pls i ll like to know y men alway claim they found their ex in bed with another man especially when they want to start a new relationship. do ya think they re seeking sympathy?

I think they've reached a point where there's no iota of love for the woman, so they do anything to destroy her reputation. And I think they feel it reduces the amount of possession the woman can hold unto during divorce proceedings, that's why they go on a lying spree.

my sis, its so common now, d most annoyn is that they dont wait for u to ask b4 they start tellin u crap and then u ask urself are all women cheat or they re indirectly telln u what they did

May be men usually tolerate the 'faults and weakness' of their females and the only reason for divorce is infidelity.
Anyone has statistics for the commonest reason for divorce coming from female side?

They just telling you what they think might make u fall fast.

all the men in da house pls voice ur opinion so we ladies can understand

Fhemmmy:

They just telling you what they think might make u fall fast.

Right!

My Uncle did it when he wanted a relationship with a Christian girl(he is a Muslim), so that the girl would not think she was commiting adultry, since there is a part of the Bible that says a man could put away his wife for infidelity.

The girl saw the other woman as a LovePeddler, she did not bother to confirm the story (they were all living in the same town) and married my Uncle.

My Uncle is on his third wife now. I wonder what he told the newest wife about the second wife?

@ shinatu ; what a shame. so is d xtian lady still with him

oh definitely the same old story ' SHE CHEATED'

sweetbee:

@ shinatu ; what a shame. so is d xtian lady still with him

I think she wanted to leave at one time and my Uncle had to look for some Family members to calm things down.
I asked some of the family members then what they were going to say when they got there since their son(my Uncle) had apparently messed up? But this is Nigeria, a man can never mess up,the woman must be responsible somehow and must be ready to endure.!

@Shinatu

That is a good soap script

@fhemmmy what do u mean by that.

And why do some wife think they can eat their cake and have it ?

@ Lannre
What do you mean by that?