Hi NLanders. I'm hoping to pick some good advice here. I've been living some one and half decades in Europe. Married here too to a white, we r now peacefully separated and I intend to get a Nigerian girl to date and eventually marry. Problem is : I'm scared about our girls ! How am I gonna know if they love me or love what I am ( And I no be anybody sef but they might get the wrong impression ). What are the ways one can find true love in Nigeria. Sorry, but I have dated on Europeans since the last 17 years and I have lost touch. Ladies,  what do you advice me to achieve this ?
Guys,  how would you go about this issue ?

dnt call

haha.
Are there no Nigerian girls where you are staying ? Must you come back home b4 u find one

MrCrackles:

I wonder o . . . .
Make yourself available to the fella please!

Make me available,let go of me.

sleeping open eye.

you are either about to make the best mistake or the worse.  are there no other oyinbo where you are or you are hell bent on eating akpu, pounded yam, amala and egusi.

you already have an offer call the number above.

i beg open your eyes o.

spikedcylinder:

Wonder why one hardly finds Nigerian man + white woman who are in it for the long haul.

there are many nigerian marriages and black marriages that goes past its sell by date before the signatures dries up. there are many inter racial relationships of more than 20 to 30yrs.

spikedcylinder:

Wonder why one hardly finds Nigerian man + white woman who are in it for the long haul.

the problem is mostly with your brothers and sisters marrying white people to get papers in europe and north america and thereafter dumping them

MrCrackles:

Go on you know you want to!

wait make her husband catch you.

krimi:

call me 08038578071

u are about to make mistake by calling dat number, dats way too easy

D-Onlooker:

Hi NLanders. I'm hoping to pick some good advice here. I've been living some one and half decades in Europe. Married here too to a white, we r now peacefully separated and I intend to get a Nigerian girl to date and eventually marry. Problem is : I'm scared about our girls ! How am I gonna know if they love me or love what I am ( And I no be anybody sef but they might get the wrong impression ). What are the ways one can find true love in Nigeria. Sorry, but I have dated on Europeans since the last 17 years and I have lost touch. Ladies,  what do you advice me to achieve this ?
Guys,  how would you go about this issue ?

Why don't you date the girls around behind your backyard. . . .life ifyalways said

Well, there are virtually no Nigerian girls around here or the ones that are here are already hooked up. I dont live in London. And to your questions about why Interracial marriages fail, mine didnt crumble like that , we greed before Marrying that we will spend our retirement years in Nigeria and now she said she cant follow me then. We decided to peacefully part ways, I dont want to be a single at the age of 65 ! Its not that I am planning to permanently relocate to Nigeria then ( nobody really knows how Nigeria will develope or under-develope then ) but I want a woman who is willing to follow me.

a good wife or a NIGERIAN WIFE?

Come to Ijebu and get a proper woman

D-Onlooker:

Well, there are virtually no Nigerian girls around here or the ones that are here are already hooked up. I dont live in London. And to your questions about why Interracial marriages fail, mine didnt crumble like that , we greed before Marrying that we will spend our retirement years in Nigeria and now she said she cant follow me then. We decided to peacefully part ways, I dont want to be a single at the age of 65 ! Its not that I am planning to permanently relocate to Nigeria then ( nobody really knows how Nigeria will develope or under-develope then ) but I want a woman who is willing to follow me.

 
I wud find a thread for u,i remember one lady looking for a companion for her mum sho is widowed. . .https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-293903.0.html
BTW,are u looking for someone younger or someone within the same age bracket 
brb

To Sexy Leamon : A good wife and possibly but not necessarily a Nigeria woman but she must be willing to live there with me too if and when the opportunity presents itself and note, right now, with the present economical and security situation, I wont dare to endanger the life or comfort of my family by packing off to Nigeria but home is still home and who knows if things will improve ( Fashola for President !! ) and I decide to go home, I will want my wife to follow me. That's natural, abi ?

Ifyalways, where did you get the idea that I am an old man ? I said I didnt want to be a single when I get to 65 and did not mean I am 65 now. Cut that number into two abeg.

D-Onlooker:

Well, there are virtually no Nigerian girls around here or the ones that are here are already hooked up. I dont live in London. And to your questions about why Interracial marriages fail, mine didnt crumble like that , we greed before Marrying that we will spend our retirement years in Nigeria and now she said she cant follow me then. We decided to peacefully part ways, I dont want to be a single at the age of 65 ! Its not that I am planning to permanently relocate to Nigeria then ( nobody really knows how Nigeria will develope or under-develope then ) but I want a woman who is willing to follow me.

Ok. 
Well,you can try nairalist and dating and meet up zone.Just use another id and post without giving any details abt your location.

There r a lot of african girls in europe--which particular country do u reside?

guy please call that number

otokx:

guy please call that number

y u dey beg. . .na your sister?

You need to pray well and talk to members of your family. They will be your best bet. Too many girls in Nigeria these days will follow you if they know you are British or American. You will only get to see their true colours once they get their papers.

The best thing you can do for yourself is not to marry all these British born and bred. You better marry white gyl as that will give you more rest of mind as in you already know the difference. British born Nigerians=hell fire.

You can look for those that came over to study or better go naija i still believe there are decent once over there with nice up bringing.

I don talk finish let them attack me i no send them.

You don't have to go to Nigeria to find a wife. Look for Nigerian women where you are. Also brush up on your English skills. It might be handy to you in the near future.

olabukola:

The best thing you can do for yourself is not to marry all these British born and bred. You better marry white gyl as that will give you more rest of mind as in you already know the difference. British born Nigerians=hell fire.

You can look for those that came over to study or better go naija i still believe there are decent once over there with nice up bringing.

I don talk finish let them attack me i no send them.

This mentality is what's ruining a lot of you men today. This is not a gross attack on you either. I am just saying!

Do you have any kids? You already know the answer to your question. You have to do it the old fashioned way. Find a woman you like. Spend a lot of time with her. The usual stuff. There is no short cut

9ja babes are a very complex group of ladies. goodluck

De-onlooker

please, i have few questions.
How old are you? Did you have any kids? What tribe are you from?
Thank you

ybab:

De-onlooker

please, i have few questions.
How old are you? Did you have any kids? What tribe are you from?
Thank you

Let's pin me around the mid thirties. Got 2 nice Kids, I'm Igbo.
And Guys, thank you all for your Advice. I've learnt a thing or two here.

De-onlooker

2kids? Okay. Male or female? Are your kids with you or with their mum?

ummmmmmmmmmm.

ybab:

De-onlooker

2kids? Okay. Male or female? Are your kids with you or with their mum?

ybab, sorry I cant divulge more personal information about d kids on a public Forum ? U would like to protect ur kids too. They r staying with their mom but we have equal custody and I will be there for them, Igbos dont abandon their kids. Y do u ask ?

De-onlooker

yes,i understand that you do have to protect your kids. I asked because i wanted to have an idea of how often you get to interact with or see your ex-wife. Has she re-married? What part of the east are you from?