Are you ready to get a gf/wife and enjoy all the fun that comes with a race romantic relationship ?? Or you want to continue making excuses, talking yourself out of approaches and spending lonely nights with your Vaseline (no pun intended).

If yes, you can either read on bro or just close this page; and keep on living a life of excuses while your friends, who are more socially aware keep getting all the beautiful girls.

Stated below are 5 attitudes/mistakes which can automatically turn a girl off and suggestions on what you should do instead.

1) Whining - To whine is to complain annoyingly. Take back sec and think about your previous Convo/relationship in which you complained bitterly. Was all all the whining worth it? I bet your answer is no

Learn to always sort things out I'm a mature way. If you continue whining, it won't be long before she starts comparing you with other guys.

2) Clinging/Neediness- This is one of the biggest turnoffs for most women. In the dating scene, it means being emotionally dependent on a woman.

Are you needy?

Logically evaluate your previous convos/relationships to see if you are a victim of this attitude. If yes, then learn to give women space. Allow them to be their own person bro.

3) Tightwad/Stingy How stingy are you bro? Do you freely give? I do not mean giving like a maga or ATM oh.. . Learn to give to a girl when she deserves it. Armed with this idea you won't given like a "maga" or be considered as one. For example, a guy sending cash/or 1500 MTN to a girl who doesn'tfl call him/or give him attention is a pure "maga". She doesn't value you bro, so why waste your time?. Only do things for girls when they deserve it or when they are invested in you too.

4) Laziness Are your passionate about your life or just like spending hours looking/chatting with girls? Chatting and looking for girls all day will, in the long run, only make you look jobless and lazy.

Get busy with yourself bro. Focus on your dreams and aspirations( Work, School, Hobbies,Talents). Start doing something worthy and women will like and appreciate you more.

5) Over eagerness for Intimacy/Groping- This one is huge. You will need to understand attraction is in stages before you get rid of this one. You met a girl off this morning and you want her to be your wife/gf on thwe evening of that same day? Calm down bro.

Attraction, as it pertains to women, is not a logical thing- it's emotional bro. No need to rush it. If you are exhibiting the qualities of a bf/husband/ already, you won't even need to to ask her out.

Over eagerness for intimacy, often times, is a sure symptom of being clingy which invariably results in desperation.

Evaluate your dating scenarios and make the necessary corrections. Worthy mentions no included here are: jealousy and hot temper/getting angry easily.

Peace.

I dnt nid a gal friend nor a wife yet, I nid a woman friend, so what should I do and not do??

No GF No problem

bentlywills:
No GF No problem

Hahaha..all join bro

Rhesusmonkey:
I dnt nid a gal friend nor a wife yet, I nid a woman friend, so what should I do and not do??

Lol den start acting like a man friend already.

... Girl way go gree go gree simple!

What matters the most is how u use your words

I wouldn't want to say that OP is retarded or something but this post is legit backwards

I don't need

You people have come again with your list
This is Nigeria where money answereth all things not list is that clear @ OP

The only thing wey dey my mind is just to work hard so as to make myself and my parents happy... That's just my primary aim.

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If you want to be a man of value and attract ladies in your life,then avoid 1,2 and 5!

Since 2016 now front Page? When it's your time, it's your time

Girlfriend is not a priority. Getting the money is.

No 1:Get Rich

NO 2:GeT Richer

NO 3:GeT Richest

No 4:BE f*cking richer than d Richest

No 5:GeT Richer than no 4

They will all Lick ur feet. Trust me.

MGTOW’s would soon land, prepare for landing

Bullsh1t from the Pit of Hell.

I can't believe I am saying this

Guys Hustle o Make one OP no open Thread for Nairaland de Give una False Advice that worked way back 1999.

Trash

Kayoderebel:
I wouldn't want to say that OP is retarded or something but this post is legit backwards

how?

Three years ago, it's not front page worthy, why is it front page worthy now? Nairaland mods sef.

But most of your points no follow sha, only 3 and 4, at least to me

Okay

State One Advantage Of Having A Girlfriend.

Op I want money what 5 things should I stop?

since 2016

Oluwa ranti mi si rere as the mod take remember this op today

Kayoderebel:
I wouldn't want to say that OP is retarded or something but this post is legit backwards

that's because the post was made in 2016

Unfortunately, guys of nowadays don't understand ladies. Women are same all over the world. If you want to win their hearts, you have to make patience your best friend cos they like taking their time. They want to study you, consider lots of things before accepting your offer for a date. I'm talking of the serious-minded ones and not the slay queens who would hit you and run to another prey. You may think she's hard to get whereas, she's busy studying you..and if she's the wife material who's ready to get married, she goes a distance to know about you,including going spiritual. By the time you finally get married, she'd now be telling you how far she had gone without you knowing...and that's if she wants you to know at all because our women are highly secretive. Na wetin den wan make you know about them, na im you go know, no matter how much you pamper them. Whereas, on top of a delicious meal or at bed time, a man could vomit almost all he has kept in his heart to her.

Reason why you should ignore this post:

-Its from 2016, Nigeria of now if different from Nigeria of then

-OP is into (Bleep) porn, what applies in his world doesn't apply in the real world