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5 Years?

I v nothing 2 say ,may b d next poster sha.

Damn! But hol up!

How do you guys make love, with clothes on?

I don't think its normal
You should try talking to her

Na wa o o, no comment shall coz am still single.....

5 gini?! Shuo, so you mean say na rechargeable lamp you dey take scope area since that time?

I smell, infact, i see one chance.

OP, hope u've had kids by her sha? Otherwise, you might seriously have been shagging something else o. After all, one woman once cried out recently that her impotent husband had been switching his twin on her for long in their matrimonial bed; under the guise of "let's-turn-of-the-lights!"
So, hope you've not been pouring in the wrong meat-roll?

Seriously, sit her down and talk it over. Maybe, she's been through some trauma before that she's yet to open up about. If that's true, be prepared to walk her through it. You've been pateint for 5 years already.

She's shy/lacking confidence and you've not tried to help her overcome it.
She dey fear say you get bad-mouth and would yab her imperfections

Mogbe...5yrs

she has a scar, a horrible one.....

So how do you bleep her?
In d dark?

Hogwash.

5yesrs! I disagree.

Op say Wallah

Maybe you didn't pay enough for her bride price, or incomplete payment... So she isn't giving you full service... Woulda loved to help pay up, but.......

After 5years it's now you want to complain? What should we now do for you Sir?

TPAND:
Damn! But hol up!

How do you guys make love, with clothes on?

yes dats a tin, m surprised you hv'nt heard of it before

OP, dis one na serious magana

Maybe she is insecure of her body. Instead of wasting time on nairaland, call her and have a discussion about it. She'll most likely open up to you if you talk about it in a way that is respectful and shows love and care for her. She's your wife

#My2cents

Wealth3g:
What should be done? My legally-married wife doesn't allow me to see her unclothedness. Is this normal? Advise pls..
Whenever she's naked at home and notices my pressence, she quickly re-adjusts, she even feel free in presence of her sisters by not minding her postures, but when i'm around, it's something else. When she takes her bath and I want to join, she turns it down and locks.
what could be wrong? She has been like dis since we knew, five years ago.
pls advice.

This is quite unusual. But do you have kids yet?
(i think 5yrs is enough time)

It's most probable that she is the shy type (although very shy in this case). And you have given her a reason to feel uncomfortable with you the first time you saw her unclad.
Probably you complained about certain parts of her body or your facial expression/body language shows disapproval.

The second reason is she is both shy and a spirikoko.

I have heard the case of an extreme spirikoko couple who couldn't conceive after several years of marriage until they came for counseling.
After making several enquiries, it was discovered that they have not been having intercourse.
Probably their belief was that once a man and a woman are lying in close proximity, pregnancy will result.

I found the case extremely hard to believe but I had no reason to doubt my brother who was part of the counselling team that narrated the case to me.

impossible... jeez how? 5years ...my dear I can't say anything

lol...e fit be say she get pe.nis for her na.rvel o...or even an extra va.gina
...HER BODY DEY RECESSION TILL 2019..
#havefaith

It's simple. There's something she does not want you to see. Perhaps, she feels embarrassed about it and hence try to prevent you from seeing it. Example is stretch marks....

Nairalanders have no chill

@op,if this is true, you get patience gan o

It may be due to how your courtship before marriage was.
Are you guys the type that play around, I mean when you are alone in your room?
I'm sure she's not use to that romantic play from you, maybe yourself didn't have enough confidence to initiate a rough play with her.

My advise to you is that you should change the way you relate with your wife, make her feel comfortable around you, when you feel like she's being too serious smack her boot! If she's trying to be stiff wrap her within your arms, let her know you have possessed her.

STOP making love to her with her cloths on, don't off the light!!!
If she complain as expected, tell her you are not comfortable with it.

Give her trills, hangout with her.

I'm sure with all that, she'll adjust with time.

I can't imagine myself with that kind of woman, I don't even think I can end up with that kind of woman.

EVERY LADY NEED TO BE REFINE TO SUIT YOUR TASTE OF WOMAN!

Wealth3g:
What should be done? My legally-married wife doesn't allow me to see her unclothedness. Is this normal? Advise pls..
Whenever she's naked at home and notices my pressence, she quickly re-adjusts, she even feel free in presence of her sisters by not minding her postures, but when i'm around, it's something else. When she takes her bath and I want to join, she turns it down and locks.
what could be wrong? She has been like dis since we knew, five years ago.
pls advice.

You knew before marriage and still married her, why are you complaining now?

Well, she's in the marine world. Check your life since you met her, it's been crap. You are still alive and not begging because she likes you