U gotta admit it Affi. In most situations the elders have tasted salt more than us so we need to consider their thoughts

someone is in dream land.

Simple, tell him privately he will change it for you.

Then u let him know u dont like it.

Naphysate:

Then u let him know u dont like it.

prettyuc:

Simple, tell him privately he will change it for you.

That might be hard for some women.

I have met some that have this asinine expectations of telepathic powers in their man, and if they don't see this powers then something is wrong.

Those types will not think of just saying it and cajoling him to get what they want. They depress themselves into the mentation that "He should know, and if he doesn't know then he does not love me or he is not romantic or this relationship is not working". 

Easy say "I don't want to marry you" (Joke pls don't take seriously)

Still laughing real hard at the topic!! Wicked. . . Wicked question. . . roflol. . . I do pray HE involves me in the ring purchase thingy cos I cannot pretend! I've always imagined it in my head. . . I might just burst out crying if I consider the ring U G L Y!! lol

SAGAMITE!!! u just described me!!! Have we met before lol, I've always been telepathic with my EX-s. . . Oh, we are discussing ugly rings here!!! lol

parislomo:

SAGAMITE!!! u just described me!!! Have we met before lol, I've always been telepathic with my EX-s. . . Oh, we are discussing ugly rings here!!! lol

Yes!

That is why we are no longer together. 

If he loves you enough to wish to marry you, he'd be glad to change the ring to something you are comfortable with. I believe the issue here is not the value of the ring, but the design?  

But i'd expect a smart bloke who has wooed his chic over time to have an inkling on her tastes in jewelry,

I'll tell him. . . . how disappointed I am @ his choice of eng.ring! ewww!
Nywayz, we'll go get smth better!

Affi, not good ooo


otokz, who is in dream land?


prettyuc and Naphysate, and how do you tell?


Sagamite, wow! Thats a little strange ooo. . . Am glad I dont have to come accross it. But for me, knowing my bf, he always must ell me before he does something especially when it has to do with the both of us.


X Fio. Heheh! But we are talking about the hatred for the engagement ring here, not about not loving the person.


Utaroz. u'll be surprise. . . . In oday's modern world, people get married after meeting like what? 1 week? 2 months? How on earth are they suppose to know each other better when they only meet like for a while. Talk about Instant cooking love!


Moyola, U are very direct. I like it but hopefully your fiance can handle it as well. 

e no pass mek u change am

Its not that easy to just change it naaa. U might hurt the person's felings once accidently said in a harsh way