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Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by Yinkame123(m): 2:26pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
Written of will is not in most cases a guarantee that animosity will not occur after the demise of an individual. Cases are abound of family where presence of will constitute more troubles because the children of the deceased contested the will which in most cases dragged for years in the law court. One of such cases is that of late Rotimi Williams SAN that the sons were at each others throat as regards the authenticity of the will he left behind. in my view leaving will behind does not guarantee they will not be crisis after death. yetseyi: |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by MaeBlocks(f): 3:05pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
The writing of a Will is not a hard thing but shey na who don chop belleful dey write Will? Please remember that times are hard and majority of Nigerians are struggling to feed themselves, pays rents, pay school fee, etc. My papa never write will and neither we his children or our mother care. A colleague of mine's brother inlaw willed his property to his wife (my colleague's sister) and his two children before he died. His family started fighting over the properties with my colleague's sister as she kept insisting they are for her children. But you know what....she has died too. My advice - insisting on having a will couldn't be the ultimate priority of anyone cos no one will be buried with the properties. SmellingAnus: |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by SmellingAnus(m): 3:12pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
MaeBlocks:interesting view |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by idu1(m): 3:29pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
Angelofdarkness: You funny... |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by Pennywise(m): 4:28pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
Nigerian men are afraid of writing a will for obvious reason. Because after writing a will, wetin remain? Not be to go die? |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by iyb(m): 4:35pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
thats the beauty of islam there is no need for a will everybody gets his share. |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by onoja12: 5:24pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
men are not scared of writing a will,rather they are scared of there wife's knowing they have a will.if a my wife ask me about my will,i would ask her to equally take a life policy on insurance Angelofdarkness: |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by Amplitron: 5:41pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
iyb:Good insight iyb. But it is not that automatic. Some Muslims want a portion to be devoted to their favorite charity and an Islamic will still needs to state what should be bequeathed to such. Hence, must be written. |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by greggng: 6:20pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
3 conditions re necessitate a will If you re above 60years old you should consider writing ur will If you re having a terminal illness that tb joshua cannot heal If you u ve be slapped by the ghost pls write ur will before it gets to insanity state |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by SmellingAnus(m): 6:26pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
greggng:hahahah funny you but sense dey inside this talk sha |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by 14DUI(m): 7:21pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
All my properties belongs to my wife and kids. my wife is the primary beneficiary and my kids are the secondary beneficiaries. i have nothing for any brothers or sister, nothing and i mean nothing. my relative already had their shares of me when i'm alive. |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by Berbierklaus(f): 8:29pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
IYANGBALI:When most men acquire property in their name alone? some women do write will tho,divorce mothers,single mothers,wealthy wives,this things are not commonly practiced in Nigeria. |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by IYANGBALI: 8:34pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
Berbierklaus:Go write your will jo even if na only those your shoes and undies |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by Berbierklaus(f): 8:39pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
IYANGBALI:I never marry or born,so why will I write will? Go write will for Babangbali na |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by IYANGBALI: 8:40pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
Berbierklaus:go write your will jo even if na those your shoes bags and undies |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by IYANGBALI: 9:12pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
Berbierklaus:you have started eyeing my brother abi?. He is big strong and reliable. You go wound o |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by Berbierklaus(f): 9:36pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
IYANGBALI: My spec |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by Nobody: 7:39am On Sep 09, 2016 |
In the first instance why are men or women acquiring property in their names alone? If the womans name is on the property papers gbagada gbagaa, then how will the family contest it with her? Also if the man makes it clear to his family that his wife & children are is his Next of kin then they have little say when the man dies The only problem occurs when the family are the ones who sent the guy to school and feel that they are owed things If you are a community project, then ensure that you write a will that favours everyone infact you need a will written more than anyone else. 1 Like |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by ttmacoy: 10:27am On Sep 09, 2016 |
gochenko: If there was mutual trust and respect between husband and wife then she asking for a will should not result in negative reaction. in a sane country even if there is no will there is no chance of the rubbish that happens in Nigeria where families will kick out wives and kids after their brother or son dies. |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by SmellingAnus(m): 10:58am On Sep 09, 2016 |
ttmacoy:oh I see |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by Nobody: 5:03pm On Sep 09, 2016 |
onoja12:oh I see |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Having A Will? by BABANGBALI: 12:41pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Berbierklaus:come make I show you something for my room |
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