1. Realise God's love for you (John 3:16). Remember that He loves you so much that He gave you His best Gift already-JESUS and He won't hesitateto give you another of his sons/daughters here on earth. All you need do is to trust him. Give him your heart and trust him.

2. Realise it's okay to be single. Enjoy being single. Love every bit of yourself. Remember God's love and this should give you some sense of self worth. Know that you only need God to make it. You can only love as much as you love yourself.

3. Commune with God for a partner. Trust him to order your steps and be well positioned.

4. Be ready: I have heard of people saying that they 've seen the will of God even at 200 level. without a job.. without any thing and they even approach the girl. It eventually doesn't last. I am not saying God doesn't speak or reveal His mind any such points in one's life.. but you should chill and wait to you are ready before you propose. Conceive in your heart what you have received like Mary was told. Pray about it. Get a good and stable source of income.

5. Be lovable. I mean appear nice, wear a smile, let the Grace of God flow freely within you. If you are a guy, learn accountability with time and money. learn to be faithful with your words. You are a child of God let people see that in you. Ladies should dress moderately ( though relative) in a way that is distinct from the girl in the club and a sex worker. they should also be virtuous and wise. all these characteristics can only be found in Christ.

6. Be well positioned. If you meet her at the club, You will lose her at the club. Don't act in isolated. mingle and socialise. Don't be too "religious" else you 'll get boring and unapproachable.

7. This is very important. Every dream or revelation or confirmation by any man of God should be brought under the scrutiny of God's Word. Don't be man led. but spirit led.

8. The Bible makes it clear that we should marry in the Lord. So only Marry a believer. God has the best for you. yet He want impose the best on you. He leaves you with a choice. You have a choice but "In God's will".

9.Dating already? Watch out for Godly characters in him/her. Don't ever think you can change him/her. You aren't God. That's God's business. He changes people not you. Your business is to walk out of an unGodly/violent courtship.

10. Lastly, Preserve yourself for him/her. Don't let immoral act spoil the joy meant for your marriage. Dont lose your virginity to him/her because you think you love him/her. if he loves you so much, he Will wait for you. It's not how you feel. it's how God feels. Immorality is sin not only against God but against you body.

Pray for him/her even before u meet.

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I'm sure Pastor Chris (yeah, the two of 'em) read all these and even taught them yet ......

IT is very risky to marry or court under the cover of religion, cos a lot will be pushed under the carpet to keep their born again status quo, but when it eventually shows, it is always too late.

Marry your friend, quarrel, resolve and do everything and anything together

ITbomb:
I'm sure Pastor Chris (yeah, the two of 'em) read all these and even taught them yet ......

IT is very risky to marry or court under the cover of religion, cos a lot will be pushed under the carpet to keep their born again status quo, but when it eventually shows, it is always too late.

Marry your friend, quarrel, resolve and do everything and anything together

Well, it's risky when it's under "religion" but its safe when Christ is the foundation, not dreams, or some suggestions from one pastor or prophesy.

With what i knw already; If i make the wrong choice, it'll be my Fault. I get.

which virginity are you talking about the one we lost at 2years old

zeb04:
which virginity are you talking about the one we lost at 2years old

2 years! How?