TO THE MARRIED

You are in biggest trouble if your marriage is experiencing /has experienced two out of the following suitations;
(1) 36 MONTHS AFTER YOU GOT MARRIED NO TESTIMONY.( YOUR MARRIAGE IS NOT A SUPPORTIVE ONE; ONE MAN CAN'T MAKE A TEAM)

(2) YOU STILL CALL YOUR PARENTS ON DAILY BASIS TO GIVE REPORT ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE, SPOUSE AND NUCLEAR FAMILY.( YOU WERE JUST JOINED TOGETHER BUT NOT YET MARRIED).

(3)YOU STILL COMPARE YOUR EX BOYFRIEND/ GIRLFRIEND WITH YOUR SPOUSE.( HIS/HER MIND IS NOT WITH YOU).

(4) YOUR SPOUSE STILL CALL YOU BY NAME WHEN HE/SHE IS ANGRY AND CALL YOU PET NAMES WHENEVER HE/SHE IS HAPPY. ( IT MEANS YOU ARE JUST MARRIED FOR BETTER).

(5) YOUR SPOUSE DOESN'T PLAN FUTURISTIC DEVELOPMENTAL PROJECTS WITH YOU ( IT MEANS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS NO FUTURE).

(6) YOU ARE NOT PROUD OF HIM/HER IN ABSENTIAL ( HE/ SHE MEANS NOTHING TO YOU; THEN WHY ARE YOU MARRIED)

(7) YOU ABANDONED HIM/ HER IN TIMES OF TROUBLE ( CAN YOU GET HIS/HER ATTENTION AND LOVE AFTER THE PERIOD OF TRIAL?)


If genuinely you fall into these you can go back to the drawing board and try the followings:
1. Get a marriage counsellor to discuss your plight with and allow him/her to invite the other party for counsels and resolution.

2. See your marriage as your business you must make it work.

3. Stop being defensive.

4. Give your parents good reports about your marriage if you need to tell them anything at all.

5. Start discussing and working out meaningful projects( not only upkeep).

6. Always see your spouse as a customer while you see your marriage as business ; without customers business cant grow.

7. Above all give all you have to JESUS to control.


STOP!!! DIVORCE IS DEADLY

I hope married people will take note.