Treating a woman well requires a combination of common courtesy and uncommon acts of love and kindness. Follow the steps below, and soon your woman will see you for what you are: one of the good guys.


1. Communicate your feelings.
Some men underestimate the importance of telling a woman how they feel. In many cases, men prefer to use actions rather than words to communicate their feelings. If that sounds like you, you should know that women need to hear "I love you" from time to time, so make it a point to express that sentiment.

2. Be a good listener.
Everyone--not only women--wants to be heard. If you know how to listen, your woman will greatly appreciate it, and the bond between you two will grow.

3. Ask her how she's feeling.
In many cases, you'll know exactly how the woman in your life is feeling, but sometimes, especially when a relationship is new, you'll have to ask.

4. Be polite.
Women like to hear "please" and "thank you." Even if you've been dating a while or married a long time, don't throw manners out the window. Show her the same thoughtfulness you'd show anyone else.

5. Treat her family well.
Even if she says that she's not close with her family, always be respectful toward them and avoid criticizing them. Family bonds can be strong, and parents and siblings can influence a woman's decision to date or dump a guy.

6. Avoid Jealousy
Being jealous of male friends, co-workers and exes without good reason tells a woman that you consider her to be deceitful and of low moral character. Not a message you want to send to someone you care for. A lady needs to know that you trust her.

7. Help around the house.
If you are married it means you two live together, so pitch in on chores. Both of you are responsible for the housework. Don't expect her to constantly pick up after you. One of the surest ways to a woman's heart is with a vacuum cleaner in one hand and a box of laundry detergent in the other.

8. Acknowledge special occasions.
Be sure you're ready with a card and a gift when her birthday rolls around, or it's time to celebrate Christmas, Valentine's Day or a Wedding Anniversary. Marking these and other occasions with tokens of love and appreciation are a great way to make a woman feel special. Remember, too, that right or wrong, her family and friends will likely ask her what you got her or how the two of you celebrated. Don't put your woman on the spot by forcing her to lie or to admit that you let the occasion pass without recognition.

9. Understand that little things mean a lot.
While big romantic gestures may have their place, it's the little things that show a woman how much she means to you. Scratch out a quick note, send her a text or a Whatsapp message to let her know you're thinking of her. If she has a big day coming up. Send her a message of encouragement and support. Show her in some way each day that you're thinking of her and trying to make her life a bit easier and happier.

10. Give compliments.
Learn to always compliment your woman on her appearance. Dispel any insecurities by saying nice things about parts of her body she might feel less than great about or her outfit, and don't forget to compliment the things you find most attractive about her. Don't underestimate the impact of a simple "You look beautiful".

11. Pop the question.
If you love her, you're ready to settle down and you know she's the one, then make the commitment. If you plan to propose marriage, be sure you mean it. Buy a ring if you can, get on one knee and tell her that you can't imagine your life without her and ask if she'll do you the honor of becoming your wife.

Thank God it aint ''11 ways to treat a NAIJA babe....''

@KingRex1
Lol... Naija or the rest of the world they all have the same configuration, settings or programming

khalidqudus:
@KingRex1
Lol... Naija or the rest of the world they all have the same configuration, settings or programming

Nah, the social system causes a reconfiguration of the mind.
Seriously, u didnt say anythin bout Money, Gifts, takin her Shoppin..et al

I categorized it under special occasions. So if she ask you anything just post her till special occasions at least until you guys are married.

Okay. I'll pop the question soon.