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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Azaebere: 9:20pm On May 02, 2018
Joime:
My e-sisters, just found out today that I had another missed miscarriage. Devastated but can't question God. Never knew I was preggo again.

So sorry about your loss dear. God will strengthen you and reward you with another in double in Jesus name Amen
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Azaebere: 9:24pm On May 02, 2018
2Ballz:
To those having their BFP,I formally give my prayer for you all to a full term till birth per vaginum.

Amen. Welcome back.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Hypraise(f): 9:51pm On May 02, 2018
Lynda1 congratulations! May you carry to term in joy and health, and have a healthy delivery as well, in Jesus Name. Amen.

Joime, so sorry about your loss. I pray you recover quickly. May you receive double for your troubles, in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Cuppymummy: 10:25pm On May 02, 2018
fruitfulnathia:
May this affirmation encourage someone, it does for me:

"My enemies will retreat when I call to you for help. This I know: God is on my side!" (Psalms 56:9 NLT)

Ask yourself: what are my enemies? Endometriosis? PCOS? Sperm counts? Low lab values? Recurrent Miscarriage? Replace "my enemies” with the name of the enemy you face, and use this verse to strengthen and encourage you.

Examples:
"[Endometriosis] will retreat when I call to you for help. This I know: God is on my side!"

"[PCOS] will retreat when I call to you for help. This I know: God is on my side!"

GOD loves you and so do I, my sisters. HE hears our cries. Keep just a mustard seed of Faith.
Amen. Thanks Sis for the inspiration.

Joime I know that God will make everything alright, for you and for all of us. Cheer up. You'll carry your Babies by God's awesome Power.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Starmummy: 11:35am On May 03, 2018
Mercy4us:


@ Mama, pls hold on. I lived in Ibadan before marriage but I dont know anywhere it is done. I am responding so you are sure you are not being ignored. You can be rest assured someone will respond soon. Please sabi mamas, a sister needs you heeerrreeeee! ,

Thanks sis,I appreciate ur concern
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by 2Ballz(m): 1:36pm On May 03, 2018
Joime,

Be yourself, it is really not the end of time. There are fewer chances to loss but greater opportunities to win and be happy. He that is behind has nothing to gain in the future. Don't be down or depressed,just move on.


Another will come and your breast will come out full and forth.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by 2Ballz(m): 1:38pm On May 03, 2018
Azaebere:

Amen. Welcome back.
Mah friend...where is my banana and groundnut you promise to buy for me?
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mamatwiny(f): 1:38pm On May 03, 2018
Adebayo4christ:
good morning great mothers and mothers to be...sorry to bother you again o.
some weeks ago, my wife started feeling sick n weak at a time she was vomiting. the following monday, she told me she went to d hospital on the instruction of her mum 5 days earlier and was told lto do pregancy test which came out positive. was a bit happy though but was also angry, y told her mum n her mums brother first before telling me days later, secondly, she said i should not tell any of my family member for now until like 4 month after, i asked y, she gave a stupid excuse, then i asked if u dont want anybody to know, how about your mum , and ur uncle who wasnt even staying with u but came to visit u that day.
now, her laziness has trippled, she cant even carry ordinary nylon. been d one doing the cooking, washing, sweeeping infact all house chores. she complains she is weak, hungry, pains.
i was like, why should u , this is just your first month n u r acting like this, when u get to 8 month nko, what will hAPPEN. on friday night, she said i should go n rent an hotel beside our house for her or we put on d gen every night till daybreak cos of heat.
My question goes to the mothers here, How do u feel in your first month. was there weakness, or pains? she has been on this for almost two weeks now and am tired of her behavior or laziness. meanwhile, bfr the pregnancy, she doesnt do anything much at home .
Thanks

Hahaha.
Please indulge her. It is just 8 months to go. If you dont help her , it will make her start building up hatred for you. It will improve with time. sometimes, it is malaria or worm that happened along with pregnancy that causes some of those illness and they cannot be treated now till the enters 2nd trimester.
My family knows i am preggy, but till now, some of my hubby's family members dont know. His eldest sis and eldest brother still dont know. Reason is not that they wont be happy but they can out of their happiness share it to the ears of an enemy who live close to them. The ones that we even told are the ones that are close and out of care were offering one help or the other and are already disturbed and we are sure doesnt stay close to our perceived enemy in the villa.

You are also lucky ur wife has only weakness . Do you know some wives go into depression as soon as they conceive? madness things? Help her the much you can and dont tell her bad words . If you cant cope, you can get her a maid to assist.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mamatwiny(f): 1:41pm On May 03, 2018
Joime, i asked of you the last time i signed on to this thread. Hold yourself together. You are closer to carrying your baby than you think.

i just hope its not hormone /progesterone defeciency.
Discuss the cause of the miscarriage with your doc and consider taking duphaston or any progesterone drug with vit e after ovulation or once you discover you are pregnant.

@Ekashiloh, God bless you real good. May your labour of love and that of every mama on this thread not be in vain.

Congrats to all the mamas that got Bfp. May you carry to term (per vaginum grin grin grin )
Remember to take it sofri till 12 weeks

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by BlessedDiva: 2:41pm On May 03, 2018
Joime:
My e-sisters, just found out today that I had another missed miscarriage. Devastated but can't question God. Never knew I was preggo again.

It is well with you dear, I don't want to say sorry because you are a winner in Christ, just keep praising God for your children, call them forth by name and tell them you are ready for them, faith calleth those things(babies) that be not, as though they were. Keep trusting, keep faithing, you shall be victorious. This next pregnancy coming will stay till delivery in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen. Congrats in advance

Ps: as soon as you confirm pls go straight to an ob/gyn and let him know about your miscarriages, he may place you on progesterone weekly shots, drugs or suppositories, with JESUS CHRIST at the centre, you are good to go smiley

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by dimusky: 4:31pm On May 03, 2018
awesomemrs:


Thank you sis. Your response means so much to me. Please which year did you do yours and how much did it cost? Thank you sis!

I did it in April 2018 (ast month) . But i paid since 2015 but just kept postponing it somehow till my new doctor recommended it. I paid 20k then. I dont know d price now.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by awesomemrs: 5:15pm On May 03, 2018
dimusky:


I did it in April 2018 (ast month) . But i paid since 2015 but just kept postponing it somehow till my new doctor recommended it. I paid 20k then. I dont know d price now.

Thank you ma! God bless you.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by dbeauty(f): 6:05pm On May 03, 2018
Hello fruitful mothers of great nations. How una dey?

Hmmm..It's been 8 months since I had my myomectomy.Well I still thank God for life.

Pls is it normal to have af a day earlier than the expected day and then the FLOW lasts for 2 days only with just spotting when I wipe. Just 2 days and then nothing.

I do have 3 days normal flow then round off with tiny drops till the 6th day..(sorry Tmi)..I just wondered. Cos this has never happened before. Should I be worried?

Cc:
Ekashiloh, Roseey0, 4realwoman and other mamas.
Sending loads of baby dusts.
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mamatwiny(f): 7:40pm On May 03, 2018
dbeauty:
Hello fruitful mothers of great nations. How una dey?

Hmmm..It's been 8 months since I had my myomectomy.Well I still thank God for life.

Pls is it normal to have af a day earlier than the expected day and then the FLOW lasts for 2 days only with just spotting when I wipe. Just 2 days and then nothing.

I do have 3 days normal flow then round off with tiny drops till the 6th day..(sorry Tmi)..I just wondered. Cos this has never happened before. Should I be worried?

Cc:
Ekashiloh, Roseey0, 4realwoman,
2Ballz and other mamas.
Sending loads of baby dusts.

Please do a pregnancy test. I hope it is implantation blessing u are having . I also hope n pray u see the two lines, else u may have to do hormonal assay . Talk to your doc too.
It is advised that if you have such irregular cycle consistently, you can add vit b12 and b6 to your prenatals to balance your cycle.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by LilBenny(f): 7:42pm On May 03, 2018
Good evening mama's.
I finished my first round of clomid last month. My period came. I started the clomid again because that's what the specialist told me. After that first 100mg dose I started feeling very awful, dizzy, extremely weak, fatigue, could not even walk without waving. So on day 3 I went for scan and saw I had 4.3cm cyst on my left ovary, and a developing folicle on the right.
So I stopped the clomid because of the cyst. But until now I still feel weird. I never had any of these effects last month.
Unfortunately I cannot see the doctor now because I have to book for it and that will take another one month.

My question is will all these effect wear off on their own? I took the 100mg on the 1st.

I also need opinions on which of the dietary supplements I can use. I'm presently taking Pregnacare conception, but someone told of Evergreen woman and Fertilaid.
Has anyone used any of these?
Do they have side effects?
Are they what I can just walk into a pharmacy to buy or the specialist has to recommend it?
Can I take any of them now that I just got off Clomid?

Please help me. I had a lot of hopes when I started the Clomid but this setback makes me feel like I'm back to square one.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by LilBenny(f): 7:49pm On May 03, 2018
I forgot to add that the period came on the 33rd day,and owed for just two days, didn't on the 3rd day, and now it's just dripping. Does Clomid mess up your period too?
LilBenny:
Good evening mama's.
I finished my first round of clomid last month. My period came. I started the clomid again because that's what the specialist told me. After that first 100mg dose I started feeling very awful, dizzy, extremely weak, fatigue, could not even walk without waving. So on day 3 I went for scan and saw I had 4.3cm cyst on my left ovary, and a developing folicle on the right.
So I stopped the clomid because of the cyst. But until now I still feel weird. I never had any of these effects last month.
Unfortunately I cannot see the doctor now because I have to book for it and that will take another one month.

My question is will all these effect wear off on their own? I took the 100mg on the 1st.

I also need opinions on which of the dietary supplements I can use. I'm presently taking Pregnacare conception, but someone told of Evergreen woman and Fertilaid.
Has anyone used any of these?
Do they have side effects?
Are they what I can just walk into a pharmacy to buy or the specialist has to recommend it?
Can I take any of them now that I just got off Clomid?

Please help me. I had a lot of hopes when I started the Clomid but this setback makes me feel like I'm back to square one.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by dbeauty(f): 8:23pm On May 03, 2018
embarassed
LilBenny:
I forgot to add that the period came on the 33rd day,and owed for just two days, didn't on the 3rd day, and now it's just dripping. Does Clomid mess up your period too?


Yes sis. Clomid does that to your period. It could delay it or make it come early.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by dbeauty(f): 8:24pm On May 03, 2018
dbeauty:



Yes sis. Clomid does that to your period. It could delay it or make it come early.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by dbeauty(f): 8:27pm On May 03, 2018
mamatwiny:


Please do a pregnancy test. I hope it is implantation blessing u are having . I also hope n pray u see the two lines, else u may have to do hormonal assay . Talk to your doc too.
It is advised that if you have such irregular cycle consistently, you can add vit b12 and b6 to your prenatals to balance your cycle.

Thanks alot mama..I will watch it closely and tell the doc about it.
Amen to all your prayers! I pray same for you too.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by pweetymii: 8:31pm On May 03, 2018
@Joime be consoled.The God that did it before is still on His throne and He will do more for you.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by 2Ballz(m): 8:45pm On May 03, 2018
dbeauty:
Hello fruitful mothers of great nations. How una dey?

Hmmm..It's been 8 months since I had my myomectomy.Well I still thank God for life.

Pls is it normal to have af a day earlier than the expected day and then the FLOW lasts for 2 days only with just spotting when I wipe. Just 2 days and then nothing.

I do have 3 days normal flow then round off with tiny drops till the 6th day..(sorry Tmi)..I just wondered. Cos this has never happened before. Should I be worried?

Sending loads of baby dusts.

Sometimes menstruation can come date before its expectation. It is an experience every woman will face and it is normal. Bleeding interval can change but if one has been having a constant bleeding interval,don't worry it come back to normal provided that all things remain equal and done.

There is no cause for alarm until any form of diagnosis has proved otherwise. For the now enjoy a stress-free life expecting the next flow to come in time covering a normal bleeding interval.


N/B: Any quoting the former post should remove my monicker as to avoid redundancy. Thanks!

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Azaebere: 9:03pm On May 03, 2018
2Ballz:


Mah friend...where is my banana and groundnut you promise to buy for me?

On the way to your office for delivery in the next five minutes
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by dbeauty(f): 10:09pm On May 03, 2018
2Ballz:


Sometimes menstruation can come date before its expectation. It is an experience every woman will face and it is normal. Bleeding interval can change but if one has been having a constant bleeding interval,don't worry it come back to normal provided that all things remain equal and done.

There is no cause for alarm until any form of diagnosis has proved otherwise. For the now enjoy a stress-free life expecting the next flow to come in time covering a normal bleeding interval.

N/B: Any quoting the former post should remove my monicker as to avoid redundancy. Thanks!

Okay. Thank you Doc. I have removed your monicker from the initial post. Thanks for your help.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Adebayo4christ: 10:32pm On May 03, 2018
mamatwiny:


Hahaha.
Please indulge her. It is just 8 months to go. If you dont help her , it will make her start building up hatred for you. It will improve with time. sometimes, it is malaria or worm that happened along with pregnancy that causes some of those illness and they cannot be treated now till the enters 2nd trimester.
My family knows i am preggy, but till now, some of my hubby's family members dont know. His eldest sis and eldest brother still dont know. Reason is not that they wont be happy but they can out of their happiness share it to the ears of an enemy who live close to them. The ones that we even told are the ones that are close and out of care were offering one help or the other and are already disturbed and we are sure doesnt stay close to our perceived enemy in the villa.

You are also lucky ur wife has only weakness . Do you know some wives go into depression as soon as they conceive? madness things? Help her the much you can and dont tell her bad words . If you cant cope, you can get her a maid to assist.

thanks for your advice but she has not been home for weeks now. She stays n teaches in her mum's school.
I go home alone after close if work.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by ekashiloh: 10:39pm On May 03, 2018
@libenny,how matured was ur egg,did u trigger?,did u chk back if u actully ovulate?,how thick was ur linning? fertilaid N Evergreen is d same and u cannot take it with clomid becos of d vitex in it... u can take bitteleaf or metformin or blach cohosh n RRLT 2 help d clomid works better.cheers @JOIME,sorry 4 lossing,just move on another one will enter.may GOD make ur womb PEACEFUL 4 babies 2 stay.Amen.cheers.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by ekashiloh: 10:45pm On May 03, 2018
mamatwiny:
Joime, i asked of you the last time i signed on to this thread. Hold yourself together. You are closer to carrying your baby than you think.

i just hope its not hormone /progesterone defeciency.
Discuss the cause of the miscarriage with your doc and consider taking duphaston or any progesterone drug with vit e after ovulation or once you discover you are pregnant.

@Ekashiloh, God bless you real good. May your labour of love and that of every mama on this thread not be in vain.

Congrats to all the mamas that got Bfp. May you carry to term (per vaginum grin grin grin )
Remember to take it sofri till 12 weeks
Tanx dearie,i carry u 4 mind.hope u are good.cheers
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Prisca1993: 5:44am On May 04, 2018
dbeauty:
Hello fruitful mothers of great nations. How una dey?

Hmmm..It's been 8 months since I had my myomectomy.Well I still thank God for life.

Pls is it normal to have af a day earlier than the expected day and then the FLOW lasts for 2 days only with just spotting when I wipe. Just 2 days and then nothing.

I do have 3 days normal flow then round off with tiny drops till the 6th day..(sorry Tmi)..I just wondered. Cos this has never happened before. Should I be worried?

Cc:
Ekashiloh, Roseey0, 4realwoman and other mamas.
Sending loads of baby dusts.

My dear relax your your self and watch it, it could be implantation bleeding so don't stress yourself until you are sure it is not

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by 2Ballz(m): 7:10am On May 04, 2018
Do you know! Do you know!! Do you know!!!

...that every human carried during the 9months of pregnancy is formed by 46 chromosomes?

Yea,the number of chromosomes making every normal human being is just 46(as 23 pairs),such that 23 each is separably delivered by both parents. Mummy will bring 23 and daddy will do likewise.

What are Chromosomes?

See Chromosomes as information donated or wired together by both parents that will instruct who the child will be(as in sex),what the child will be(in behaviour) and perhaps the future of that child with regards to what he/she is. Chromosomes is likened to Codes that create Programmes that finally give way to an APP. For example, Nairaland forum is an APP,deeply seated are information or codes that ensure a proper functioning of this APP,such that without instructions coming from this codes this APP is useless.

Here we are, no ojoro or longa longa throat. I go bring 23,my yanriya go bring 23. Any short or more on my side or her side,gbam! problem has landed either in the pregnancy as it relates to the child formation.
If nature be so good to the woman,it will see to it that she losses the pregnancy as there is an unsolvable anomaly during child formation. This will come as miscarriage.

But in some cases the pregnancy will continue. Now,try to imagine how a software or APP will function when it has an incomplete code or information wired or transferred? Do you imagine a proper functioning of that APP? of course, no!
Exactly, that is what happens during child formation when papa or mama contribute their quota incompletely.

Sometimes, papa and mama fit give complete instruction on how pikin go take grow and develop but from no where, the information or codes just changed leading to something terrible.

For example, Down's syndrome is affecting the 21st chromosome of the 23 paired. Do you know why it is called Trisomy 21?
Firstly,it is affecting the 21st paired chromosomes. Lastly,the error there is having a paired chromosomes (normal) and one unpaired (abnormal) together,which makes its three. This is error,and it turns to what the child is.

Another example,Turner's syndrome. This is a monosomy condition affecting the last paired of chromosomes i.e. 23rd pair which is also called sex chromosomes. It is referred to as monosomy because instead of having a paired chromosomes,one is missing leaving just one at that position. Gbam! problem has started in the child formation.

The truth is,it is better to have a safe abortion than to carry a pregnancy that will only lead to a child you end up wasting time,resources and energy yet the solution to their problem is not at sight.



...to be continued tomorrow.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Roseey0(f): 7:21am On May 04, 2018
dbeauty:
Hello fruitful mothers of great nations. How una dey?

Hmmm..It's been 8 months since I had my myomectomy.Well I still thank God for life.

Pls is it normal to have af a day earlier than the expected day and then the FLOW lasts for 2 days only with just spotting when I wipe. Just 2 days and then nothing.

I do have 3 days normal flow then round off with tiny drops till the 6th day..(sorry Tmi)..I just wondered. Cos this has never happened before. Should I be worried?

Just calm down and evaluate it.
It could be your body still adjusting or nothing to worry about. Meet your gyne and see what he/she has to say.

After a miscarriage my period changed from 3 to 2 days too. I got worried but my doc told me not to worry yet. Got my bfp not too long afterwards.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by 2Ballz(m): 7:32am On May 04, 2018
Azaebere:

On the way to your office for delivery in the next five minutes
I heard you missed your way coming to mah office,was I right?

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