MARRIAGE: 4 PROMISES GUYS CAN’T KEEP


The word promise is one of the most occurring words in marital relationships. Promise means to tell someone that you will definitely do something or something will happen.


For a courtship to lead to marriage, a promise must be kept. Even a lasting Marriage is a promise well kept.
In courtship, guys make several promises to ladies who make them happy and eager for wedding but there are some of these promises that cannot be kept by men in marriage. Is it becoming a puzzle to you? Read on and get the clarifications.


1. I WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU: Being together as husband and wife is one of the most treasured times in marriage but it is not possible to be together for 24 hours in 365 days in a year. He can’t always be where you were all the time. There are times both of you will be in two different places. For instance when you go to your various offices or when one of you is on official assignment out of your locality. What matter most is faithfulness ­though you may be out of sight but not out of heart. Don’t play a fast game against one another. Let there be re-assurance and constant phone calls echoed with this magical trio i.e. “I love you”.


2. I WILL NEVER HURT YOU: It is not possible for two people to live together without offending one another. He will definitely offend you while you too cannot but offend him.
Though it may not be deliberate even in courtship, expect it. If he’s keeping a clean sheet in courtship ­beware! He must be pretending and he will later explode in marriage. Certain actions of his will hurt you but you must be ready to forgive without nursing its wound. Expect mis-understanding, it is the pathway to understanding. No matter what happens, friendliness should be a hallmark of a Christian home because ­marriage is a union between two imperfect people working towards perfection.


3. I WILL D0 EVERYTHING FOR YOU: He must have turned this to lyrics that is sang to your hearing almost every time you meet but the truth is you will be disappointed in marriage, If this is your expectations because he can’t do everything for you. He may teach you how to drive, pay the house rents, bought clothes for you but consider when he will be down without physical ability to do anything even machine, breakdown atimes. He can’t carry the pregnancy for you, it’s exclusive for ladies, and he can only demonstrate care during the period. He can be in the labour room with you during delivery but can’t experience the pain in the process of delivery. But the real man will stay with his wife in hospital duringdelivery while careless men will neglect their wives at this period.


4. I WILL PROVIDE FOR ALL YOUR NEEDS: Don’t go into marriage with the aim of having all your needs met lest you lose passion for the man you married. There atimes when something are not within his reach which may be due to financial inability. Of course, he can’t give you what he didn’t have. You don’t have to be offended for marriage is not just about receiving alone, you too have to give something in return-contribute your own quota towards the development of that union. Complement one another’s effort. Don’t look for what to get rather seek for what to give. He can’t provide for all your needs, only God can do this. Get this into your mind and don’t be offended while he falls short of this.

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source: http://bisiadewale.com/marriage-4-promises-guys-cannot-keep/

Seriously?........ who takes those words literally?!

Will read at dawn!


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Op, how much is fuel in your area?

Laveda:
Will read at dawn!


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you better read it now. Your boyfriend is lying to you.

Laveda:
Will read at dawn!


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Dont mind d op, e no sabi say clients dey wait 4 u to service by dis time of d day.

Festivalofholi:
Dont mind d op, e no sabi say clients dey wait 4 u to service by dis time of d day.

na people like you dey mk me call her olosho laveda

unapapadeycraze:



na people like you dey mk me call her olosho laveda

And u come dey expect her to read ur meaningless epistle by dis time, wen clients dey wait 4 her.

Laveda:
Will read at dawn!


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do you rap?

because those promises are unrealistic

No sane lady will believe 3 & 4 for this kain economy. Any guy who can't keep 1 & 2 definitely has a personal problem that needs urgency. Sometimes our dear ladies need these bogus promises more than the reality of it all, so we give it just as they want it.

I will never cheat on you :-XI :-XI...ifa hear say there has been any man that has kept to this promise

Lazy girl. School exam, she no pass....Work, she no learn....Na boyfriend promise be her way out. SMH....dey dia dey wait for ready made until dem use borrowed car chop your goodies finish... .
Haba! Do everything for you. Kilode?.. If GEJ do everything for Dame Patience Jonathan. Him go fit reach President? If Barack Obama do everything for Michelle Obama, will Obama win Presidential election? Oh....Naija guys can only do everything for u temporarily to reach ur downtown, and when mission is accomplished, dey run back to dia 'surulere/enduring wife/babe. WISE UP AND BE A COMPLIMENT FOR YOUR MAN.

Jerryolumide:
do you rap?

not really, why ask?

This op thread get sense today o, infact, i was impressed. Neva tot u can post a meaniful thread like dis. Ur moniker name though.

Laveda:


not really, why ask?

nothing, I've never met a female that raps or love rap, face to face

Jerryolumide:
nothing, I've never met a female that raps or love rap, face to face

Okay lol I'm not good at it.
Tho I got a thing for hip hop.

We got so many of them tho, you just haven't met.

Laveda:


Okay lol I'm not good at it.
Tho I got a thing for hip hop.

We got so many of them tho, you just haven't met.

sweet. I'll love to hear you spit a verse

Hmm

and no 1 should have been " I will never cheat on you"

lies everywhere！

Catholic Wedding Vows:

"I,lalasticlal ___, take you, lalasticlal___, for my lawful wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, until death do us part." "I, lala, take you,lala, to be my husband/wife."

I cant find where all these commitments are pronounced in my church

where is unapapadeycraze??

who dey promise des days?

Okay

Mtcheeew

I (lalasticla) promise U (Front page) to never impose snake related threads on U forever & ever

Really?

Who says these things, when you are not God. It's only God that can't disappoint.

I think what is essential is letting your partner know that you want your relationship to work and you will play your role as much as God empowers you to.