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Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by cbrass(m): 5:54pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
jusRadical:And you too bro |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by DICKtator: 5:56pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
OmoBety: Communication is always key. You can't communicate with him? Invite his close friends Not possible? Tell your mom? Not possible? Tell his mom? Not possible? Tell his dad? Not possible? still wouldn't listen? He would respect his pastor or imam,tell them Not possible? Then you can now take your options. How can she be discussing her private life with her neighbours that she just met less than 3 months? I just don't understand this!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by andyanders: 6:00pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
snakie86: The female friend who kept picking the calls should be the one responsible for the lady getting out of the house. It could be that she is a bi-sexual and her female partner wants her to get out from her matrimonial home. I have had an experience where I dated a lady and I never knew was a bi-sexual in Atlanta, Georgia.I had a party and the lady came and never wanted any other person to dance with her. She only wanted to dance alone with my lady and anytime I get to wanna have a dance with my lady, she gets jealous and moody. She later went and sat down somewhere and I started suspecting her moves. I called my lady to the room and asked her to tell me what was in-between them and she confessed to me and told me that she was confused and don't know how to get out herself out from the lady. I just want to let you know that it could be that she is in-between hence her action and complaint. 1 Like |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by ay4shizzy(m): 6:01pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Timbuktou:oloriburuku ni awon ebi eee..omo ale jati jati |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by ay4shizzy(m): 6:01pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Timbuktou:oloriburuku ni awon ebi eee..omo ale jati jati |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by ay4shizzy(m): 6:01pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Timbuktou:oloriburuku ni awon ebi eee..omo ale jati jati |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by Emasky4real(m): 6:02pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Following |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by Vikky014(f): 6:04pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
jusRadical:GBAM. KISSES DEAR |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Oga you better face your own marriage and leave them to sort out their problems. They both have parents and siblings. The 1st mistake that lady did was comparing her marriage to yours. There should always be boundaries between you and your neighbor to avoid unnecessary problems very soon now the blame will somehow shift to you and your wife. No be you marry them or hook them up just mind your business and face your marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by God2man(m): 6:11pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Life |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by irondome: 6:12pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
BellaElla: The best post on this topic!!!! If I were the OP, I would have given her red card from my house, the very day she ignored her husband arrival and opted to stay back in my house. There are few, but fundamental things every lady should know, in order to have a successful marriage; 1. Contentment. 2. Respect. 3. Privacy (don't discuss your marriage with friends, that way, you don't compare marriages. 4. Partnership (make conscious effort to help build the kind of marriage you want with your partner). That lady in the story lacked all these. 2 Likes |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by figure007(m): 6:12pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
BellaElla:God bless.you...I guess you are married right ? It's only an unwise fellow that visits Neigbour all the time and this truly brings rubbishes into homes ...I can fight any woman for such .... You have said it all ....but now that they are involve then they have to help in one way or another.....after salvation of soul,marriage is the most difficult issue on earth ,it either leads to heaven or the other one |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mariojane: Don't contaminate this thread with tribalism. The state of origin of this girl did not play a part in what she did. I am yet to see a pattern of broken marriages peculiar to any tribe or nigerian culture. You said 95% of them? I schooled in Benin and lived in South South. Apart from the high incidence of single mothers owning property which is attributed to italy business there is no pattern of broken homes unique to benin. In fact, from discussions there seems to be a strong correlation with young age and educational background with these sort of marriage issues The moment we learn to analyse issues properly the better for us. There are people trying to learn a thing or two from comments here. Do not start spraying wrong information. I am having this domineering issue with my gf. She is not benin and I am not benin either. After reading this thread I have had to call her and begun putting some questions out in the open in my relationship and am sure many others might be doing the same. Please try and be modest in your opinions to allow others learn Thank you 8 Likes |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by davedpo(m): 6:16pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
God help them |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by Nobody: 6:16pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
ay4shizzy: Kilode? Ewo ni t'epe. Otito koro. You might not want to hear it, but marrying a yoruba woman is one of the riskiest things any man can do. Even if this story is untrue, it doesn't erase facts, statstics and realities. You should be more concerned about reversing this trend than sticking up for your tribe. By the way, I'm yoruba. Now go and... I'm sure you know what to do. 4 Likes |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by ajokeade920: 6:24pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Marriage nowadays are just taken like a child's play.. i wonder what some pple do during courtship.cases of marriage palaver here n there.Abeg.. i don tire..#Understanding lo matter. |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by banmee(m): 6:32pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
snakie86: My question to you is, why are you so interested in someone else's marriage? Seems to me like your's is not very interesting so both of you enjoy the drama of others. What will you do if and when they move out. Find another leech to suck the drama off? |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by Zerzzy: 6:36pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Debolly u need to read this |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by XfStyle: 6:39pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Hmmm |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by hardbody: 6:40pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Op, stopcalling her. Just send her a long text chronicling what you want to advise her on. After that, drop off the scene, you have done your bit. It might just be that her exit is blessing in disguise. When my elder bro married and my dad was having a convo with him and the wife, i recall him telling them that a good wife brings blessings to the family and i have seen this in their life, but where a lady wants out, let her go. You can't force iron and clay to gum together. When the clay shrinks, it will invariably fall off on its own, so why even try |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by ay4shizzy(m): 6:41pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Timbuktou:grow up..tribe has nothing to do with dis..the kardashians i guess their ancestors are yorubas. 4 Likes |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by IRserveMyComent(f): 6:43pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
BellaElla: My love I beg to differ! what happened to being your brother's keeper? what happened to looking out for the well fare of each other? The world become bad since everyone started minding their business. There is nothing bad in him trying to help his neighbour locate d whereabout of her runaway wife. Albeit in a wise way. Even if they reconcile tomorrow and decides to take him for an enemy or mention him badly in their case that one remains their business but shouldn't in anyway discourage him from lending help where needed. Being your brother's keeper dosnt make you an interferer. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by andyanders: 6:45pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
BellaElla: Well said. The aspect of having her always in their apartment is wrong. Also the op trying to impress the the woman by helping his wife out on domestic duties while the lady is watching is another problem hence her complaint as to her husband not coming close. The lady is a full time housewife of which which she has nothing doing while her husband is out working and coming back home late of which must have been reasons for not having time in helping the wife out. Op, you should stay clear from this problem and allow them resolve their problems. |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by Dynamite02: 6:49pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
bighorlus:True! Somethings eyes see,mouth cannot talk.. 1 Like |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by Vikky014(f): 6:51pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
nmreports:A good man will always find a good woman...bt in most cases good men take the good woman in their life for granted thereby losing them to anoda man which leads them to this type of story |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by nmreports: 6:53pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Vikky014: Noted! |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by styles2009: 6:53pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
See Gobe |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by DrHighchief(m): 6:57pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
They say marriage is for better for Worse....No third party should interfere in marriages. They can sort themselves out. D big question is "was d wife ready for marry"? Why because of little things she packed her things out of the house? She should also know that there is nothing like perfect marriage. She must not compare her marriage with others because she does not know what others are passing through inwardly/internally. I repeat there is no perfect marriage. But her friend.....? |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
1) Change the locks 2) Annul the marriage legally 3) Live life. This kind of woman can kill her husband. 1 Like |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by onime: 7:11pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
op, I feel it is only lack of sex that will make a woman to move out just two months after wedding. please ask oga questions |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by ojuu4u(m): 7:14pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
This your story has k-leg, how can the parent says they don't knw her whereabout of a full grow lady? Legal marriage for that matter, its not only husband and wife again but families to families. Also you said her parent claimed they don't know her whereabout yet they allow him to go without puting presure on husband, no parent, i repeat no parent wil do dat just afta 2 months of mariage |
Re: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
ay4shizzy: You grow up. Who would you be more suspicious of commit a jihad-inspired terrorist attack? An Arab or a caucasian? Does that mean all Arabs are terrorists or that there are no European supporters of the islamic jihad or even ISIS in particular.. Wake the fvck up Joseph. This isn't dreamland. There are sentiments and there are facts. Face facts and stop wailing like an orphaned puppy. |
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