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Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by DANO1011(m): 10:19am On Apr 17, 2016
The first point of view is -- is it a sin to kiss your boyfriend? I don't think it is. A kiss is a pleasurable thing and can be quite innocent.
The second point of view is -- is there any good reason to wait until you are married to kiss? I think so! Here are a few:

-1- While a kiss may not be a sin, the kiss has the power to unleash passions that may lead a couple to sinning. It stirs up desires within the couple that they are not ready to act upon. So a kiss can cause a great deal of struggle and confusion in a relationship.

-2- I'd like to challenge you to think of a kiss as something more than "just a kiss". If you walked in and saw me kissing a man who was not my husband, you'd be scandalized -- and rightfully so! You see, deep down, we all know that a kiss is something so much more than "just a kiss"! (Remember, each time you kiss a boyfriend -- you are possibly kissing someone else's future husband. Wouldn't you want your future husband to save up his kisses for you?)


-3- When it comes to physical intimacy (kissing included) -- think of it as a treasure chest filled with jewels and gold. Each time you dip into that treasure chest you are robbing your future husband of his rightful treasure! What a shame it would be to get to your wedding night and find that your treasure chests are depleted, maybe even empty!



My recommendation is this: Store up the treasure of your physical affection before marriage and you'll find that the pleasure and excitement of married love will be far greater than you could ever imagine! This is God's great plan and design -- what an awesome God we have! If you save your best for God, than He'll be free to give you His best!

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Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by muayyat20(m): 10:28am On Apr 17, 2016
According to Islam its a sin.
due to:
it can cause further to illegal sex. and the Quran is very clear on this. (Qur'an 17:34). which says go not near illegal sex, indeed its a great sin.
and perhaps we know kiss can be a step to getting into it.
http://aqal.uiwap.com/Islam/
Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by DANO1011(m): 10:33am On Apr 17, 2016
muayyat20:
According to Islam its a sin.
due to:
it can cause further to illegal sex. and the Quran is very clear on this. (Qur'an 17:34). which says go not near illegal sex, indeed its a great sin.
and perhaps we know kiss can be a step to getting into it.
http://aqal.uiwap.com/Islam/
Yeah, you are right!
Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by juniorportland(m): 10:43am On Apr 17, 2016
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Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by SweetieConstie(f): 10:47am On Apr 17, 2016
Great post! Nice write-up! Thumbs up OP...






However, the Bible according to 2 Timothy 2:22 says "Flee also youthful lusts....." Kissing is a youthful lust and should not be engaged in except when married!


May God bestow upon us the grace to remain pure both in spirit and in flesh! Amen!!

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Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by JoeCutie(m): 10:52am On Apr 17, 2016
SweetieConstie:
Great post! Nice write-up! Thumbs up OP...






However, the bible according to 2 Timothy 2:22 says "Flee also youthful lusts....." Kissing is a youthful lust and should not be engaged in except when married.


May God bestow upon us the grace to remain pure both in spirit and in flesh! Amen!!
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Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by pearl360(f): 10:58am On Apr 17, 2016
Hmmmm!

Okay then. Noted.
It's kinda difficult though lipsrsealed
Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by SweetieConstie(f): 10:58am On Apr 17, 2016
JoeCutie:
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Difficult to believe, right?grin



But that's what the Bible says! smiley
Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by ifenes(m): 11:02am On Apr 17, 2016
A sin to whom?
Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by DANO1011(m): 11:10am On Apr 17, 2016
SweetieConstie:
Great post! Nice write-up! Thumbs up OP...






However, the Bible according to 2 Timothy 2:22 says "Flee also youthful lusts....." Kissing is a youthful lust and should not be engaged in except when married!


May God bestow upon us the grace to remain pure both in spirit and in flesh! Amen!!
Amen
Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by JoeCutie(m): 11:13am On Apr 17, 2016
SweetieConstie:
Difficult to believe, right?grin



But that's what the Bible says! smiley
Believe? No, not that. It's actually very easy to believe. But the magic isn't in the believing, but in the practicing. It's not feasible. Not realistic at all.



You mean the same Bible that condems the eating of pork? The putting on of men's garment by women? The Bible actually condems a lot of things, but how many of them do we do? The Bible even says we should condemn people who harken to change, that they are not to be trusted. And here, we say change is the only constant thing in life
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Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by Peritus(m): 12:28pm On Apr 17, 2016
It can only be right if you can do the same with your sister, brother, mother, and grandmother in the open. if you can't, then consider it sinful. You didn't mention hug because you know you can do so to the listed.
Re: Is It A Sin To Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by Peritus(m): 12:36pm On Apr 17, 2016
JoeCutie:
Believe? No, not that. It's actually very easy to believe. But the magic isn't in the believing, but in the practicing. It's not feasible. Not realistic at all.



You mean the same Bible that condems the eating of pork? The putting on of men's garment by women? The Bible actually condems a lot of things, but how many of them do we do? The Bible even says we should condemn people who harken to change, that they are not to be trusted. And here, we say change is the only constant thing in life
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The first question is whether it is right to keep girlfriend, in the context of its meaning, when you know you can only share passion, affection and lust.
As regards men putting on women's cloth and vice versa. The Bible was actually talking about cross dressing. Men dressing like women and women dressing like men and not the issue of trouser that we made it to be. Some trousers are actually females'.

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