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| What Do I Do? by sure4live(op): 7:21pm On Nov 02, 2009 |
Hello everyone, Pls I need your kind suggestions. I am in a dilemma at the moment, two people are in love with me, The one I love among them is a muslim and my parent do not know him and they won't allow me marry a muslim but the other one is the person my parents know about, he is a christain but i don't love him although he is willing to provide anything I ask from him. what do I do? Do I just continue with the one i'm in love with and let the other know that i'm quitting my relationship with him not minding the consequences it may lead to from my parents or do I continue with the one my parents know about which i don't have any love for, even though he is willing to provide anything i ask for. thanks, awaiting your kind suggestions. |
| Re: What Do I Do? by treasbuk: 7:24pm On Nov 02, 2009 |
Why not stick to what will get you your parents blessings? i have come to understand that parental blessings in a marriage goes a very long way |
| Re: What Do I Do? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Nov 02, 2009 |
If u are a christian i would advice you go for the christian guy as long as you are sure he is sincere. |
| Re: What Do I Do? by coolier(f): 8:40pm On Nov 02, 2009 |
Follow your heart. |
| Re: What Do I Do? by 22medinat(f): 10:04pm On Nov 02, 2009 |
please go for the christian guy,as far as you know that he is sincere.religion is a very very sensitive,and also be sure that he is a xtian,not a follower |
| Re: What Do I Do? by sistajay(f): 10:17pm On Nov 02, 2009 |
Sorry o, the decision is yours, pray and follow your heart. |
| Re: What Do I Do? by iice(f): 2:39am On Nov 03, 2009 |
[color=#9900ff]Are you male or female?  Just pick one  [/color] |
| Re: What Do I Do? by izeek(m): 9:08am On Nov 03, 2009 |
@iice, i think the problem started with the gender thing. lol if she/he can decide which gender to pick, am sure the love thing will be resolved. @post, if you are not materialistic, i suggest you stick with your love. |
| Re: What Do I Do? by Bertbert: 1:03pm On Nov 03, 2009 |
From your profile you claimed to be a male but from what you now wrote its as if you are a female because the people you are talking are beign referred to as 'him" |
| Re: What Do I Do? by truelover(m): 1:37pm On Nov 03, 2009 |
Why not Pray to God to guide you, follow your heart. Don't be decieved by others comments about your relationship. The major thing is: Are you happy with what you intend going for? If not, then turn it down. Bye |
| Re: What Do I Do? by justwise(m): 2:44pm On Nov 03, 2009 |
sure4live:If u don't love him let him go, stop leading him on and collecting stuff from him. |
| Re: What Do I Do? by kpolli(m): 3:11pm On Nov 03, 2009 |
r ur parents marrying the guy or u, dont go n make mistakes n claim is ur parents fault o, , plus ur profile states male (hope ur aint gay) |
| Re: What Do I Do? by nnemak(m): 3:15pm On Nov 03, 2009 |
Fast for 10 days, then the first one u still after the fasting is the corrcet choice |
| Re: What Do I Do? by justwise(m): 3:16pm On Nov 03, 2009 |
[quote author=nne_mak link=topic=346397.msg4853451#msg4853451 date=1257257709]Fast for 10 days, then the first one u still after the fasting is the corrcet choice[/quote]Joke? |
| Re: What Do I Do? by shayoor(f): 3:30pm On Nov 03, 2009 |
you just have to pray about it |
| Re: What Do I Do? by r231(m): 3:35pm On Nov 03, 2009 |
follow your heart and pray about it |
| Re: What Do I Do? by sure4live(op): 8:31pm On Nov 03, 2009 |
Its a female that has this problem, and she is searching for a way out. |
| Re: What Do I Do? by ThoniaSlim(f): 7:25am On Nov 04, 2009 |
If your prepared for the issues that would come up in future. . .cus I have seen it happen many times and it'll definitely come. . .then go ahead and marry the muslim guy. . .  |
| Re: What Do I Do? by sure4live(op): 3:43pm On Nov 04, 2009 |
thanks for your honest suggestions. |
