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There is dix Lady av bn crushing on for yrs. I won't lie to u, I like her so much but the problem is that she kept on ''putting me on a long thing '- saying we can only be fwendz and nt bf& gf. I don't wanna be fwend zoned so I av bn trying to avoid her for months now . I tried deleting her no on my phone but up till now av nt forgotten her phone no . I kept on thinking about her everyday despite trying to move on . I saw her today I couldn't resist her on sighting her but I had to form a bad guy by not relating well with her like b4 but deep down , I am still tripping for big tym.
I tried other options by chatting up other ladies and asking them out yet her picture keeping flashing thru my brain at end of d day when I am about to sleep.

I like girls like YQ but I have two basic problems : 1. Fear of approaching the ladies I admire so much bkos I was turned down b4 and that I may not be loved back 2. I am confused kos I don't know those tbat like me from those that don't give a fu*ck.

Pls I dont want to be fwend zoned and at the same time I dont want to die of "konji".

I need the basic skills in winning ladies hearts ...when it comes to ladies , I am nt always the lucky and fortunate type ; I have nightmares .

I need you to help me I am nt getting younger anymore

Op u dnt hav money. Dats just ur problem.. make money.. no babe will turn u down allah

As I dey so nw, I no fit toast babe onto say chips are seriously down.. buh na wen money just show.. ehen.. I go toast.

talk2alabama:
Op u dnt hav money. Dats just ur problem.. make money.. no babe will turn u down allah

Money is not everything my friends, you guys needs to change dis disturbing mentality that women are items to be bought with money cus the last tym I checked, they are not. The way you hold yourself out to others matters a lots, for if you fink money is everything on earth you will definitely be attracted to people who thinks lyk you.




@Op believe me all you need in dis whole wide world to surmount dis ur current challenge is within you for no amount of books or talks can help you. Dat a lady once turn down your advances is not a reason to back off forever. Great man and women never give up no matter what.

*All is well *

yeye

it's not all about money...maybe d babe is trying to play hard...ADVICE=don't stop...keep going...she will accept later...no girl wants to be called a "CHEAP"....she just want to play hard...if u really love her...DON'T GIVE UP ON HER.....

Ego

KingsJohnson:
Money is not everything my friends, you guys needs to change dis disturbing mentality that women are items to be bought with money cus the last tym I checked, they are not. The way you hold yourself out to others matters a lots, for if you fink money is everything on earth you will definitely be attracted to people who thinks lyk you.




@Op believe me all you need in dis whole wide world to surmount dis ur current challenge is within you for no amount of books or talks can help you. Dat a lady once turn down your advances is not a reason to back off forever. Great man and women never give up no matter what.

op pls let's tell ourselves the truth abeg. Every lady has a price tag! Dats it

Lagban:
There is dix Lady av bn crushing on for yrs. I won't lie to u, I like her so much but the problem is that she kept on ''putting me on a long thing '- saying we can only be fwendz and nt bf& gf. I don't wanna be fwend zoned so I av bn trying to avoid her for months now . I tried deleting her no on my phone but up till now av nt forgotten her phone no . I kept on thinking about her everyday despite trying to move on . I saw her today I couldn't resist her on sighting her but I had to form a bad guy by not relating well with her like b4 but deep down , I am still tripping for big tym.
I tried other options by chatting up other ladies and asking them out yet her picture keeping flashing thru my brain at end of d day when I am about to sleep.

I like girls like YQ but I have two basic problems : 1. Fear of approaching the ladies I admire so much bkos I was turned down b4 and that I may not be loved back 2. I am confused kos I don't know those tbat like me from those that don't give a fu*ck.

Pls I dont want to be fwend zoned and at the same time I dont want to die of "konji".

I need the basic skills in winning ladies hearts ...when it comes to ladies , I am nt always the lucky and fortunate type ; I have nightmares .

I need you to help me I am nt getting younger anymore

I THOT I HEARD SOMEBODY CALL MA NAME

flexyfit:
it's not all about money...maybe d babe is trying to play hard...ADVICE=don't stop...keep going...she will accept later...no girl wants to be called a "CHEAP"....she just want to play hard...if u really love her...DON'T GIVE UP ON HER.....

This is the 2nd yr oooo but she still picks my call, I do pay her visit (up to 2hrs per visit) once in a while .

Lagban:
This is the 2nd yr oooo but she still picks my call, I do pay her visit (up to 2hrs per visit) once in a while .

....don't count all the things u have been doing....just focus on getting her....remember...girls like to play hard to get....