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Why People Get Married And Regret by Ogieenike: 5:44pm On Jul 01, 2016
Many married people today regret their marriage. Some of them ponder why he or she got married to that partner. this is because he or she got married in darkness.
it does not matter how beautiful or intelligent a woman is that determine if she would be a good wife.
if you do n ot marry someone that God has ordained for you, no matter how good looking or honest that person may seem like. he or she would never last Gen 2:23.
Some parents even force their children to get married to partners they dont like, this would eventually lead to disaster and then divorce.
Even today, there is no truth i marriage, because even before the marriage there is already lies in the air.
Even Abraham himself lied that Sarah was his sister and not his wife(Gen 20:5-12)
Isaac lied that Rebbecca was his sister and not wife (Gen 26:7-cool
Jacob lied to his father that he was Esau in order to get the blessing..
Even today, there is no truth in marriage, a lot of people lie even before marriage, they swear here and there and even in the church.
They claim they love, but how can you live in peace when there is no truth in your marriage?
a lot of people marry today because of money, sex and other worldly reasons.
some people marry because of impatience, age, peer influence and many others.
Some people marry just because of the outer beauty of their partner.
Do not marry because people force you to, but marry when it is the appointed time.

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your shame shall be turned into honor, and God would wipe away your tears.

Re: Why People Get Married And Regret by general111(m): 7:50pm On Jul 06, 2016
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Re: Why People Get Married And Regret by Nobody: 5:15am On Jul 07, 2016
It's simple... Because during courtship both partners pretend and hardly discuss their true personalities , wants and desires. All they care is fucvk at every given opportunity and Say sweet lies to each other... Forgetting their true nature will definitely arise during marriage..
Boyfriend and girlfriend na fantasy land... Fiance and fiancee na dream land... While husband and wife is pure reality... No faking.. Just the way it is.
Until couples start talking about their true selves to each other and place by the side and in front of them.. Then, shall divorce rate reduce.. Praying from morning till night for change is just part of the solution... But main ingredient is been True and sincere to each other.. Simple.

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