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WHY MANY GUYS WILL NEVER CURE THEIR PREMATURE expulsion by danilho(m): 8:49pm On Aug 27, 2016
WHY MANY GUYS WILL NEVER CURE THEIR PREMATURE EJACULATI*N

Premature Ejaculati*n(PE) is a condition in which a man ejaculates or release sooner than he or his partner might want him to. Premature ejaculati*n is also called quick discharge, or early cum.

Cause of premature ejaculati*n(PE)

Psychological causes; have to do with mental issues such as
* Performance anxiety
* Over excitement
* Tension and anger
* The urge to cum
* Relationship problems
* excessive Porn and over-masturbation also fall under this category because they’re both mental issues.
Some guys see porn as a way of feeling sensual and use masturbation to cool the sexual tension.

Physical causes; Problems relating to
* Peniis hypersensitivity
* Weakness of muscles and nerves responsible for the control of ejaculation.

Physiological causes; These are biochemical and neurological factors, some are common than other.

COMMON
* Neurotransmitters imbalance (low level serotonin and excess dopamine and histamine).
* Abnormal hormonal levels
* Abnormal reflex activity of the ejaculatory system

RARE
* Gene or inherited traits (hereditary)
* Hyperthyroidism
* Prostatitis/inflammation and infection of the prostate or urethra
* Nerve damage from surgery or trauma (very rare)
* Multiple sclerosis


Type of Premature Ejaculati*n
Premature ejaculation is classified into two. Primary and Secondary premature ejaculation.

Primary (PE) is a life long history of premature ejaculati*n that has existed since the very first sexual encounter. Primary (PE) is caused by physical problem like peniis hypersensitivity and physiological/biological problems such as neurotransmitter imbalance, hormonal imbalance, abnormal reflex activity of ejaculatory system, gene(hereditary).
Primary(PE) can also be cause by psychological problems like conditioning(an early sexual behaviors which lead into later experience of sex) example is a teenager learning to ejaculate quickly to avoid being caught masturbating and as such taught himself to ejaculate quickly and that become part of him even when he start making love with a girl.

Secondary(PE) is an acquired(PE) which started after the person has a history of normal sex life in the past. Secondary(PE) is caused by psychological issues like performance anxiety, over excitement and relationship problems.
Many cases of secondary(PE) are caused by behavioral issues like use of illicit drug, smoking, excessive alcohol, Watching too much of porn and over masturbation all of which can deplete the neurotransmitter and lead to the physical and physiological problems.
These behavioral problems can cause sexual fatigue or even erectile dysfunction which sometime leads to (PE), sometime premature ejaculati*n occur because the peniis is not hard enough during intercourse.
The reaction of medications used in treating some illness can cause secondary(PE).
Medical issues like prostatitis, hyperthyroidism and multiple sclerosis can also be the causes of secondary(PE).


Premature Ejaculation Treatment Falls In Three approaches:

* Psychotherapy/behavioral therapy: This are the mental and physical instructions and techniques that can help to control and delay ejaculation.

* Medication: This is the use of medication(synthetic or herbal) to cure, control and delay ejaculation. These medicines may be in form of tablets, capsule, powder or liquid(syrup).

* Combine treatment Approach: The combination of psychotherapy/behavioral therapy and medication to permanent cure, control and delay ejaculation. This is the most effective treatment approach to cure premature ejaculation and most recommended.



Why most premature ejaculation sufferers will never cure their premature ejaculation.
One of the reason many men will continue to struggle with premature ejaculation problem is because they have been told or believed that premature ejaculati*n is psychological and requires psychotherapy alone. They believe they don’t need medication to cure premature ejaculation.
Sorry that is not always the case, though psychotherapy/behavioral therapy can cure some acquired/secondary(PE) cases but not all secondary(PE) cases, so medication is needed for most of premature ejaculation cases, all primary(PE) cases and some secondary(PE).


A sex therapist with over 30 years working experience said that ejaculati*n is mostly a neurobiological function and that it controlled more by men's physiology than whatever men are specially doing to control it
.
Performance anxiety and over-excitement which are the most common psychological causes of ejaculati*n are somehow link with physiological function.
Peniis hypersensitivity which is mostly talk about is a physical factor but it is as a result of both physiological and psychological problems.


Another reason why some men fail to last long as they should is because they believe medication is all they need to last longer in bed.
Medication is a good treatment for premature ejaculation but understanding your body and the signals of ejaculation is also very important. Medication can help you last long to an extent but knowing how to control your arousal will complete the process and make you to last longer in bed.

One of the best sex therapist says "the most effective approach is a combination of psychological assistance and medical intervention. In this way, the man can quickly achieve positive sexual experiences and gain a sense of confidence''

You can Google "ejaculati*n problems: too fast, too slow or not at all"

Some other reasons some guys find it hard to permanently cure premature ejaculation.
* Poor feeding habit, not that they don't have the mmoney to feed well but they don't know what to eat and what not to eat. I mean taking wrong diet

* Lack of exercise, both mental and physical: Exercise is very important for any man that want to last longer in bed.

* Lack of commitment and consistency: Some guys just can't stick with the right techniques for long

* Lack of patient: Some guys can't wait for some week for them to get permanent cure. They want to last long in bed after practicing for just few days so they will always prefer some drugs they will take just 30 minutes or one hour before sex to help the last long during intercourse.

* Unrealistic target: Some guys have unrealistic target. They want to go from less than 2 minutes to 20 minutes within few days of practicing any techniques while some guys want to last 45 minutes of intercourse.


Remember I titled this “why many guys will never cure their premature ejaculation''
What it means is that some guys can apply psychotherapy/behavioral therapy alone to cure premature ejaculation but it is only a few guys that can eliminate premature ejaculation with this approach while some guys can use medication alone to cure premature ejaculation but the combination of both psychotherapy/behavioral therapy and medication is the most effective cure of premature ejaculation.

Primary PE is majorly caused by physiological/neurological problems but a few cases might be psychological, caused by conditioning (early sexual behaviors which lead into later experience of sex) example is teenagers learning to ejaculate quickly to avoid being caught masturbating.

Secondary PE is mostly caused by psychological problems like performance anxiety, over excitement and relationship problems but most cases of secondary PE also have underlying physiological/neurological factors caused by reaction of medication use to treat some illness and sometime behavioral issues like use of illicit drug, smoking, excessive alcohol, watching too much of porn and over masturbation all of which can deplete the neurotransmitter and lead to the physical and physiological causes of (PE).

NOTE: Please don't get me wrong, am not saying that you should just quit porn because it take a little bit of time to quit but cut down on it and you may stop it totally with time, if you can. Also cut down on masturbation. If done right, it will help you to know your arousal level better and help to improve but over masturbation is not good, it should not be more than twice a week or at most three time a week and the purpose should be to mater your arousal level and when you have understand your arousal level, you should cut down on it


I only point this out because of some guys that have history of normal sex when they started having sex but later develop (PE) and as such believe that their premature ejaculation is secondary(PE) and that it is only caused by psychological problems and so believed that psychotherapy/behavioral therapy alone is all they need to cure their premature ejaculati*n.
NO, that is not always the case. Most times it more than just a psychological problem.


Psychotherapy/behavioral therapy actually treat acquired or secondary(PE), but not all cases secondary(PE) can be treated with this treatment approach because of the following reasons.


* Many cases of secondary(PE) also have underlying physiological/neurological factor(s) and if these factor(s) are not taken care of with the aid of medication, such men will not be able able to control and delay ejaculation at all, no matter how hard they try.

* Psychotherapy/behavioral therapy sometimes take a bit longer to yield the desired result, so most guys that that rely on psychotherapy /behavioral therapy alone become frustrated due to the longer time it take to see expected and in that case many of such guys discontinue or quit the program.



These are some of the reasons why the best urologists and men/male clinics always recommend and advice the combination of psychotherapy/behavioral therapy and medication as the best treatment approach to ensure speedy and effective cure of premature ejaculation.


When i say medication, am not in anyway talking about those medicines that are not registered or certified by NAFDAC or those drugs/bitters that many guys out there always have to swallow/drink some thirty(30) minutes or one one(1) hour before sexual intercourse every time they want to have sex. Those kind of drug don't offer permanent cure.

Those kind of drugs are dangerous to health. With those kind of drugs, the person have to always plan sex ahead every time he wishes to have sex and we all know that spontaneous/unplanned sex is more fun and enjoyable that plan sex. The person have to depend on the drug every-time to have sex.

What if your girlfriend/fiancee just show up at place without notice and she badly want sex? Will you take the drug and tell her to for some thirty(30) or one hour? Will you have the courage to take the drug right there in her presence? We all know it is embarrassing

On the long run, taking these drugs are more expensive and yet they do not offer permanent cure instead they just mask(cover) the problem.


Selective Serotonin Re-uptake Inhibitors (SSRIs), antidepressants and phoshodiesterase-5-inhibitors have scientifically proven to help control and delay ejaculation and but all they all have side effects. Though these side effects can reduce or disappear with time, but the truth of the matter is that these classes of medication are not specifically meant for premature ejaculation.


There are medication that are specifically meant to treat premature ejaculation ejaculation, these are the type of medication that guys suffering from premature ejaculation need and should go for. These are the type of medication that the best/top men's health doctors prescribe alongside psychotherapy/behavioral therapy


Both primary PE and secondary PE should be treated the same way to be sure of getting the desired result.

The combination of the healthy routines, tips/techniques and effective medication is the most effective cure of premature ejaculation. You can also check here for more on this.

Psychotherapy work best when combined with medication.

Cleveland clinic, Mayo clinic, Alpha male clinic Australia which are some of the best clinics when it come to men sexual health use the combination of psychotherapy/behavioral therapy and medication to cure most premature ejaculation cases.

You can take time and visit the official website of the clinics above, so you can learn more

In my few years of help guys with premature ejaculati*n, i have come to realize the combine therapy is the best solution that guarantee effective cure. i have come across stingy guys that will not want to take medication and as such very few of them ever cure their premature ejaculati*n, though most of them happen to be students. I have take of some other guys who will just get the medication and won't really take time to practice and learn how to delay ejaculation, so most of such guys improve but they don't get the desired result. Some later realized their mistake and do the needful but then their lover has left them for another man.

To permanently cure premature ejaculation you need the combination Psychotherapy/ behavioral therapy(retraining program) and Medication,
then support these the following.

* Healthy feeding habit

* Exercise(mental and physical)

* Commitment and consistency

Note: Be patient and be realistic with your target, you should aim to add 2 to 3 more minutes every week and within four to six weeks you and will get the desired result.


There are also many eBooks out there, but most of these books either teach the wrong techniques or they teach the right techniques the wrong way. There are also many fake medications out there, so we don’t even know the medications that work.

I sincerely want to help guys that really want to naturally and permanently cure premature ejaculation with the right techniques and the most effective and save medication to conquer premature ejaculation.


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