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Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Prettiepearlz: Simple! I don't support any help below 18 yrs at all. And to think she is beating her pisses me off . Maybe she is beating her badly to the extent the husband had to intervene. My dear in a gang of armed robbers, it's wise to fear the female robber, their heart dey for back. 1 Like |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Prettiepearlz(f): 1:14pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
chiomaabigail:Madam, take it easy, I wasn't condemning you nor would I support what you did, I am only advising you to try another approach since beating isn't the best way to go about it. Don't make it look like I am condemning you. And there was no where in your write up that indicate you saying she didn't greet you in the morning. She is a kid and a kid will always behave like one, so try as much to understand her. 2 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 1:16pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Prettiepearlz: Thanks |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Prettiepearlz(f): 1:21pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
femmefetale:Lol, I could remember a story my aunt came back telling us how she witnessed a small girl leading a robbery at bureau de change. There's nothing more damaging than inflicting pain on a minor, it destroys their self-esteem and sometimes they turn into something else. There is a lady that stays around my area here, it took a while before I knew that one of the kids staying with her isn't her daughter but her maid cos you will never know, she doesn't beat her up, and she dresses her well, when I say well, I mean well. 2 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by djlaqua91(m): 1:26pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Madam I understand the pressure you're on. Its this same reason my mum always went for adult helps. Young ones can be frustrating to teach and re-teach everyday. My advice is for you and your husband to seat together and air out things. He may not be aware of how you feel. And please reduce the way you beat the kid. I've noticed that scolding works more than beating. You did well that she still goes to school. Many people won't have that good heart. If the problem is still getting out of hand, you can go for someone older. Take care. |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by egopersonified(f): 1:38pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
chigoizie7: Please tell this madam that I am in love with her, if she can treat her maid this way, only God knows how she treats her husband. These are the kind of friends I need in my life, not the ones that change maids like tissue paper. 3 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 1:41pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Prettiepearlz: People just don't understand life and how to treat defenseless people. It's bad. There's nothing as painful as when someone does not have a voice. That's why a woman can inflict unprintable injuries on a maid her husband is having carnal knowledge of, forgetting that respect sometimes bring blind loyalty. I can't have a maid my sons are older than sef, especially when dey get to puberty. Because I don't want that instance where they will creep away from bed at night to satisfy their /perversion".what If the maid keeps quiet?I may not even know .This is one of the things I consider before I will bring any help. The protection of EVERY girl - child is a task that must be done. 4 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Prettiepearlz(f): 1:44pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
chiomaabigail:You are welcome. |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by JayJustus(m): 2:57pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
femmefetale: couldn't agree with you more...she is here complaining yet she is maltreating another woman's daughter...thunder fire her 6 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Project400: 3:05pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
What a thread |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by crackhaus: 3:13pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
femmefetale: You're just something else.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by SirVintageCock: 3:28pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Get off my mentions with your uncouth attitudes. femmefetale: 1 Like |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by SirVintageCock: 3:33pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
That's where she got it wrong. Many people see it as normal having underage ids they can control instead of getting a paid employee who will tell them the terms and conditions for the house jobs. Do not crucify the lady rather advice accordingly as she is in a tight fix.. jusRadical: 1 Like |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by chigoizie7(m): 3:42pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
egopersonified: Lolz, me too, I de commot cap for her. One lovely nice lady, but very friendly, many people for my area sabi mummy ifenna well well. Very very young, u know all these girls wey marry early. |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Kaira333: 3:46pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
femmefetale:Dear cool down ur blood is too hot or do u have any personal issue with op. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Kaira333: 3:46pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Some Nairalander's eee, Their mouths are worse than dat of poisonous snake. For people dat are condemning underage house help, some parents can't even afford to feed their children not to talk of sending them to school. This is very bad and I pray it won't be our portion in Jesus name. Back to matter, Op am not here to condem u (like some people who like condemning others whereas they are even doing d worse) I just want to be frank with you, No matter how stressful u think it will be, please and please forget maid matter. Some of them are evil, some can even give ur child urine as water. If u think u can't cope please hire someone dat comes in d morning and go in d evening (even at dat please don't fully entrust ur children affairs to him or her) He or she can help in laundering and keeping d house clean. 4 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 4:05pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
SirVintageCock: Prrrrrrrrh I just asked a harmless question oooooo |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Kaira333: Whose blood is hot |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Kaira333: If you like speak grammar, that child should be taken back straight to her parents. She will be more productive there;! |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Look at them. Accept for few ladies here, a lot supported this op . You guys are advising her, a grown woman how to treat other people's children. Ezigbo mmadus. And another opened her mouth to say I should pray not to be In position not to take care of my children? All of you here messing up with other people's kids, you guys don't need advice at all. Wetin una need na better caning. As in better flogging just the way your maids get flogged. Yeye. 1 Like |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Prettiepearlz(f): 4:41pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
chigoizie7:God bless you and yours. There's a woman I know in my area that treats her maid exactly the same way you have just mentioned. People should learn to be kind. 1 Like |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by cococandy(f): 4:49pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
So you have a 13yr old child who isn't even grown enough to take care of herself entirely helping you take care of your own children? And you beat her up when she doesn't do things exactly as you want? Yes you're wicked. There's no other way to put it. Send the child back to her parents and your husband should get off his phat asss and help you get the kids ready in the morning before you guys leave the house. He won't stop being a man if he does. And yes I support him not being mean to her like you. You think taking your frustrations out on her will solve your problems? Look at how you guys are denying this girl a chance to have a normal childhood. She's spending the years that she should be carefree and taken care of on your family helping you raise your own kids. Una no dey shame. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Kaira333: 4:58pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
femmefetale:What is this one saying? She will be more productive when she can't take a square meal? See let me tell u I don't believe in having maids and I won't even have but some children are more responsible when they are not trained by their parents (especially those ones dat don't take their children's affairs serious) Mind you I don't support people dat maltreat their wards but remember not to spare d rod and spoil ur child(both ur own children and d so called maid) So please don't use ur saddness to cancel what I have written biko. I can see u are such a sad woman, please repent and take things easy. Inugo? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Kaira333: Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Tell the op to return the child back to her parent. All these ones wey u dey talk na nonsense ! 2 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by rolled: 6:43pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
So this maid baths with cold water then your kids hot water?i saw where you said after putting water on the fire you asked her to go and have her bath. Madam does she bath with cold water? If yes that could be the reason she just wore her uniform under age kids should be left with their parents and it is not your business if they can feed or go to school 3 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Kaira333: 6:46pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
femmefetale:Tell her urself in fact go to her house and drag d child out. Mumu. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by cococandy(f): 6:52pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
That's probably the case. Telling her to heat up water and while the water is heating up, she's bathing in the cold. Yet madam doesn't know why the maid sees her as wicked rolled: 3 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Kaira333: 6:53pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Na so some people will come for Nairaland d claim super woman, some de even wake up by 2:0 midnight. We know all of una make una continue d lies God is watching u people 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Kaira333: Madam, I didn't insult you ooooo. Respect yourself!! 1 Like |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 7:30pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
chiomaabigail:If she's your child will you say you want to mind you business and stop talking to her? For many years my mum and I did not see eye to eye because she was caning us like mad and we thought she was the most wicked woman in the world. Fast forward years later we are best of friends. She is my number one queen. Imagine this girl is your child. How would you treat her if she came from your womb? Think of it and treat her exactly how you will treat your daughter. Forget about what she thinks of you because you didn't bring her into your home to score points in her good books. She is your maid, gaddemit! Give her hometraining and she will thank you in future, otherwise she will become rotten in your hands. As for dh, threaten to leave her training to him. By the time she shows him pepper with her tardiness and naughtiness he will adjust himself and sit up 4 Likes |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Amhappy(f): 7:36pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Madam Op I am more worried that you allow a 13year old to operate gas cooker early in the morning . Do you know anything about sleep walking (Anya ura). Safety is a serious business Chioma. A lot of good advices has been given to you,listen and make adjustments and stop justifying your position. The truth is bitter. You and ur husband is not on the same page with the way you treat this child and it can bring rancor. I know a woman that lost her home recently because of unnecessary contest with her husband over a ward(an orphan adopted by the man's family before their marriage). Her position was that the girl must leave while her husband said no. Consumed by anger,she stabbed her husband and the rest like they say is history. |
Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
A lot of the people bashing the op for having a 13 year old maid are hypocrites who don't know what they are saying. I have a family friend who has been keeping a maid since 2009. That's 7 years now. She brought in this little village girl when she was about 8 years old to assist her take care of her baby, and this girl has been with her ever since. I always meet her happy whenever I go visiting her hubby (he is my friend), she is well taken care of and goes to school. Not all mistresses maltreat their maids and. 13 years is NOT too young to be a maid. 2 Likes |
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