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Poll: Is marriage boring most of the tijme?

Yes, it's boring!: 30% (22 votes)
No, it's not boring!: 69% (51 votes)
This poll has ended

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Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by benlay(m): 7:40am On Sep 05, 2007
not private though,but exclusively u & me,i like ur profile,it's fascinating
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by BABEELOVE(f): 7:43am On Sep 05, 2007
Alright! I am at work right now---I have to make a stop and will be in the Insomnia section in 10 minutes---looks like we have gone off-topique!!!!.  See you there and we can chat! kiss
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by benlay(m): 7:49am On Sep 05, 2007
navigate me to insomnia section now,please,i av never used it
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by BABEELOVE(f): 8:10am On Sep 05, 2007
Sure!  To nairaland section--click on offtopic and you will see Insominacs only thread!  Just post your "requests" cheesy there!
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by spoilt(f): 2:01pm On Sep 05, 2007
I find most Nigerian women to be too boring, unambitious, and unimaginative. Marriage to them will be boring.

@ seun. most Nigerian women? how many of the over 60 million nigerian women have you run into? grin
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by bethsy: 11:33pm On Nov 06, 2008
marriage is not boring at all cuz mine is not at all expect u make ur s boring then will it be boring but generally marriage is very fun
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by temi4rea(f): 9:15am On Nov 10, 2008
Marriage is wht u mk out of it,getting married is like gaining admission  into a new institution,if u wnt it to be lovely u can if u wnt it the other way its left for u.
There are always challenges in marriage just like schooling,so if one is not prepared for these challenges when they come, one might be quick to say marriage is no fun.

Spice ur marriage wth varieties and u will never get bored.
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by ula(f): 9:30am On Nov 12, 2008
if you are married to your soulmate, marriage will always be new everyday.

but if we are incompatible, then marriage is one hell of a job.
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by abujabooks(f): 2:22pm On Nov 15, 2008
No
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by maritalsol: 5:23pm On Nov 16, 2008
Hi there,
Marriage is not boring but it depends on the perspective from which u're looking at it.In actual fact, marriage is a way of life, hence it should be treated as such.Therefore, whether ur marriage or any marriage at all becomes boring depends on what the party players(.i.e.the couple) put into it.You d players have to commit urself to it and work it out to actually make it interesting and the secret is make ur relationship with ur partner dynamic and flexible.Just keep this in mind, that though great is the act of receiving but greater is the act of giving hence try giving ur all in that relationship and then it will become interesting.
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by TOYOSI20(f): 6:50am On Nov 17, 2008
I hope not,. . . . . . . lol, wink cos how then do folks stay married for 40, 50, 60, years or even more,. . . . .
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by Okijajuju1(m): 5:58pm On Nov 17, 2008
TOYOSI20:

how then do folks stay married for 40, 50, 60, years or even more,. . . . .


ANSWER; More often than none, it is for the sake of the kids. In Africa, it is also to avoid the stigma associated with a broken home.
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by TOYOSI20(f): 12:11am On Nov 18, 2008
Okija_juju:


ANSWER; More often than none, it is for the sake of the kids. In Africa, it is also to avoid the stigma associated with a broken home.

I actually agree tho. . . . . undecided
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by smile4kenn(m): 6:08am On Nov 18, 2008
How can marriage be boring?

It can never be boring with your lovely wife and beautiful kids.

You should be thinking of how to make your marriage work out perfectly,
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by CrudeOil2(m): 11:24am On Aug 28, 2009
Th
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by nezerst(f): 6:13pm On Aug 29, 2009
I'm married and believe me marriage can be boring esp after those butterflies inside die.
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by mohawkchic(f): 2:58am On Aug 30, 2009
~It gets boring for couples who let the flame die in their marriages or dont make an effort to find ways to keep the flame burning! I've noticed some people have this Set Expectation that the flame will be kept alive by itself!!. . .What fire will survive burning w/o some sort of ignition? Every marriage needs an Emotional Refueling to keep the flames burning so even when it does rain as it does in any r/s there's still heat from that fire. . .


~Breakdown or deterioration  in communication is another factor!:Getting caught up in the cycle of life's challenges, Priorities are replaced. . .Emotional Energy are spent on "Survival" rather than spending time togther to have a laff or doing things that use to bring pleasure. . . when having that time takes a back seat,then its no surprise when the r/s settles on "Boring"!Then you open a whole can of worms!
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Aug 30, 2009
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by kiverk: 1:19am On Aug 31, 2009
could sy tell me if there s any difference between rights for woman n man after getting married as per nigerian law? do they have equal rights in a marriage ? the situation:nigerian-foreigner marriage, thanks
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by spoilt(f): 1:20am On Aug 31, 2009
I dont think boring is the word. Try words like hardwork and complicated.
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by kiverk: 1:26am On Aug 31, 2009
could sy tell me if there s any difference between rights for woman n man after getting married as per nigerian law? do they have equal rights in a marriage ? the situation:nigerian-foreigner marriage, thanks
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by candylips(m): 1:29am On Aug 31, 2009
i don't know undecided
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by ifyalways(f): 1:38am On Aug 31, 2009
NO, NO AND A RESOUNDING NO.Its NEW every morning cool
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by shade(f): 11:55am On Aug 31, 2009
If u are married 2 a person who doesnt share or respect ur views,dreams and ideas,then u are in 4 a long stiffling time in ur marriage.All dat kps u going is d 'good old days' when u r single.Bottom line is,marriage wont b boring if u actually TALK and LAUGH wt ur partner.
Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by candylips(m): 9:13am On Sep 01, 2009
shade:

If u are married 2 a person who doesnt share or respect your views,dreams and ideas,then u are in 4 a long stiffling time in your marriage.All dat kps u going is d 'good old days' when u r single.Bottom line is,marriage wont b boring if u actually TALK and LAUGH wt your partner.

why get married to such a person in the first place

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