E, Happy New Year

You too darl happy appy happy newyear , stay beautiful

You guys are very funny at times. live-in or live-out girlfriend or loser. A girl who is in love, show it but not to the extreme so that you would have a shock absorber para-venture the love becomes sour.

A man can marry a virgin, prostitute or whatever and if he want to cheat on her, he will still cheat on her. it is not a question of pride or decency as per say but buy the special grace of God that we are all directed to meet our desire heart for life. I really don't see any thing wrong in living-in girl friend excerpt, you are all players



cheers.

Nigerians will never change? Why do they know about value? They just make mouth from morning till night without even knowing what they are talking about.

Everything in that country is unilateral. Why is it that the woman has to be the one to prove she is a wife material? It seems at the end of the day, even though people claim otherwise, women don't have the choice of whom to marry. All the men do is to test and dump until he finds the right one. Women have to subject themselves to this humiliation.
And what the Bleep is the "wife-material" thingy? It's very degrading. Only in Africa where people are so obsessed with marriage that expression could be coined.

back to the topic. Living together is OK by me. If you don't accept it fine. If you start making noise to make people accept it please find the nearest bridge. Too much noise pollution.

Polythene married is allowed, provided you don't come out emotionally frustrated for another relationship. An elderly male friend once told me, no matter how sexually experienced you are, don't show them off to a guy you are not yet married to. So live with him, give him all and what else does he expect from you? Nothing, so why the need to formalise it?

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I have nothing against it,it works for some people and dont work for some,i think its good to know who your going to marry and if ur not compartable u walk instead of geting a divorce later.
u never know who ur dating very well untill u live with them,these days alot of people prefer to live together before marriage .