy:
@ Bolded ,

Only a man that has gone through such knows how and what it feels like it feels like.

vivian chinaza:

Yea, it came from a woman. Look, I know you must be hurt, losing someone you love sucks, alright?
And the wife cheated on him with his brother, that's a terrible thing, but sweetheart these things happen all the time, even worst. When life knocks you down, you and only you will decide to remain down or to beat it. And in his own condition, he chose to give up, not putting other people that love him unconditionally into consideration, including his lovely daughter!
I don't feel sorry for him, to me he was selfish, and stu.pid. And if my own brother for any reason takes his own life, a life that does not belong to him in the first place, not minding the impact his action will have on me? I will spit on his corpse!
A lot of us have passed through hell, we have been heartbroken, betrayed, and hurt. Did some of us at some point contemplated suicide? Hell yes! I know I did! Let's face it, there was nothing to live for, so we thought, so I thought. But we were wrong! There are plenty of things to live for! And those reasons are manifested in the faces of those who chose to love us no matter what, those who still need us.
The pains are excruciating, lord knows! But it gets better with time cos we must learn to find joy again through those pains, if not for anything, for the sake of those who love us! For the sake of that beautiful son or daughter who is gonna live without a father, who in ages to come would live with the shame, the psychological trauma and the stigma that her father committed suicide.

Now, if this man didn't think of all these? I'm sorry, I don't feel sorry for him, and I know as hell God will not!

I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive, this is just how I feel about suicide, and I'm not wrong.

I'm also sorry you have to go through this pain, I'm just mad that this pain is so not worth it.

ayobase:

Its easier said than done!

I aint saying u aint correct.

Believe me, this happens only to those who TOO love their wife......the TRAUMA aftermath......my wife opening her legs for my younger brother to swim through.....the woman I considered as my friend, mother, wife, lover......the sight of the drama alone is killing swthrt.

Its always more painful for men than women.....I'm talking about the seeing the action, just as the man saw his brother ramming the ONLY one he loves so much!

Believe me, that kind of guy has been very faithful to his wife!

No excuse for taking his life, but I love what 'Mac' said, "devil whispers into the heart of man at his weakest point"

We are not still sure if he did though!

Bebetter:

[size=14pt]Yeah i understand what you are saying but put into consideration that people are different, and the way they react to situations differ, question vivian: Have you ever heard of Acute depression... this is a very very terrible state of depression & self loathing that someone can be afflicted with after a tragic event... [/size]

R.I.P to the dude. Pele to the friend. sad one indeed.

GraceBestowed: Hia!!! First of all, my condolences to you, RooneyBoy, it is never easy losing someone, talk more of losing them in such a way!

It is, grossly, insensitive to insult someone who already made a mistake in committing suicide, (even though it's one he has to deal with for eternity); it's not easy for the OP (who is grieving), so compounding it isn't cool.

Maclatunji was on point! The devil whispers to people, and depending on the strength of their spirit, they may succumb, or not. Please, don't ever condem people who've gone through stuff; unless you've passed through that fire, you really shouldn't talk about someone at the other end of it!

Rooneyboy:

20,000 likes .

May God bless u for ur comment.

GraceBestowed: Hia!!! First of all, my condolences to you, RooneyBoy, it is never easy losing someone, talk more of losing them in such a way!

It is, grossly, insensitive to insult someone who already made a mistake in committing suicide, (even though it's one he has to deal with for eternity); it's not easy for the OP (who is grieving), so compounding it isn't cool.

Maclatunji was on point! The devil whispers to people, and depending on the strength of their spirit, they may succumb, or not. Please, don't ever condem people who've gone through stuff; unless you've passed through that fire, you really shouldn't talk about someone at the other end of it!