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This is a clear case of determination and self will. We sometimes make mistakes in life but what matters is what we make out from such mistakes. Sometimes we fall, Instead of dusting our bums and move on, we accept defeat. This Lady's story is an inspiration to all. Read below:-

[b]My story goes thus, sometime 20 years ago, I was naive and influenced by peer pressure. My dad was and is still a strict disciplinarian,mum on the other hand was a bit soft on us and let us have our way. She practically covered for and took sides with me especially (being her only daughter amongst 3 sons).

I got out of hand and starting moving with the wrong set of friends, got pregnant at age 11 (primary 5)and then my whole world crumbled. The harsh reality of life began to unfold as I had to drop out of school, I couldn't sit for my First School Leaving Certificate Examination(FSLC).

People in my neighbourhood made mockery of me my dad couldn't bare it, so he sent me out of the house and I had to go to the village to live with my grandma. In order to survive and fend for myself (as grandma isn't working) I had to summon courage and face my own devil, I knew I was the cause of my predicaments and didn't put the blame on my mum or anyone. I started street hawking selling all sorts ranging from tapioca (kpokpo garri), roasted pork meat, roasted maggots, Madiga bread, sachet water etc.

Few months later I had my baby,saved some cash (through hawking) which I used to re-enroll for my FSLC, I passed with a "merit".

Still in the street hawking business, I saw myself through secondary school, I was determined to show my folks that I truly regretted my actions and is now a serious child. Enrolled for WAEC cleared all my papers likewise my JAMB and then gained admission into the university.
When my dad saw how focused I had become, they took my child and I back, sent me off to the university and took care of my baby.

To cut the long story short, I'm now a M.ed holder from the University of Lagos State Akoka, a successful teacher and happily married by His grace. My son is currently a 200Level Law student. Strangers thinks he's my younger brother because the age gap between us is so close, and he's growing taller by the day.

My son is my life, he's the reason I am where I am today as his presence into this world made me a responsible individual. He's my victory story, he knows what I went through and is determined to make me a proud mum

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@ 11 years old? Unbelievable!

WOW AT 11

Hmmm..

At 11yrs
Was the sperm dropped thru her nose

Shes strong willed, she didn't allow her mistakes to determine her future..anytime one falls, u must stand up and rise again..staying put with regrets takes no-one, nowhere. Good one.

Nice.

Never give up on your dreams. Challenges and setbacks are stepping stones

You see the problem I have with some single moms?

Your son is your life? what about your husband, no single word about him?

There's nothing inspiring about this, from my own point of view.

Acidosis:
You see the problem I have with some single moms?

Your son is your life? what about your husband, no single word about him?

There's nothing inspiring about this, from my own point of view.

maybe she's not married yet

Insipiring!

Iffffffy:
maybe she's not married yet

read again, she's married

Acidosis:
You see the problem I have with some single moms?

Your son is your life? what about your husband, no single word about him?

There's nothing inspiring about this, from my own point of view.

there'll always be that one bad belle

Acidosis:
You see the problem I have with some single moms?

Your son is your life? what about your husband, no single word about him?

.

SMH

Dyt:


SMH

I see you..

shaybebaby:

I see you..

she was already ovulating at 11

she was sexually attractive at 11

A man pounced on an 11 year old child.


Thank God for her though.
my Dad won't even send me to the village. he'll throw me out instead.

There are people who got pregnant out of wedlock at 20 and still struggling with life.

Iffffffy:
maybe she's not married yet

She's a married woman, read the quote and the Topic.

She wanted us to know that in spite bn pregnant at 11, she got a man, and a M.Ed.

Unfortunately, she selfishly poured all the appreciation to her son with no single word about the man who, in spite her situation, loved her and counted her worthy enough to be a wife.

This attitude puts me off completely. It doesn't apply only to single moms though, some married women are like that.

Marvel1206:

there'll always be that one bad belle

How?

Acidosis:


She's a married woman, read the quote and the Topic.

She wanted us to know that in spite bn pregnant at 11, she got a man, and a M.Ed.

Unfortunately, she selfishly poured all the appreciation to her son with no single word about the man who, in spite her situation, loved her and counted her worthy enough to be a wife.

This attitude puts me off completely. It doesn't apply only to single moms though, some married women are like that.

Didn't see that earlier, you are right

Dyt:

SMH

SMH

Acidosis:

. It doesn't apply only to single moms though, some married women are like that.

Sometimes you write like you got some nuts losed upstairs

Dyt:

Sometimes you write like you got some nuts losed upstairs

Why don't you address the message, and ignore the messenger with losed nuts?

Acidosis:
You see the problem I have with some single moms?

Your son is your life? what about your husband, no single word about him?

There's nothing inspiring about this, from my own point of view.

Her husband was no where to be found, her husband didn't contribute anything to her struggles, her husband wasn't there when she was at her worst, so why must he be recognised? Recognised for what na?

The only people that need the recognition and application is her father and her son. Shikena!

ItsQuinn:
Her husband was no where to be found, her husband didn't contribute anything to her struggles, her husband wasn't there when she was at her worst, so why must he be recognised? Recognised for what na?

The only people that need the recognition and application is her father and her son. Shikena!

I don't buy into any of those sh!ts.

Biko, how did her son contribute to her life? What about the father of the son who planted the seed into her? Or was it a r.ape issue?


I don't know how you folks reason but I won't buy any of those sh!ts. My mom should stick to her Darling husband biko, I am her son, a grown one now, not her god. Her husband/my father is her god and pillar, not me.

Pregnant at 11

Acidosis:


She's a married woman, read the quote and the Topic.

She wanted us to know that in spite bn pregnant at 11, she got a man, and a M.Ed.

Unfortunately, she selfishly poured all the appreciation to her son with no single word about the man who, in spite her situation, loved her and counted her worthy enough to be a wife.

This attitude puts me off completely. It doesn't apply only to single moms though, some married women are like that.

inspite of her situation counted her lucky lol ,which situation? That she has an MS.C or a son in 200L?
Forget it,it is not a thing to applaud after al he married her with his eyes open. Probably he married her when she had her sh.it together.

Real deal is if he married her when she was still that dirty girl hawking.

Btw i don't think it is a big deal marrying a single mon or dad people do it so what is so special about it.
Next pls.

zeb04:
inspite of her situation counted her lucky lol ,which situation? That she has an MS.C or a son in 200L?
Forget it,it is not a thing to applaud after al he married her with his eyes open. Probably he married her when she had her sh.it together.

Real deal is if he married her when she was still that dirty girl hawking.

Btw i don't think it is a big deal marrying a single mon or dad people do it so what is so special about it.
Next pls.

Just one question, would you allow your brother or son marry a girl who had her first baby at 11?

Acidosis:


I don't buy into any of those sh!ts.

Biko, how did her son contribute to her life? What about the father of the son who planted the seed into her? Or was it a r.ape issue?


I don't know how you folks reason but I won't buy any of those sh!ts. My mom should stick to her Darling husband biko, I am her son, a grown one now, not her god. Her husband/my father is her god and pillar, not me.

Her father did nothing! Where was he when she was preg at age 11? Where was he when she went to the village hawking on the streets to survive? Where was he when she was struggling, facing challenges, when she was being mocked and being treated like shit? Huh? Rubbish! He was no where to be found, he ran away after planting the seed in her like a coward, so her husband doesn't deserve shit

Acidosis:


Just one question, would you allow your brother or son marry a girl who had her first baby at 11?

lol my dear the world has moved on from this crap.

If there is any sensible person i have seen my bros with,is the lady he's about to get married too. With a child and 1000%intact upstairs.

ItsQuinn:
Her father did nothing! Where was he when she was preg at age 11? Where was he when she went to the village hawking on the streets to survive? Where was he when she was struggling, facing challenges, when she was being mocked and being treated like shit? Huh? Rubbish! He was no where to be found, he ran away after planting the seed in her like a coward, so her husband doesn't deserve shit

You guys are now justifying the popular sayings about single moms indirectly.

Some guys will see these comments now and run faraway from single moms.

Her husband did nothing? really? What about her son? I'm sure the son paid her M.Ed fees in school.

SMH