What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? - Family (3)

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Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Jailerrr(f): 8:12pm On Dec 11, 2016

wheezie24:
u neva can tell....we can gradually mk our way to d other room nd tell our love story here too

. Guy na you de find my trouble whr I hide am ooo,ummmm! ejim chukwu were yoo gi! forward match...

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Jailerrr(f): 8:17pm On Dec 11, 2016

Wolexdey:
How do someone avoids the other person... I think your definition to this Will go a long way.

Thanks

The op stated it na, my own be say I no get time to waste,avoid me for no reason, then am good to go,no time being a nudnik to any morafoka

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Dec 11, 2016

Ignoring people sometimes is the best way to go.
No point stressing to explain, settle or even complain.

Rather than deal with people who give you headaches, just cut them out totally and have peace of mind.
After all we no enter this world with anybody.

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Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Dec 11, 2016

If you have discussed the reason for his disinterest in you, if you have given him enough time, if you have waited enough to improve the situation and nothing is coming out of it, then it is better you move on. Let go. If the person is the one for you, he will come back. Otherwise that person is just not meant for you. If it is clear that your relationship is going nowhere and is on verge of break-up, do not cling to it.

This is the hard part.

I've explained, talked, begged & tried to get over but none has worked.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by aminu790(m): 8:25pm On Dec 11, 2016

9c 1

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Jailerrr(f): 8:30pm On Dec 11, 2016

O0ni:
This is the hard part.

I've explained, talked, begged & tried to get over but none has worked.

So wetin you still de wait for? OK na

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by butanep(m): 8:44pm On Dec 11, 2016

Jailerrr:
Op you try OK, no one is worth dying for,if you avoid me,you get d Bleep up,no time! I change my parade sharply... who love help sef?hahahaha highontinz

Don't talk like that...

Love mightn't have helped you but has helped others.

Just pick the points you want and walk away.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Galactico1(m): 8:52pm On Dec 11, 2016

unclezuma:

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Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by VeeVeeMyLuv(f): 8:55pm On Dec 11, 2016

Benita27:

sori about my comment yesterday.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by slayminder(m): 9:02pm On Dec 11, 2016

sexfabregas:
that's why I love my self, the op is making sense, but I wouldn't go through all of the above if my partner or anybody is ignoring me. I would just go my way and let them be. Not because I'm too proud or I've got it all but the fact is, fighting for someone you love is okay but fighting for someone to love you is a total waste of time.

quote me anywhere

u said it all

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Dec 11, 2016

VeeVeeMyLuv:
sori about my comment yesterday.

I have no idea of what you're sorry for.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Wolexdey(m): 9:04pm On Dec 11, 2016

Jailerrr:
The op stated it na, my own be say I no get time to waste,avoid me for no reason, then am good to go,no time being a nudnik to any morafoka

Lolz...That's kidda blunt though!

Well! You're a Lady...Simply put, many suitors go show face...

I think that's the confidence you got about that...Am I right?

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by VeeVeeMyLuv(f): 9:06pm On Dec 11, 2016

Benita27:
I have no idea of what you're sorry for.

the thread were you were the most beauriful romancelander.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Dec 11, 2016

VeeVeeMyLuv:
the thread were you were the most beauriful romancelander.

I am not in any beauty contest with anyone.

Saw lots of negative comments from monikers and cared less, never knew you were one cos i found all that unimportant.

I am cool.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by butanep(m): 9:21pm On Dec 11, 2016

Relationship and dating are just too complicated sometimes.

When we need a girlfriend, a wife material will come but won't take her serious and now we need a wife material, girlfriends keeps coming...

God direct us to the woman that will make but not mar our destiny.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by VeeVeeMyLuv(f): 9:26pm On Dec 11, 2016

Benita27:
I am not in any beauty contest with anyone.

Saw lots of negative comments from monikers and cared less, never knew you were one cos i found all that unimportant.

I am cool.

ok
tanks.

i think am attracted to your maturity and niceness.
i felt a lady with such a warm and gentle demeanor does not deserve those kinds of comment.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Dec 11, 2016

VeeVeeMyLuv:
ok
tanks.

i think am attracted to your maturity and niceness.
i felt a lady with such a warm and gentle demeanor does not deserve those kinds of comment.

The cydyonyxy moniker happens to be someone i had few misunderstandings with, that was her own way of getting back at me. grin

No problem and thanks for rendering your apology, not everyone could apologise for wrong doings thou!.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by RaeMystix: 9:32pm On Dec 11, 2016

So moving on isn't a option? shocked

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nobody: 9:33pm On Dec 11, 2016

Jailerrr:
So wetin you still de wait for? OK na

I do not know how to just move on, I feel very helpless.

Is it such a bad idea to be into someone & be very serious, I wonder.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Saidu22(m): 9:48pm On Dec 11, 2016

sexfabregas:
that's why I love my self, the op is making sense, but I wouldn't go through all of the above if my partner or anybody is ignoring me. I would just go my way and let them be. Not because I'm too proud or I've got it all but the fact is, fighting for someone you love is okay but fighting for someone to love you is a total waste of time.

quote me anywhere

Bros you be my type oo, love is 50-50, I just let go of one babe last week I love the girl but she seems not to have the same feeling for me. so the best thing, I just free her. the fact is that u can't force someone to love you.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by gqboyy(m): 9:51pm On Dec 11, 2016

leave em be.....that's all

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Iamthoney(m): 9:53pm On Dec 11, 2016

mccoy47:
Another BS on FP

I tell you

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nobody: 10:22pm On Dec 11, 2016

I DONT BELIEVE IN THE JUNK YOU GUYS MISTAKE AS LOVE
I DONT DATE
I DONT DO RELATIONSHIPS
AND I DONT GIVE A DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if i am to date, IT WILL BE FOR BUSINESS PURPOSES, same as marriage and relationship
she must be an entreprenuer, a tech freak, a money freak, i dont need perfect but, i admire women who are so into money making and not all this attention seeking and time wasting cum lovesick girls everywhere!
so until i see that woman that
1 is into bitcoin,
2 plays PS4
3 cooks well,
4 can stay alone
5 plain and straight
truthful and realistic
6 focused and a good planner
7 not religious but spiritual,
all this relationship junk aint for me!
SO SINCE THEY ARE HARD TO FIND, IT WILL ALSO BE HARD FOR MY TYPE TO BE .............. HOOKED!

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Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Beey(f): 10:33pm On Dec 11, 2016

Just move on.If they have no time for you, be sure somebody else somewhere is taking their time.Run out as fast as your legs can carry you and do not look back.Especially if you've tried to work on the same issue before and it keeps coming up.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by donsteady(m): 10:55pm On Dec 11, 2016

sexfabregas:
that's why I love my self, the op is making sense, but I wouldn't go through all of the above if my partner or anybody is ignoring me. I would just go my way and let them be. Not because I'm too proud or I've got it all but the fact is, fighting for someone you love is okay but fighting for someone to love you is a total waste of time.

quote me anywhere

Is easier to say this when you're not in love

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by sirfee(m): 11:10pm On Dec 11, 2016

O0ni:
This is the hard part.

I've explained, talked, begged & tried to get over but none has worked.

Then you move on,there are many fishes in the river.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nobody: 11:39pm On Dec 11, 2016

donsteady:
Is easier to say this when you're not in love

lol my nigger, I've seen a lot and one thing I don't care about is loving someone who doesn't love me back, yeah shît like that happened years Back but I'm wiser now. no matter how I love her once I see the feelings ain't mutual I cut her bïtch ass off. I don't give two fvvks.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by donsteady(m): 12:18am On Dec 12, 2016

sexfabregas:
lol my nigger, I've seen a lot and one thing I don't care about is loving someone who doesn't love me back, yeah shît like that happened years Back but I'm wiser now. no matter how I love her once I see the feelings ain't mutual I cut her bïtch ass off. I don't give two fvvks.

Well I undetand you. Often when we give a Bleep, the Bleep Bleep us real hard

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nobody: 5:34am On Dec 12, 2016

OlajumokeBread:

The only solution is to hand him/her over to Buhari

Buhari knows how to make people to be blindly faithful and ignorantly attached to you

You can ask the zombies

They're dying of hunger but they're still faithful and attached to their master

Yea! They are zombies! I don't expect less.

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nobody: 5:40am On Dec 12, 2016

Txonyi:
I DONT BELIEVE IN THE JUNK YOU GUYS MISTAKE AS LOVE
I DONT DATE
I DONT DO RELATIONSHIPS
AND I DONT GIVE A DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if i am to date, IT WILL BE FOR BUSINESS PURPOSES, same as marriage and relationship
she must be an entreprenuer, a tech freak, a money freak, i dont need perfect but, i admire women who are so into money making and not all this attention seeking and time wasting cum lovesick girls everywhere!
so until i see that woman that
1 is into bitcoin,
2 plays PS4
3 cooks well,
4 can stay alone
5 plain and straight
truthful and realistic
6 focused and a good planner
7 not religious but spiritual,
all this relationship junk aint for me!
SO SINCE THEY ARE HARD TO FIND, IT WILL ALSO BE HARD FOR MY TYPE TO BE .............. HOOKED!

You've spoken well!
African guyz are rarely clear about the typa ladies they want. They tend to "manage" relationships. That explains some and most divorce cases

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by Nairasolutions: 6:34am On Dec 12, 2016

I dnt understand, give the person space at thesame time communicate huh

Re: What To Do If Your Partner Is Avoiding You? by wheezie24(m): 11:20am On Dec 12, 2016

Jailerrr:
. Guy na you de find my trouble whr I hide am ooo,ummmm! ejim chukwu were yoo gi! forward match...

finding trouble is my hobby...

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