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ogugua88: Lmao tell me about it. It's always funny to point and laugh sha lol.

Lol it's a serious lesson learned if it's true. Don't put a somewhat permanent stamp on something you're not 100% in it.

ogugua88: Just saw this picture on Linda ikeji's blog. Still look like a girl's wrist? Lol.
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Ok this does look like his hand with the wrist chain but the forearm still looks kinda tiny for his build. Oh well that's their problem whether or not he did

Looks like a girl's hand though

I bet that's a girl's wrist.

Hilarious if he does have her name tattooed on his body

ogugua88: Where is Modella? She go laugh today. Apparently Iyanya had "YN" tattooed on his wrist. And he dey form playa lol.

For real? Hahahahaha

There's nothing as stip1d as tattooing the name of a lover on your body. What happens when you break up? I guess people don't think ahead

Wu Zetian: She hates me, that's why

Who hates you?

Wu Zetian: http://www.bet.com/video/betawards/2013/performances/music-matters-curtis-fields.html

My friend performed at the BET awards yesterday.......Wooott!! Woot!! Show support guys, Curtis Fields!

Oh cool, i slept off while watching it. Well it seems we're getting close to hollywood then shola.

Why the fuk were you banned

So Wu Zetian is shollypopz in disguise

ogugua88: "I don't have seasonings"... how much are salt and pepper sef? Lmao.

LOL i'm sure she would have asked me to order some of that as well if possible

I've been told the girls who ask are usually the ones who are used to being dependent on people/family that no matter how financially comfortable they are, they always yearn for that dependencies. In most cases, the guys in their lives always end up being the victim of their upbringing. I somewhat agree with this sentiment

The girl i'm using as a reference is an engineer and she makes a lot of money for a single girl

Wu Zetian: 2 dates?? Were you guys friends before that?? LoL, she is bold oo!

Ok, I agree, the situation get as e be

Nope, we had a mutual friend though which i guess made her felt that air of being comfortable with me.

ogugua88: I can see where 2legit is coming from though. Rent money no be beans. We're talking at least a few hundred dollars. I can barely swallow my pride and ask my parents for money, talkless of a boyfriend or guy whom I just started seeing. I truly don't know how women ask.

If she lost her card and was asking for money because she had no gas to drive home, I[b] for stone 2legit[/b] lol, but rent money is too much. It's hard to not be skeptical at that point.

My momma raised me well enough to be nice to people so i would have helped if that was the case.

She had asked for quite a few things before that. She once asked me to buy her a pant way, she even went as far as sending me the link to the store's website for for what she wanted, she was't even my girlfriend yet

She asked me to buy her food a few times which i did maybe once or twice, my sweet self. I had no problem doing it until she kept doing it. typical convo goes like this

girl: Hey 2legit, i'm hungry

me: ok, go get you something to eat

girl: I don't have money, i'm broke

me: Oh that's bad, make you something at home

girl: I'm too tired and i don't even have seasonings, the food is gonna be yucky *sad face*

me: someone is gonna be starving tonight
girl: Are you gonna let me starve, seriously 2legit?
me: Ok what do you want me to do?
girl:order pizza now **puppy face**

In that scenario, i'm gonna end up paying for pizza and delivery. I can only imagine what she's gonna be demanding if we had ended up together


This post is not to be taken as a generalization of the Nigerian woman, just a single experience plus i never created a thread about it, i'm too grown to whine about stuff like that when i could easily fix it

Wu Zetian: Haba! You were dating this girl, you know if she's a fake or not.

You shudda helped her, I mean what sort of relationship was that?? You couldn't even trust that she might hv been telling the truth.

I fear you oo!

She had been asking for money before then and we had barely been on 2 dates then, she wasn't my girlfriend. The circumstance is totally different from helping a friend or asking for help in good faith

ogugua88:

Seriously now,think about it

Texas.Cowgirl:
Gimme her number, lemme give her a piece of my mind.

I'll teach her how to make a man BEG to help her

LOL i deleted it already

Texas.Cowgirl:
Lmaooooooooooo
Slick gal
Lmaooooooooo
Gimme a min, lemme laugh small
Brb

Texas.Cowgirl:
Tell her to pay her rent online

I gave her suggestions, i'm too smart for that. Things went bad from then on, her attitude changed but who cares

Texas.Cowgirl:
Let your woman be your friend, woman, sister, mother and queen,

Don't make her a liability. Why are you dating a liability in the first place?

I don't get Nigerian men. Stop wasting our time

Lol i've said it and i'll say it again, i'm only obligated to her if we're legally married. Anything outside of that, she has her family to ask for money, it's a respect thing.

I'll be disappointed if my daughter/son or my mom ask another man for money when i haven't exhausted my resources to help them.

Let me give you an instance. The girl i dated last sent me a text talking about some "i lost my credit card, my rent is due and i'm trying to get that done before i get charged late fees" What do you expect me to say/do in that situation?

Texas.Cowgirl:
Ok just because I understand your point doesn't mean I like it.

So if her car stops because of no fuel and you're the only one available to help, she shouldn't ask you to help her ?

Don't pressurize a girl into thinking she can't ask you for help and vice versa. Don't put her on edge. Don't make her think she's a liability. It's scary.

What kind of relationship is that? No one wants to walk on egg shell.

Of course, that makes sense. I'm not heartless, i'll do to her what i'll do to any of my friends. The asking we're talking about are demands for lv shoes/gucci bag or Brazilian hair et al

Oh and Mariah can sing that octa or whatever it is but man, she's such a diva

Hotnaijababe, why you gotta punish me to view your picture

Damn! Why does it have to be those girls with exposed big t1tties presenting gospel award, what an irony

Texas.Cowgirl:
Ewooooooooooo. So you have to be married for both of you to do sth for each other? Na wa

Ok get it right. A girl should not be asking for money from a guy if they are not legally married. This doesn't mean a guy can't and shouldn't do his duties as a man to take care of his woman.

Personally, i'm programmed to take care of my woman as long as i can afford it BUT the most repulsive and unattractive thing she can do is ASK me for it. I'm not obligated to do it, i do it willingly which i think is more beautiful

R Kelly still they alive

shymexx: England drew 2-2 with this same Brazilian team that whooped Spain at the same venue, Maracana staduim, like a month ago.

And they beat the same team 2-1 at Wembley a few months ago.

Be scared of the pace of Theo Walcott and Chamberlain.

That was a friendly game. A competitive game like the world cup is a whole nother ball game. Yeah, England know how to grind out results but i can't count how many times silly mistakes have cost them so much

Texas.Cowgirl:
So she asked you to buy her a burger and you got traumatized?

Damn dude, na burger nau. She didnt ask you to buy her a whole cow


Chris, STFUUUUUUU

It really doesn't matter what she had asked me. What matters is the idea behind asking a guy for anything when you ain't married. He's not entitled to do anything for you if you ain't married.

The last thing i want is for my daughter or mom to ask another man for money. That'll be a fukin disgrace to me, what i stand for and my role in their lives.

Texas.Cowgirl:
Bla bla bla.........chics demand stuff from you cuz you look and act like you'd easily give it

They don't, i give only if and when i want to. Besides, I've only had one girl ask me directly. I'm only giving a possible argument just to understand the psychology behind a grown azz able bodied woman asking another for money

ogugua88: Ahn ahn. Isn't there a derailers's paradise?

I was expecting that Ok sorry ogugua

Lets talk Nigerian girls and the economy. The reason why they demand financial assistance from their boyfriends is basically because the society in itself is built on materialism.
What people see on TV, the society, expectations and the way the homes are set up and families are all major in this. The get rich or die trying factor as well. Plus it's uncommon to see a girl from a good home exhibiting this behavior....good speech

Chris needs to shut up

Texas.Cowgirl:
Hater.....


Yes, I know. It's quite a load on my back

when did you become idowuogbo

shymexx: England will always make it through the group stages, regardless.

And they'll always hold their own against any team.

With the current team set up and up against teams like Brazil, Spain and Germany, i can only laugh

See bootay

Texas.Cowgirl:
OMG get this dude off the state....where's drake, Lil Wayne, etc?

Wizzy is so incoherent these days, he needs to stay off pot .

Bish don't kill my vibe

Idowuogbo: Eeeeeeeeeeewwh!

Best thing since sliced bread, give it a try

Texas.Cowgirl:
See?

I'm psychotic

Agreed

Texas.Cowgirl:
Mtchewwww see who is talking sef. No be you dey chop egusi with mashed potatoe?

Hahahaha

Man, i ate that stuff and i felt like i just received a punch from Mike Tyson, i slept off while standing

Texas.Cowgirl:
Lmaoooooo

I want to watch Black Nativity. Can't wait.



Na crime?

I don't even know 95% of the peeps on stage.

I'm not surprised you sound like a very white white girl

Idowuogbo: Kai! Ileke, so u no sabi Miguel?


Village gal!

village gal from Ekiti