@curvilicious,thank you, no worry power go come because nah triplet i dey pray to God to give you.

@FruitfulRay,I have heard ma'am and i have handed over everything to God.

@Dazzle86, thank and Amen to you pray cos myself want twins so that i can zip up.

@ fpeter, Thank you and as for your friend just find awayto forgive cos maybe she too was having a bad day.

@SingleEdition, Thank you very much.

@Anistef, Thanks and Amen to your prayer

@mummykyrti, you are welcome ma'am.

@Joyfulmama, so sorry for your loss and I pray God gives you double for your troubles.

Mamas, I don't even know what to say or type, I just feel so let down. I don't want to rant either. Been following this thread and commented a few times.

In all, we shall give thanks. It is well.

rvpbae:
Mamas, I don't even know what to say or type, I just feel so let down. I don't want to rant either. Been following this thread and commented a few times.

In all, we shall give thanks. It is well.

Please feel free to rant here cause it helps. Please don't be down beacause our God is able to do more than we can ever imagine.

orney:
Had this arguement with dh last week, he sed i will not av this problem if i was a virgin, i just shake head for him, a friend who aborted several times gave birth 2 wiks ago, this ttc is no respecter of wether u b virgin or not, aborted before or not, old or young, may God help us all

Big fat lie. Sometimes I even regret not starting before wedding. Well, God knows best.

I almost said this to fpeter as well but by inspiration, I suggest that fpeter should forgive her friend for that and that Dr know not what they say....Pharoah's torment on the Israelites caused their freedom. This friend and Dr's comments are registered now and God's name alone will be glorified in this situation. Your testimony will make this friend and Dr to have a remarkable encounter with God. You have conquered the devil in this situation, Congratulations Fpeter, we shall rejoice with you and remember these comments as we join you to testify when your babies arrive.
Hope you have bought baby things o, God will shock you dear. Rejoice.

favouredestiny:
@fpeter, please delete that friend from your friend list. She is not human at all. Keep doing what you are doing and I pray God blesses you very very soon. As for that doctor, he is not God and I wonder if this is how he talks to his patients. TTC isn't a child's play and people's emotions should be respected. And find a place in your heart to forgive them and pray God blesses you quickly so as to shame them that laugh at you.

curvilicious:


I've not seen ur moniker on this thread b4, are u a jjc?
Lol! You are funny o nd u think some of us have not gone thru all d tests and certified OK? Or are there other things?
If I had any issue I will be solving or thinking of how to solve it. So plz allow her type prayer to help some of us unease.

Orney my darling thanks for the encouragement

Forget him, just a markerter looking for who to devour.

ffvsquared:
I also noticed that the widd roll call for those that had their bfp for the month has stopped. Pls let's continue, it really really helps. If no one is ready to volunteer to do it, I volunteer myself (that is if you guys agree). Pls respond to this. Thanks

Please do that if you can. We appreciate. But wait ooh, that means you've been a silent follower for too long.

4realwoman:
Please feel free to rant here cause it helps. Please don't be down beacause our God is able to do more than we can ever imagine.

My dear, not as if I don't want to rant o. Just don't want to come off as ungrateful, especially being that I've been TTC for some months and I know some here have been for years. Hope you understand me?

I wish my hubby was more cooperative, he doesn't buy the idea of going for tests for me, although his SA results were great and he think it's too early to panic.

I jejely bought folic acid and bcomplex, just for taking sake. I didn't even tell him, when he found out, I just told him one story to cover up. Now I'm thinking of getting an OPK cos somehow I think I ovulate much later than the recommended time, even at that sef, we BD at least 3times a week.

So what am I saying sef?

Ref:" .... I just feel sad it looks like I carry d burden alone." I relate to this statement dear, but I think it is the devil's way of poisoning our hearts. Pray for your DH, play with him more and when he is relaxed, ask him for what you want. I believe you are the only one that knows how to get his attention. May God give you the wisdom you need to get what you want.

beautyuche:
Dear mama,
The result of my hormone profile came high. Though the Dr say not so high it is 21.9 the normal should be less than 20.He says it will not be fair to start treating me with out checking Dh sperm count.
DAT na d real work. Oga no gree.
Dr also says I check my Tubes.... I just feel sad it looks like I carry d burden alone.
Whilst I wait for dh to come around, please what tea or drug can I start taking for hormone to get normal and for the tubes to be clear.
I ovulate and see my period regularly even though it jumps in date.
Pls help.

rvpbae:



So what am I saying sef?

Am sorry but this got me laughing . My dear do not stress it. Your hubby is even more cooperative than some men. He has done SFA. For some men, you may have to pray to your ancestors before they would yield. Just hold on and take those prenatals. Your bfp will come sooner than you expect. Cheers and welcome to the group.

@ Joyfulmama...its a sad loss and I can only imagine your grief after 10 years. But I believe the miracle would happen again...and the next would stay to full term by God's grace, amen.

Fertility blessings !

CravingChic:


Am sorry but this got me laughing . My dear do not stress it. Your hubby is even more cooperative than some men. He has done SFA. For some men, you may have to pray to your ancestors before they would yield. Just hold on and take those prenatals. Your bfp will come sooner than you expect. Cheers and welcome to the group.

Amen. Your response sef made me laugh. It is well indeed. The folic acid and co I got were the emzor brand cos I felt they will look less threatening to hubby, lol.

Are there better brands that you would recommend? I want to skip pregnacare for now, huuby won't even allow me take it. I basically just want to stock up on good multivitamins for now.

It shall end in praise.

Please for those in Uyo, recommend a good hospital for me. Aside from the general hospital and the specialist hospital. Thank you

fpeter:
So, i spoke to a friend recently about my TTC struggles and she sent me a DR's info. I was skeptical at first about calling him but then i gave him a call on Monday. I told him i was dealing with tubal issues and immediately he told me that my enemy had no hope, he said IVF was the only option. I told him that it was the same DRs that said there was no remedy to blocked tubes especially the tube that had hydrosalpinx, yet I did my own research and got the tube cleared of hydrosalpinx. Then he said to me as if taunting me, that why hadn't i gotten pregnant since then...that how was i sure that the damage to my tubes were not permanent, this DR really dashed my feelings but i got over it and told God to surprise them. Then today my friend who sent me to the DR asked how far and i related my encounter to her..the next thing she said to me was that i wasn't serious, i hadn't done enough, that i wasn't trying enough, otherwise i would have gone for IVF, she said until i'd done IVF 16 times in India then she could agree that i have tried. It took a huge effort for me to control myself without lashing out at her. Meanwhile, she's also TTCing so i asked her how far with her and why did her IVF fail, she said i was feisty and cynical...that was i expecting an answer from her to use as a yardstick to make my own decisions, that do i even know if she's pregnant right now....at this point, i couldn't bear it anymore so i gave her my own piece of mind. I don't understand how someone would say another person has not tried enough, nobody knows how much the shoes hurts except the one that wears it...TTC is no joke and everyone's efforts and pace should be respected. There's no certificate for long-term or short-term TTC, some people may be able to endure 20yrs and another won't be able to endure 3yrs.

Mama I will advice u ignore that friend totally, what is hydrosalpinx in the presence of God? Infact I am a living testimony of getting pregnant with hydrosalpinx even when my gynea was suggesting tubal flushing my God surprise us all....So be rest assured that same God will surprise you before be end of the 1st half of this year.

rvpbae:


My dear, not as if I don't want to rant o. Just don't want to come off as ungrateful, especially being that I've been TTC for some months and I know some here have been for years. Hope you understand me?

I wish my hubby was more cooperative, he doesn't buy the idea of going for tests for me, although his SA results were great and he think it's too early to panic.

I jejely bought folic acid and bcomplex, just for taking sake. I didn't even tell him, when he found out, I just told him one story to cover up. Now I'm thinking of getting an OPK cos somehow I think I ovulate much later than the recommended time, even at that sef, we BD at least 3times a week.

So what am I saying sef?

Is not just your dh alone, most men are like that. I told dh the day before yesterday or so that the dr said if we try for 6months and nothing happens, that both of us will run some test which include SFA and blood test for him and the man i married doesnt want to use his ear to hear injection oo, i also told him that as for the SFA he will be the one to bring the sperm out by himself cos i don't think hospitals have hotel room inside for me to help him out
knowning that he doesnt really want to go tru the stress i brought wellman conception and immuance for him yesterday and i just pray he take them and even if it means putting it inside eba or semo to swollow. Our dh's are like babies and as such they want us to always pat them in doing things.
You can start with the drugs that you have already and i pray you get result soon.

Thanks my lovely E-family for your kind mentions. I know for sure that this year will be filled with lots of pleasant surprises.
Our sure BFPs are coming, our heaven sent packages are coming in singles,doubles,triples,quadruples, as we desire them.

Thank God it's friday!

4realwoman:
Is not just your dh alone, most men are like that. I told dh the day before yesterday or so that the dr said if we try for 6months and nothing happens, that both of us will run some test which include SFA and blood test for him and the man i married doesnt want to use his ear to hear injection oo, i also told him that as for the SFA he will be the one to bring the sperm out by himself cos i don't think hospitals have hotel room inside for me to help him out
knowning that he doesnt really want to go tru the stress i brought wellman conception and immuance for him yesterday and i just pray he take them and even if it means putting it inside eba or semo to swollow. Our dh's are like babies and as such they want us to always pat them in doing things.
You can start with the drugs that you have already and i pray you get result soon.

You can even buy drugs, I dare not buy sef. But for his SFA, I assisted him o, luckily the hospital was less than 5mins drive from the house. So he immediately rushed there to drop it after the 'do'.

It shall end in praise

Even the beasts of the field and the fowls of the air are reproducing their kinds.
A mentally challenged woman without any form of antenatal care had her own.
how much more we that acknowledge God, we who go to hospitals and undergo different medical treatments.


https://www.nairaland.com/3793878/mentally-unstable-woman-gives-birth#56439549

rvpbae:


Amen. Your response sef made me laugh. It is well indeed. The folic acid and co I got were the emzor brand cos I felt they will look less threatening to hubby, lol.

Are there better brands that you would recommend? I want to skip pregnacare for now, huuby won't even allow me take it. I basically just want to stock up on good multivitamins for now.

It shall end in praise.

Folic is okay.

CravingChic:


Folic is okay.

I think that Emzor folic acid is 5mg which might be too much. 400mcg is the recommended dosage.

Good day my lovely sisters, how are you all doing today?

Mamas and papa's in the house I dey Hola. Please tell me what to do. I am worried and getting frustrated. I saw my menses on the 19th of last month and this month, it came out on the 10th which is just 22 cycle days and it's not even coming out well the way it should. I have done pregnancy test and it came out negative although before the menses, I was lactating and all of a sudden it dried up and my nipples has been paining me since then till now. I am not on any medication aside folic acid, vit b6 and bco. Please your humble advice is needed badly.

lavivaavril:


I think that Emzor folic acid is 5mg which might be too much. 400mcg is the recommended dosage.

Good day my lovely sisters, how are you all doing today?

A Dr I met told me that 5mg is what we need cos we are in a malaria endemic zone. Said 400mcg is too small.
It's the 5mg that is given during antenatal.

chypoo86500:
Mamas and papa's in the house I dey Hola. Please tell me what to do. I am worried and getting frustrated. I saw my menses on the 19th of last month and this month, it came out on the 10th which is just 22 cycle days and it's not even coming out well the way it should. I have done pregnancy test and it came out negative although before the menses, I was lactating and all of a sudden it dried up and my nipples has been paining me since then till now. I am not on any medication aside folic acid, vit b6 and bco. Please your humble advice is needed badly.

Y not wait for a week and then repeat d pregnancy test.is ur cycle 22 days?

CravingChic:

Folic is okay.

Ok dear, thanks.

lavivaavril:


I think that Emzor folic acid is 5mg which might be too much. 400mcg is the recommended dosage.

Good day my lovely sisters, how are you all doing today?

Really? Since I know something, na emzor we dey take for house o. one tablet daily.

Mamas please I have 2 questions. Which CD is best to carry out hormonal profile, and for mamas that have used or still using dong quai are my suppose to take it on an empty stomach or after meal?

lapagegirl:
Mamas please I have 2 questions. Which CD is best to carry out hormonal profile, and for mamas that have used or still using dong quai are my suppose to take it on an empty stomach or after meal?

CD3 for LH, FSH, PROLACTIN and CD21 for PEOGESTERONE.

chumz11:
Y not wait for a week and then repeat d pregnancy test.is ur cycle 22 days?

my cycle is 27/28 days.

rvpbae:
Please for those in Uyo, recommend a good hospital for me. Aside from the general hospital and the specialist hospital. Thank you

Hi, i am in Uyo. You can use "Our Lady of Lourdes". It's at Ekpanya street off Ikpa Road. But he will insist that you bring your hubby along.

MGeey:


Hi, i am in Uyo. You can use "Our Lady of Lourdes". It's at Ekpanya street off Ikpa Road. But he will insist that you bring your hubby along.

Ok, thank you so much.

CravingChic:
@ Joyfulmama...its a sad loss and I can only imagine your grief after 10 years. But I believe the miracle would happen again...and the next would stay to full term by God's grace, amen.

Fertility blessings !

Thank you ma'am. Amen to the prayers. We shall all testify soon IJN

4realwoman:
CD3 for LH, FSH, PROLACTIN and CD21 for PEOGESTERONE.

thank you ma.