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Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by ayusco85(m): 8:19pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
Kingzy4pep: One out of 100. |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
You really sound poverty sticking... will really like to ask one question... must you marry someone you don't love? If you truly love a lady you will respect love and cherish her, no matter the past. Secondly, if you want a lady that is untouch, so you can love and respect her, you go for one, we have lot of them out there. Thirdly, make sure you keep yourself pure and untouch for the lady, because that's the only way you can get the best of a wife, be it virgin or not. Finally, marriage is not all about sex, so the lady's sex life shouldn't be a determining factor to paying bride price |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
Ishilove:Ishi |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Fkforyou(m): 9:01pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
IMO...I just feel worrying about issues like this, (I mean her body count) could be exhausting and brings nothing but paranoia and lack of peace of mind....so why would I want to stress my self. Having said that, I respect the OP stance especially if he has been upright and disciplined. But if other wise is the case, I feel he is been unfair and hypocritical if he demands sexual modesty from his future spouse if he doesn't have one. I hate hypocrisy. Well, what I think he is trying to say is that, why would he settle down with a slut (no guy likes a slut too) when he isn't one? ( that is, if he is just a holy gentle dude...o). But what he has to know is that, some of this ladies go into relationship with a genuine reason and sincerity, maybe they are not just lucky cos they always end up with players. In essence, they don't just jump from one man to another without reason. There are some ladies who live solely for LOVE and they'll continue searching for it till they find one...so don't judge them harshly. To summarize everything, If I get a virgin, it's a bonus, if I don't find one, I don't give a fvck so long as she has a good heart and makes me happy. As for the OP; Don't hate the player hate the game. My advice; Get with the program. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by smiliyB(f): 9:22pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
Oloniyan:nya gachihara gi azu,ihe obuna icherem na isi gi ka oga ada.... |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by KevinDein: 9:30pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
closerange:fantastic But unfortunately man you are wasting your time as here on nairaland logic isn't a forte for most. I can assure you that none of these ladies will be able to counter this post of yours |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Darlx(m): 11:08pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
craziebone: Baba!...Google is your friend... www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/sexual-health-and-advice/8958520/Average-man-has-9-sexual-partners-in-lifetime-women-have-4.html |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Ishilove: 5:38am On Aug 06, 2016 |
iAmCharis:The pressure on her is too much. I want him to cool off a bit before readding |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Nobody: 5:56am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Ishilove:I think he should be over it now. |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Nobody: 6:11am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Darlx: first of all the UK does not rep the world. Secondly, there are reasons for me to believe that research is false, one of them being: the method the research was done, questioning. Men are more likely to overstate how many partners they've been with, while women are likely to understate theirs. The reason i am sure you know. For men, its about the feeling of being champion, while for women, its about feeling decent. Another reason: i just googled the gender population of the UK and found out women out number men with just over 1m. If this is the difference, them there is no how that stat can be true. The only way that stat can be true is if the number of women is 7 times the number of men in which case, a man can have 7 times more women and that won't be the case for women. If the number of men and women are very close, then there will be no way possible for men to have more partners than women. There will be an intersection somewhere, if you understand set theory. |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Ishilove: 6:18am On Aug 06, 2016 |
iAmCharis:I seriously doubt |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Nobody: 6:22am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Ishilove:Okay. Sort it out the way you want then. |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Ishilove: 6:32am On Aug 06, 2016 |
iAmCharis:PMed ya |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Nobody: 6:46am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Ishilove:Replied.. |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by 5minsmadness: 6:51am On Aug 06, 2016 |
closerange:Smart fella |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Ishilove: 6:53am On Aug 06, 2016 |
iAmCharis:Okey dokey |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by eyinjuege: 8:38am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Ishilove: What do you expect from a morally decadent person? Who probably believes the world revolves around him? 1 Like |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by AyamConfidence(m): 8:39am On Aug 06, 2016 |
hello suxxman good morning |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Oloniyan(m): 8:55am On Aug 06, 2016 |
eyinjuege: Thanks so much for pointing that out. Holier than thou And ishilove at least I denoted #Copied at the end of that article to show I'm not the original poster and never for once did I take the credit of being the original poster and for that I'm still sorry. www.nairaland.com/3271940/bride-price-dignity-eye-opener |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by eyinjuege: 9:27am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Oloniyan: Look here Mr, work on yourself first. 1 Like |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Oloniyan(m): 9:32am On Aug 06, 2016 |
eyinjuege:In as much as I don't like to say but you are full of yourself Ms. Have a great weekend ahead |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by eyinjuege: 10:46am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Oloniyan: And you have nothing to offer anyone. Top of the day to you Mr. 1 Like |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Oloniyan(m): 1:23pm On Aug 06, 2016 |
eyinjuege:Yeah anyone like you d!ckhead |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by eyinjuege: 1:38pm On Aug 06, 2016 |
Oloniyan: You are sadly full of s#!t. And more sadly you're just like a bungalow with nothing upstairs. I will repeat the advice I gave earlier, you need to work on yourself. C'est dommage.... 1 Like |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by evadreams(f): 2:45pm On Aug 06, 2016 |
At the op ur still a boy . Real man knows how to love a woman and does not use sexual history as a criteria, real man knows he is paying not for her sexual purity but becos he luvs her, she is willing to change her last name n bear his name, carry is baby for 9 months, stand by him through the bad and good times, cook for him even though she is working n coming home tired, take care of the kids wen they r sick or healthy, she prays for him to be successful and the lists go on. I think u should grow up and really think of what u want in a woman, ur type will be unfaithful becos the only thing u value in a woman is sexual purity after that what next? How can sex determine ur ego n esteem 4 Likes |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Oloniyan(m): 2:49pm On Aug 06, 2016 |
evadreams: kid indeed. Well thanks a bunch. Done with my research and points gathering. |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by Hamatrony(m): 3:06pm On Aug 06, 2016 |
1 Like |
Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by richardoz(m): 8:17pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
This is a real 'confusion na wa' thread but the OP has made his point I guess, we can't think same way nevertheless the point is our ladies too should work more on purity don't make us guys that are ' otondos' suffer nah! |
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