The recent leakage of the reported extramarital affair of the US based mother of three is a wake up call for marriages, especially for the young adults. Her husband works or used to work with Access bank in Lagos. She got involved in another guy in Nigeria, both were involved in series of unfaithful acts. Her lover, swindled her over #10m. She went to arrest him only for him to publicly display her nude pictures to the world in order to proof his innocence to the police and appropriate authority.

However, the husband got hinted of the blackmail; he got to know of the matter and quickly, as a sharp guy conducted a DNA test on all his 3 children. The results showed the children are not his. They actually belonged to someone else. The absurd event led to the suicide action of a potential! She’s gone, survived by three children and hubby.

WHAT LED TO THIS UNFORTUNATE INCIDENT?
The reasons why people get involved in extramarital relations are many. It often boils down to trouble brewing in the existing relationship or marriage. In fact, recent statistics suggest that 40% of women (and that number is increasing) and 60% of men at one point indulge in an affair. Put those numbers together and it is estimated that 80% of the marriages will have one spouse at one point or another involved in an affair. Moreover, when infidelity occurs, the betrayed spouse feels alone and lonely. It is essential to keep in mind that countless people have experienced the same problem and have felt the same way. This offers little consolation when one first learns about his or her spouse’s affair, but over time, it can take the sting out of feeling so out-of-sorts.

Furthermore, it would be wonderful if everyone upheld their marital vows, but the truth is, that doesn’t always happen.

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It should, but it doesn’t. Among other things, sex starvation, lack of commitment in marriage, immaturity of couples and many other factors are responsible for this awful situation.[url]You can save your marriage[/http://marrymaticsoflove.com/index.php/2018/06/14/save-your-marriage-extramarital-affairs/]

Below are 7 Warning Sings For The Married:

This event has triggered a wake up call for marriages, particularly among the young adults.But couples can proffer a solution if they really want to help their marriage.

1. What You Sow Is What You Reap
If you want a great marriage, you must intentionally sacrifice time and love. Be fully dedicated to make the marriage work. Be vigilant that you are sowing a good seed because your harvest is around the corner. Sow into your marriage what you desire to reap.

2. There Is Nothing Hidden Under The Heaven
When you are secretly cheating on your spouse, you think no one is seeing, but God is looking and seeing you anyway. Watch out, its only for a limited period. What is going on in the secret will be revealed to the public, if it is good works it shall be revealed; if it is evil works it shall be revealed.

3. Godliness With Contentment Is A Great Gain
If only spouses should be contentment with what they have, then there will be peace in marriages. Even the divorce and suicide rates will reduce. When you are contented with what you have and you are faithful with it you will grow more and more in it.

4. Honesty is a Best policy
We must be honest in all our relationships with one another. Particularly in marriages, couples are expected to be faithful. This has so many advantages which will in turn benefit not only you but also your children and the family.

5. Self Control
As a couple you must have a high level of self control. Your colleague in the office should not be too pretty to tempt you to extramarital affairs.

6. Always Pray Together
One last thing is that the devil does not want any marriage to succeed. This is because marriage is an institution created by God and the devil does not want it to thrive. So be careful that you do not give the enemy a chance to ridicule you. When you pray together regularly, your love will grow together and get better. In unity we can prevail together.

7. Forgive One Another
Never allow unforgiveness to reign in your home. Choose to forgive easily and live together in peace.

I hope this short words will impart some wisdom to the readers.

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