Flywheel212:
I have been married for less than a year now, close to the wedding I noticed that he had been on medication for ED which I found in his bag

I asked why he broke down and opened up to me of how he has been on that drugs for years

I promised to stay only if he would seek medical help because marriages have been broken due to such issue

he then agreed and told me that he had always been afraid of getting married believing his wife would cheat on him due to his inability to satisfy her, I didn't really bother about sex in order not to make him feel inadequate,

we finally got married just a week into the wedding fight started he picks offense on every little thing so we don't have to make love though in the past the sex would last for about a minute or so but this time around he hardly ever gets hard and when he does he spills almost immediately i reminded him of his promise to see a doctor but rather he yelled at me saying he has no problem I endured until I couldn't anymore we then decided to leave codedly without informing our families but on the morning I was to leave he copied a chat I had with my ex forwarded to his family accusing me of being unfaithful the chat carried dates which clearly showed the conversation was before wedding (we talked about some nutty things we did in the past, clearly stating how I love the person I was to marry being my husband ). What amazes me the most was that he had to deviate from the truth and blame me instead, after the lonely months I endured for him.

Drdreyy:
@Flywheel212 and Joavid, are both of you Nigerians/African women? Or both of you are just impersonating as females on NL?

i asked that question because majority of African women hate sex as they have been genitally mutilated/destroyed(circumcised) thus they hate sex because it's painful and unejoyable.

Sex is not an issue with African women. So I don't know what you meant by enduring @Flywheel212. And Joavid is also claiming she can't go to the alter with a man suffering from ED. I can't believe this.

What i know is that even if the man has ED, and can't perform, once he has money, he is covered. I don't believe in performance or whatever, money will do it.

I know some women get wet and orgasmm by mere seeing money (only Nigerian women though)

Drdreyy:
@Flywheel212 and Joavid, are both of you Nigerians/African women? Or both of you are just impersonating as females on NL?

i asked that question because majority of African women hate sex as they have been genitally mutilated/destroyed(circumcised) thus they hate sex because it's painful and unejoyable.

Sex is not an issue with African women. So I don't know what you meant by enduring @Flywheel212. And Joavid is also claiming she can't go to the alter with a man suffering from ED. I can't believe this.

What i know is that even if the man has ED, and can't perform, once he has money, he is covered. I don't believe in performance or whatever, money will do it.

I know some women get wet and orgasmm by mere seeing money (only Nigerian women though)

sisisioge:


Dare! Who been dey deceive you? I remember you being very vocal about this same topic on African women sexuality a while ago. Are you within the country? You should get your data via primary source sweetheart... Women all over the world love good sexxx, African women are no different. Yes, the genital mutilation affects the ability to wholly enjoy sexxxx but you should know that there are several ways to get her to arrive.

Biko don't quote me, I just thought you should look beyond your bad encounters and secondary data. No turn this to another three pages like you did before.

Joavid:


Am yet to meet a woman who was circumcised. I know it use to happen back in day in some remote villages, but that was then

Besides there thousands of tribes in Africa with thier own traditions. Where I come from, it never happened. it was never our tradition.

Drdreyy:


You are not current. It's still happening now in fact the prevalence rate in Nigeria is about 70%. It's as high as 90% in some countries in Africa.

The FG and ministry of health are just working on putting an end to the barbaric practice.

If you want proofs for those prevalent rates above, you can read current articles/publications on FGM from the federal ministry of health. I have some screen shots here if you need it, but you can Google it yourself

TheArchangel:
STICK TO THE TOPIC PLEASE.
African women hate sex my foot. Same rag tag statistics labelled Nigerian women as the most unfaithful in the world. I wonder how it is so if they HATE sex.

Drdreyy:


Hey, don't mix things up here.

Being unfaithful doesn't have a positive correlation with liking sex, especially for African women.

Labelling/tagging Nigerian women as the most unfaithful can be interpreted in terms of the excessive/insatiable appetite for money and material things of Nigerian women. That is the reason why 90% of them are unfaithful, not because of sexxxx.

Example if you meet another guy who is richer than your current boyfriend, won't you cheat on him? Now tell me did you do that because of s3x? (sorry for using you as an example though)
So that's it.

mukhcech:


you are a bloody liar. What the hell do you mean 70% of women are circumcised in Nigeria. This is falsehood. Present your fact if you are sure of what u are saying.

Drdreyy:


You are not current. It's still happening now in fact the prevalence rate in Nigeria is about 70%. It's as high as 90% in some countries in Africa.

The FG and ministry of health are just working on putting an end to the barbaric practice.

If you want proofs for those prevalent rates above, you can read current articles/publications on FGM from the federal ministry of health. I have some screen shots here if you need it, but you can Google it yourself

nnamdibig:


Bros i think you are the one that is not current. It's happening where? Name states and villages please. Not some articles written in the 80s to achieve some goals.
Again, your thought about African/Nigerian ladies hmmmmmmm topic for another day.

Drdreyy:


Articles written in the 80s? What is wrong with all of you quoting me? Please i repeat, Google is there to clear your doubts.

You are the one that is not current. Around this time last year i was in Osun State and i witnessed several enlightenment campaigns/programs from the government on the ills of FGM
Osun is one of the states with the highest prevalence rate, above 70%

nnamdibig:


Just air your views without sounding abusive and insulting.
Still waiting for your screen shot.
May be your consider this your 70% in reality.
All my life, I have never seen such ladies.

nnamdibig:

schumastic:
this one is strong

Advice OP nah
Op please tell us which tribe is your husband

misspicy:

Advice OP nah

Op please tell us which tribe is your husband