bigheart2013:
As for me, I think most sisters in church are too naïve. they practically make no effort and contribution to make a relationship grow stronger. I will only refer to 'some' (the bad ones) here bc some are actually very good dates and realistic.

1.Imagine! some are obviously not virgins bc they have dated several men b4 they became born-again, they still say no-to-sex b4 marriage, which is ok, but some refuse other forms of intimacy (romance, French-kissing, caressing, etc), they want to surprise u on wedding night with 'trash' when u cannot run away again.

2.Some do absolutely nothing for the guy apart from eat his food, waste his time on whatsapp chats, sending him long prayers, and invite him to one church program or the other.

3.Some refuse to cook and help clean a boyfriend’s house claiming they are not his wife yet. So how do u know if they can cook according to GO Ade...?

4.So imagine u have a girlfriend who claims to be a Christian– no sex, no romance, no cooking, no cleaning, no playing, no ‘wordly’ gists etc but she takes gifts. What does a man benefit?

5.I am sorry to say that some born-again ladies make very bad dates. You benefit absolutely nothing from them yet they tell lies a lot. Most things they claim to be turn out to be lies later.

6.Some won’t help when you have problems but claim they are praying for u and sometimes even arrogantly claim their prayers is behind any little success you make.

7.men hate all that “my pastor said” Craps! Every man has his territory. You cannot be loyal to two men same time.

If u want to get, what do you give back? If u only want to be praying for me, then I will only be singing for u too. That should be enough!

Bros, pardon my long epistle. Na so e carry dey my mind today.

Guy,U 2 get sense!!!

Because . . . . They get the best Hhhhhhorgazms trying to PHOCK GOD in their DREAMS!
You wan try?
YOU GO CONCUR BY FORCE!
Na so-so BLOOD OF JESUS you go dey hia for night o!

WITCHES!

Mindfulness:


And so someone who is not Christian, Muslim or Jew is without God?
I swear you Chistians have so much in common with ISIS.



Crap!




No worries.

Lol..

So have you been able to give a name to that rush of emotion you felt all the way down to the curve of your back when you realized you were in fact an Atheist?

What about the taste at the back of your throat?

placeofallure:


My friends are just like the normal girl next door. Nothing spectacular or extraordinary other than what goes on in relationships that don't work and both parties move on. Absolutely nothing!

So you mean your friends never found anyone they were compatible with?

What are their choices in men?

crackhaus:

See what Bukatyne is asking me....
You, a self-proclaimed Christian and happily married woman, asking me how a woman places her husband's authority above hers.

I want the practical... how do you intend to place your wife's authority below yours? Even the authority proponents say they the authority doesn't come to place in actual relations with their spouses.

I want practical examples

crackhaus:
Yea the basis of the comparison made by the pastor was to show how these women seem to be more interested in what they want in/gain from a marriage ( by projecting the 'HE'), than what they intend bringing into it themselves (internalizing the 'I').

It is human nature.

@Mindfulness...

back at you

I see all sort of theories flying round which I can't place practically in a loving home.

Another common one is the 'husband makes the final decision'... And I wonder as I am yet to get a satisfactory answer too. Or same husband who is superior to the wife can't tell her to resign/do want she doesn't like etc.

Waiting for crackhaus.

God is in control

bukatyne:


I want the practical... how do you intend to place your wife's authority below yours? Even the authority proponents say they the authority doesn't come to place in actual relations with their spouses.

I want practical examples

That right there is the idea behind it. That a woman places her husband's authority above hers does not mean she becomes a doll to be pushed and ordered around, it just means that she recognizes the authority of her husband as the number one person in the home.

What you should really be asking yourself is this:
Why is it that anytime someone talks about authority in the home, my mind automatically interprets it as giving and receiving orders?

It is human nature.

@Mindfulness...

back at you

I see all sort of theories flying round which I can't place practically in a loving home.

Another common one is the 'husband makes the final decision'... And I wonder as I am yet to get a satisfactory answer too. Or same husband who is superior to the wife can't tell her to resign/do want she doesn't like etc.

See the question above which I noted that you ask yourself.

It is never about superiority or inferiority, it is an administrative hierarchy.

Waiting for crackhaus.

Hope you didn't wait too long?

crackhaus:

Lol..

So have you been able to give a name to that rush of emotion you felt all the way down to the curve of your back when you realized you were in fact an Atheist?

What about the taste at the back of your throat?

You don't make sense.

bukatyne:


I want the practical... how do you intend to place your wife's authority below yours? Even the authority proponents say they the authority doesn't come to place in actual relations with their spouses.

I want practical examples



It is human nature.

@Mindfulness...

back at you

I see all sort of theories flying round which I can't place practically in a loving home.

Another common one is the 'husband makes the final decision'... And I wonder as I am yet to get a satisfactory answer too. Or same husband who is superior to the wife can't tell her to resign/do want she doesn't like etc.

Waiting for crackhaus.

How did we expect practical answers and solutions from someone who only knows marriage from theory?

Mindfulness:


You don't make sense.

Yea, that's what you usually say when you get a schooling but can't admit it...much respect to whoever is responsible for what might have happened to you, he/she did quite a number a you.

Now tell us Mindfulness,
Who is an atheist?

crackhaus:

Yea, that's what you usually say when you get a schooling but can't admit it...much respect to whoever is responsible for what might have happened to you, he/she did quite a number a you.

Now tell us Mindfulness,
Who is an atheist?

An atheist is someone who doesn't believe in the existence of God, that's definitely not me.

Still struggling Cracky?

Mindfulness:


How did we expect practical answers and solutions from someone who only knows marriage from theory?

Ad hominem...it would have been funny if it wasn't so tragic, considering how this only exposes your hurt emotions.

She already got the practical answers cos she's a married self-proclaimed Christian, I however had nothing to tell you because you are neither—Get over it.

I gotta ask you though:
Why do you always interpret authority in the home to mean giving orders/receiving orders?

Don't you think this thought-process emanates from something much deeper?

Mindfulness:


An atheist is someone who doesn't believe in the existence of God, that's definitely not me.

Still struggling Cracky?

Where did you get this definition from?
Oxford dictionary?


Why don't you post the second link you posted the other day and make a joke of yourself once again?
Tell us what atheist means from the literal Greek translation.

crackhaus:

Ad hominem...it would have been funny if it wasn't so tragic, considering how this only exposes your hurt emotions.

She already got the practical answers cos she's a married self-proclaimed Christian, I however had nothing to tell you because you are neither—Get over it.

I gotta ask you though:
Why do you always interpret authority in the home to mean giving orders/receiving orders?

Don't you think this thought-process emanates from something much deeper?

I am so hurt! I can't answer right now. I am crying an ocean and I need to lick my wounds first.
Then I will answer in the same way you have answered my question.

crackhaus:

Where did you get this definition from?
Oxford dictionary?


Why don't you post the second link you posted the other day and make a joke of yourself once again?
Tell us what atheist means from the literal Greek translation.

I will first post the conversation we had some months ago where you tried to convince me that believing in God makes me religious.

Today he claims that I am an atheist.

What now?

Mindfulness:


I am so hurt! I can't answer right now. I am crying an ocean and I need to lick my wounds first.
Then I will answer in the same way you have answered my question.

But the answer you seek has already been posted to Buka who originally asked the question.

So tell me, why do you assume authority in the home has to do with who gives/barks the orders?

Mindfulness:



I will first post the conversation we had some months ago where you tried to convince me that believing in God makes me religious.

Today he claims that I am an atheist.

What now?

Baby I claim nothing, the Greeks who originated the word are the ones who told you what it means—I am naught but the vessel by which you have now come to this realization.

crackhaus:

But the answer you seek has already been posted to Buka who originally asked the question.

So tell me, why do you assume authority in the home has to do with who gives/barks the orders?

authority

1 [uncountable] the power to give orders to people

http://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/authority?q=authority


You are free to ask Socrates though.

crackhaus:

Baby I claim nothing, the Greeks who originated the word are the ones who told you what it means—I am naught but the vessel by which you have now come to this realization.

And the Greeks made it very simple. An atheist is someone without God. In this sense of the word, nobody can actually be an atheist.

Mindfulness:


authority

1 [uncountable] the power to give orders to people

http://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/authority?q=authority


You are free to ask Socrates though.

*Face Palm*



It is well with you, say Amen!

crackhaus:

*Face Palm*



It is well with you, say Amen!

Crackhaus showing his emotional side. I like it!

In Akon's voice: Just do it some more, just do it some more!

Mindfulness:


And the Greeks made it very simple. An atheist is someone without God. In this sense of the word, nobody can actually be an atheist.

I'm giving you some time to think about that statement thoroughly, then I will correct you in my next post.

crackhaus:

I'm giving you some time to think about that statement thoroughly, then I will correct you in my next post.

Don't waste your time on me.

Mindfulness:


Crackhaus showing his emotional side. I like it!

In Mindy's voice: Just do it ME some more, just do it ME some more!

Edited.

On a more serious note, so you actually believe that when a man has authority in his home, then it means giving his wife orders?

And you still wonder how you're an atheist?

Mindfulness:


Don't waste your time on me.

You're important to me, what can I say...

crackhaus:

You're important to me, what can I say...

Why do you lie?

crackhaus:

Edited.

On a more serious note, so you actually believe that when a man has authority in his home, then it means giving his wife orders?

Yes! This is what I believe. I hoped you would teach me something new here but you chose not to. It's ok.

And you still wonder how you're an atheist?

You are free to think whatever you want about me. It's alright.

Mindfulness:


Yes! This is what I believe. I hoped you would teach me something new here but you chose not to. It's ok.



You are free to think whatever you want about me. It's alright.

See my post to Bukatyne, I already explained how it isn't about superiority or inferiority in a Christian home—just an understanding that God placed the man as the head of his home.

You however don't have to subscribe to this arrangement since you're not a Christian, this is why I didn't see any need explaining it to you.

Mindfulness:


Why do you lie?

I don't think I lie as much as you do, which is why you would think I was lying.

crackhaus:

See my post to Bukatyne, I already explained how it isn't about superiority or inferiority in a Christian home—just an understanding that God placed the man as the head of his home.

Now that we know what it's not about, it would be nice to know what it's about in practical terms.

You however don't have to subscribe to this arrangement since you're not a Christian, this is why I didn't see any need explaining it to you.

I am not a Muslim and yet was interested enough to read some of the Quran.

crackhaus:

I don't think I lie as much as you do, which is why you would think I was lying.

No, I think you are too cool to care about an online personality who might be fat and ugly and is definitely old for Nigerian standards.

Mindfulness:


No, I think you are too cool to care about an online personality who might be fat and ugly and is definitely old for Nigerian standards.

The last time I made the mistake of caring that much to be curious, it didn't go too well...and crackhaus absolutely does not make the same mistake twice

But wait oo, are you really fat and ugly?