My elder brother is 31yrs, just got married to a igbo girl and they both resides in United states.

Before he got married, he usually sends N135,000 when converted to Naira to mom and dad every end of the month.
But after he got married 6 months ago, he stopped sending money to folks at the end of every month.
He now sends money whenever he likes.

Not like my folks needed the money that much.. But you know, it's the dream of every parents to eat from their children sweat right?

From the way the wife responded to phone conversation shows she's the one responsible for this strange behaviour of my dear brother.

So what joy do Nigerian ladies gain in tryna tore families apart?

This is one of the reasons I adviced him not to marry a Nigerian woman because of their selfish nature.

A white woman won't do these.


Cc lalasticlala

When a man is single, he has little responsibilities. Marriage is a different ball game. There are some changes he might have had to make. He probably lived in a small apartment, which would be too small for two people. So, assume he changed his apartment.

Naturally, once you marry, whoever it is, whatever colour or race, you start to spend on the woman. Even if she is independent, there is no way a man won't have to spend. So, he is spending for two people now.

There are some other things too that might have happened to cause the change. Don't just assume it is the woman. Although, i agree that some women could be that evil and wicked.

Maybe get your pops to talk to him, and see why things have changed.

Maybe ya Bro want you to blow so that you can start sending doe to ya mum and dad.

You will understand better when u get married!
Besides u can also pickup from where he stopped!

hahahaha its your brother's decision bro though he might have been coerced by the wife or any other thing but at the end of the day he is a grown azz man.

PUSIDRILA:
Maybe ya Bro want you to blow so that you can start sending doe to ya mum and dad.

Airforce1 don't you think its totally unfair of you to spin this into a blame-the-Nigerian-girl thing. The changes are somewhat normal. Your bro has a new set of expenses to meet and as a result one should expect whatever he remits home to be affected.

Besides I don't completely agree with the idea of turning our kids into old age insurance cover.

I can also infer that your family probably ain't Igbo so the temptation to blame it on the Igbo wife is strong. Tribal stereotype isshh.

Clash of self-interests noticed too.
Guess what, I may be wrong

..dis super story under celebrity section? y not romance

PUSIDRILA:
Maybe ya Bro want you to blow so that you can start sending doe to ya mum and dad.

No his brother actually want him to release a meaningful album,so that he can start sending 135k to his Dad and mum everymonth

nikkypearl:
No his brother actually want him to release a meaningful album,so that he can start sending 135k to his Dad and mum everymonth

Ouch Nikky. That felt like a nasty blow to the tummy.

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