hello nairalanders, i know some of u nairalanders are elders in the villages or pertain to some of ur village meeting associations,

times are hard now that some bankers have been sacked,so many people losing their jobs daily, even the mighty dangote group just sacked some of its employees......
i went to see a friend of mine and his friend that i do not know came to see him as well, the guy was just lamenting...(FOR THIS HARD TIME NA HIM THIS GIRL FAMILY BRING ALL THIS LIST FOR TRADITIONAL AND SO ON.. )
i collected the list from him and i was like OH MY GOSH!!!! and i asked him how many of the mans daughter are u getting married to and he said, na just one o my brother and he said he lost his job last year but he is engaged in a petty business now...
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please nairalanders, is there a way the list can be reduced or the village elders dont know whats happening in nigeria now?

if it was 400k before, cant they bring it down to like 150k or even 100k so that guys wont start running, make person no spend money finish ,come enter house dey drink garri, most of these village elders are greedy