I had been in an off and on relationship for nearly eight years, though we were more off than on.

There were times I tried to move on but I always allowed my emotions to draw me back since I loved the guy in question to a fault.

I can’t begin to narrate all the things he put me through, he can be very arrogant and so full of himself yet I would excitedly run back into his arms whenever he chose to open them to me again.

Sometime in the middle of last year, I traveled for his younger sister’s marriage.
She’s a close friend of mine too. I had thought that would be an opportunity to reconcile with my man but that didn’t happen.

It was there i met with the biggest disappointment and embarrassment of my life.

My boyfriend formed too busy and was not ready to give me any attention. All through my stay in their family house, he made extra effort to avoid any form of contact with me so I let him be.

Anyway, something else happened during my stay. His maternal uncle (not an old man please, but a young adorable guy in his late thirties) became interested in me.

We exchanged contacts, became friends right away and later started a relationship.
Now he has asked me to marry him and of course I said yes! I have since told him about his nephew and I.

My head ache now is my ex and his sister accusing me of damaging their relationship with their uncle.

They’ve been sending me text messages and throwing shades at me on social networks.

It’s really heartbreaking as most of the things they post are demeaning. Was I wrong in accepting to marry him? Should I have said no? I am not going back on the wedding which has been fixed for November this year, but I want to be convinced that I’m not treacherous as they both said I am.

Public Opinion is highly recommended.

I had been in an off and on relationship for nearly eight years, though we were more off than on.

There were times I tried to move on but I always allowed my emotions to draw me back since I loved the guy in question to a fault.

I can’t begin to narrate all the things he put me through, he can be very arrogant and so full of himself yet I would excitedly run back into his arms whenever he chose to open them to me again.

Sometime in the middle of last year, I traveled for his younger sister’s marriage.
She’s a close friend of mine too. I had thought that would be an opportunity to reconcile with my man but that didn’t happen.

It was there i met with the biggest disappointment and embarrassment of my life.

My boyfriend formed too busy and was not ready to give me any attention. All through my stay in their family house, he made extra effort to avoid any form of contact with me so I let him be.

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Anyway, something else happened during my stay. His maternal uncle (not an old man please, but a young adorable guy in his late thirties) became interested in me.

We exchanged contacts, became friends right away and later started a relationship.
Now he has asked me to marry him and of course I said yes! I have since told him about his nephew and I.

My head ache now is my ex and his sister accusing me of damaging their relationship with their uncle.

They’ve been sending me text messages and throwing shades at me on social networks.

It’s really heartbreaking as most of the things they post are demeaning. Was I wrong in accepting to marry him? Should I have said no? I am not going back on the wedding which has been fixed for November this year, but I want to be convinced that I’m not treacherous as they both said I am.

Public Opinion is highly recommended.

source: http://enyocole.com/ex-mad-im-marry-uncle/

Your ex's uncle? That's weird for me. You dump me for my father's brother. My father would come to your wedging as his brothers sibling or your ex's father. You already lost the support of the family you're marrying into you don't need the complications that come with that in your life. Things are weird as it is, how will that uncle and his nephew relate? This is a very sensitive society. It doesnt make you a bad or treacherous person because obviously you don't see any big deal in it but I think their is. How were things betwwen the ex and uncle before you?

Be careful because ur emotion may draw u back to ur ex when u are in ur ex uncle house

mehn you went for the bigger fish tell ya ex you dont do crayfish anymore