Hi everyone,

I see people almost everyday saying
they must have their own child or
children.

I want to ask if we really NEED a child
or children.

People pretty much have kids just to prove that they can

Individual opinion . . . whatever . . . i'lld love to have someone to call me "mama"!

They proof they can have babies
without any purpose?

Abi?

There is nothing except what makes you to live that we really need.
They are good to have and only individual would determine what they want and what they need and good for them

wealthyguy:

They proof they can have babies
without any purpose?

Abi?

Yea.

Yes I do.

ThiefOfHearts:

Yea.

Does it mean we should go ahead
and have children without a purpose
for them?

children are not a necessity

Outstrip:

children are not a necessity

Hmmmmm, ?

Where is the confusion

wealthyguy:

Does it mean we should go ahead
and have children without a purpose
for them?

No but some people feel they have to.

Outstrip:

Where is the confusion

No confusion at all.

Just wondering if the guy
really meant what he said.

Outstrip:

children are not a necessity

what makes children a necessity?

without doubt they are good to have, but that doesn't mean they are necessary.

I hear of marriages breaking down because one party is sterile or some such, and I always ask did they marry for kids or love and companionship?

just my opinion sha.

who's a guy?

Be fruitful nd multiply. We need children cos they r the future

ThiefOfHearts:

who's a guy?

Oops!

You are the guy.

I know you are a female.

I hope you're not offended.

Children should be a gift but people now turn kids into a mark of fertility or whateva! Afterwards, a lot of parents can't handle the commitment it takes to bring up a child!!!! It's sad to stop at traffic lights and see kids begging and what not, it's soooooooo not right!!!! Being a parent is a life time commitment, not until ur tired, if you can't hack it, don't have any.

yes