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Why do people stay stuck in relationships and claim luv for another? Answers and comments pls.thx

such an intelligent question all the way from london~

poster~
thats so gud of ya~
come let me tell u sometin in ur ear~

peejays:
Why do people stay stuck in relationships and claim luv for another? Answers and comments pls.thx

More often than not the one he/she is inlove with is not readily availabe or could be the best friend to the victim's purported lover.

Also several factors to be considered. . .  character, finance, compatibility etc.

@ 190,

  Gud answer.

well its a true life scenerio for me and i wan c ow ds is gonna play out, dts y i asked for comments

@ 190, are my ears close enuf, cos i cant hear a thing

@positivity, well in ds case it was distance n a host of other things, but now am close enuf n dis is wat i hear,

peejays:
@positivity, well in ds case it was distance n a host of other things, but now am close enuf n dis is wat i hear,

Perhaps u should shed more light on what it is! Who's inlove wth someone else? U or ur bf? If u - is it a friend of his, or someone else. Also examine ur motive for this sudden change in affection.

Well my so called boyfriend is the one stuck.we have been on and off for a while now cos hes been in d UK for about four years and after a while i just got tired of d whole thing n d way it was going.We still talked n chatted all d while when am not mad at him tho,but wit the assumption dat d relationship was over.Now am in d Uk to do my masters and i av told him to stay away if he doesnt have anytin to offer but he says he is still crazy about me and am d best thing dat has ever happened to him but my biased mind isnt making things easy for him cos i am not reli ready to give him a chance cos hes in a relationship.Anyway,i av told him to go sort himself out and until then should stay away, honestly he hasnt been too good to me n has made me so very miserable a number of times but the thing is i have neva stopped loving him,

peejays:
Anyway,i av told him to go sort himself out and until then should stay away, honestly he hasnt been too good to me n has made me so very miserable a number of times but the thing is i have neva stopped loving him,

The bolded is quite good, if u can see it through. The thing with some guys is they often take things for granted. Guys like this only learn to cherish u when you take a hard stance. U've actually taken a step in the right direction, its now tym to let ur brain and not ur emotion decide whats best for you.

If u must take him back, be sure he's got his eyes, tym and heart on u alone. All da best.

peejays:
Why do people stay stuck in relationships and claim luv for another? Answers and comments pls.thx

GUESS THEY ARE SCARED 2 WALK AWAY.
OR

A MATE IN THE HAND IS WORTH 2 IN THE STREET

@positivity, thx cos ur comments reli breathe a lot of positivity , i must confess its reli hard n my friends think am reli silly to have even given him room to come any close again

Companionship, love, habit, lust, list is endless really.