LOL at the couple of people not wanting to be friends with Nigerians.  I know people who say this.  One of them is someone I've known for ages, and if not for blood, she would be an ex-acquiantance. lol.  She complains that Nigerians have the worst attitudes, are inferior to Whites and just about any other race or people including other Africans. . . Meanwhile, she has the worst attitude of anyone I have ever known including the bitchiest Americans with whom I've worked.  She thinks she is the smartest person she knows, but hey, get this: she didn't know that buildings facing each other have opposite series of numbers, in other words, she had no idea that one side of the street has even numbered addresses while the other side has odd numbers.    But she is so much smarter than other people.   I could say a lot more about her stupidity, but let's just leave it at that shocking one that even 10-year olds know. 

I can't stand people who hate their own.  Hate others, I don't care - they probably hate you too anyway.  But taking pride in hating what you are, speaks more about you than anything.

To the OP.  You don't need friends if that is your choice and can do without them, and if you can be close to some of your family.  Just remember to keep yourself open to meeting your soulmate so marriage and children doesn't pass you by.