My aunty who got married to her husband in her late 30s died 4years later after her marriage. She gave birth to two beautiful kids now at home with their granny though those kids are healthy.

She was a very strong christian and lovely woman. She found out her husband was with AIDS only when he had infected her and down sick with it. She died few months later after the husband died.

Women are going through a lot as some knew their man flirts but couldn't protect themselves from contacting Sexual Transmitted Diseases. At times, giving the man pack of condom is out of book as they prefer it skin to skin with their numerous girls.

How can a woman protect herself from a Casanova husband? is it possible?

if she knew very well that her husband has Aids and didn't take measures to secure her self.......





then she killed herself.

kellyJames5:
if she knew very well that her husband has Aids and didn't take measures to secure her self.......





then she killed herself.

She didn't know. How could she have secured herself? ask the husband to use condom?

The moment you suspect a partner cheats, take action!


Quit, or forgive only when he's remorseful and ready to get checked.


Your sis probably ended up with her husband out of pressures and worry.

WomanOfRace:


She didn't know. How could she have secured herself? ask the husband to use condom?

If a woman finds out her husband is philandering,she can insist he takes veneral disease tests and insist on him using a condom if she will have sex with him.
A woman can always walk out of marriage with a chronic cheat.

Acidosis:
The moment you suspect a partner cheats, take action!


Quit, or forgive only when he's remorseful and ready to get checked.


Your sis probably ended up with her husband out of pressures and worry.

My aunty not sister.

Quit? lol....like you don't know some men rape when you say no to them. Helplessness.

WomanOfRace:


She didn't know. How could she have secured herself? ask the husband to use condom?

she didn't know, that's unfair of the man.

using condoms yes but had she seeked medical advice, they could be having sex without condoms and she'd sill be negative.

it happens this days.

thorpido:
If a woman finds out her husband is philandering,she can insist he takes veneral disease tests and insist on him using a condom if she will have sex with him.
A woman can always walk out of marriage with a chronic cheat.

you are right! prevention is better than cure. I don't forgiving and going on is the best....but to run before unaware hostage.

kellyJames5:


she didn't know, that's unfair of the man.

using condoms yes but had she seeked medical advice, they could be having sex without condoms and she'd sill be negative.

it happens this days.

Having sex with aids patient without condom and still safe ? that's a miracle. Didn't know there is a drug for such.

WomanOfRace:


Having sex with aids patient without condom and still safe ? that's a miracle. Didn't know there is a drug for such.

not really drugs

do some research about it and you'd find out.

I taught AIDS takes more than 4years before the person dies.

kellyJames5:

not really drugs
do some research about it and you'd find out.

ok, i will

realdee44:
I taught AIDS takes more than 4years before the person dies.

I don't know.....

Only that she died after four years

Its quite unfortunate they both died leaving d poor kids behind. Aah, what women go tru...d only way to be safe is to marry a man that fears God and vice versa. A Godfearing spouse will not cheat on you come what may because of his or her FEAR OF GOD. In pursuit of vain things, people often neglect the most important virtues to look out for before jumping into marriage. I so feel for d kids.

Mumben:
Its quite unfortunate they both died leaving d poor kids behind. Aah, what women go tru...d only way to be safe is to marry a man that fears God and vice versa. A Godfearing spouse will not cheat on you come what may because of his or her FEAR OF GOD. In pursuit of vain things, people often neglect the most important virtues to look out for before jumping into marriage. I so feel for d kids.

You are absolutely right; even if he cheats....may be once because it just happened. Never like that of a chronic cheat.

Mumben:
Its quite unfortunate they both died leaving d poor kids behind. Aah, what women go tru...d only way to be safe is to marry a man that fears God and vice versa. A Godfearing spouse will not cheat on you come what may because of his or her FEAR OF GOD. In pursuit of vain things, people often neglect the most important virtues to look out for before jumping into marriage. I so feel for d kids.

Nice, but the same god fearing women out there prefer the bad boy, aka, spe.rm donor.

While she will not cheat, her low self-esteem (which they mistakenly call RUTH), will make her settle for the man she will continue to pray over.

If only I were God, I will never allow such women pray in my name.

Hmmmm....it is well. Almost gone are the days of ladies and gentlemen. Whew! Can't we all live in peace? If he's no longer feeling her, can't he just up and leave without hurting her more? Vise_visa? Na real wa o.

Where did it all go wrong? Can't we all just live in peace? Yeah, I know it's starting to sound like a broken record

I look at most marriages and fear dey catch me...

Acidosis:


Nice, but the same god fearing women out there prefer the bad boy, aka, spe.rm donor.

While she will not cheat, her low self-esteem (which they mistakenly call RUTH), will make her settle for the man she will continue to pray over.

If only I were God, I will never allow such women pray in my name.

You are right. You sound like the God fearing type.
I'm sure you are single because applications is about to start. Real God fearing men are scare these days.

sisisioge:
Hmmmm....it is well. Almost gone are the days of ladies and gentlemen. Whew! Can't we all live in peace? If he's no longer feeling her, can't he just up and leave without hurting her more? Vise_visa? Na real wa o.

Where did it all go wrong? Can't we all just live in peace? Yeah, I know it's starting to sound like a broken record

I look at most marriages and fear dey catch me...

You are right. Marriage these days sounds and is like a license to letting all hell lose

Acidosis:


Nice, but the same god fearing women out there prefer the bad boy, aka, spe.rm donor.

While she will not cheat, her low self-esteem (which they mistakenly call RUTH), will make her settle for the man she will continue to pray over.

If only I were God, I will never allow such women pray in my name.

. You are right, many ladies re guilty of such attitude, taking it upon themselves to fight a difficult battle. It is well shaa

Over to the wear red lingerie team. RIP to the dead, a cheating spouse is a potential killer.

WomanOfRace:

ok, i will

alright.
this your username though

what's the message?

kellyJames5:


alright.

this your username though


what's the message?

It means woman of the people. Someone whose main concern is for the people.
A sacrificial service to humanity is what counts in life.

I came with nothing material but i'm sure i was sent for a purpose and have to leave with nothing one day.

Legacy is not in wealth but on lives of people we touched during a lifetime. Leaving a footprint on the sand of times.

Woman Of Race

byvan03:
Over to the wear red lingerie team. RIP to the dead, a cheating spouse is a potential killer.

yes....like a bomb waiting to explode

May God save us all

WomanOfRace:


It means woman of the people. Someone whose main concern is for the people.
A sacrificial service to humanity is what counts in life.

I came with nothing material but i'm sure i was sent for a purpose and have to leave with nothing one day.

Legacy is not in wealth but on lives of people we touched during a lifetime. Leaving a footprint on the sand of times.

Woman Of Race

impressive!

pray God helps you to actualize your dream.

where do you stay?