Dre19:
Hello nairalanders, i am in distress. I am clocking almost 35, i masturbate, still leave in my parents house and not married. The confusing thing is that i have a job thats pays me a 100k per month and i end up not knowing what i do with the funds. I spend on irrelevant things, at the end i become indebted to people.
All my friends are married with children or about marrying.
I have worked for this particular company for five to six years now and still, i have nothing to show for it. Am confused if i have offended anybody. I use this medium to ask for forgiveness for wrong doing against friends, love ones.
Please fellow nairalanders sincerely advice me on what to do next. ( SERIOUS CONTRIBUTIONS PLEASE)

The first step is to move out of your parent's house and you need to start saving. Try to be frugal in ur dealings. I'm amazed ur parents are not pushing u towards the right direction

Joavid:
No one needs to pet you. you need tough love and it's your parents fault, and psychologically, you're still a teenager - that's why you spend on irrelevant things that you can't account for, you have no savings, you still live with your parents, you still masturbate, you don't even pay any bills.

You stopped growing when you were 18.

Your parents need to kick you out of the house because yes, they have failed ( like seriously, are they not ashmed to have a 35 year old son still living with them) and you on the other hand refused to train yourself.


silly boy!

please, forget marriage for now, there is nothing you can offer a woman on the guise of a marriage, you'll only turn her to your maid.

Chaiii...you are really harsh oh ! If na me dem tell this kain thing, i go cry no be small.

uboma:




Prayer alone won't take you anywhere.
start saving up for a decent accommodation.
You will stop being wasteful if you start paying your own bills and stop relying on your parents.
As per settling down, don't rush into it.
When you have gained control of your finances, your mind will naturally focus on seeking out your missingrib.

Well said dude...well said.

Joavid:
No one needs to pet you. you need tough love and it's your parents fault. Psychologically, you're still a teenager - that's why you spend on irrelevant things you can't account for, you have no savings, you still live with your parents, you still masturbate, you don't even pay any bills.

You stopped growing when you were 18.

Your parents need to kick you out of the house because yes, they have failed ( like seriously, are they not ashamed to have a 35 year old son living with them) and you on the other hand refused to train yourself.


silly boy!

please, forget marriage for now, there is nothing you can offer a woman on the guise of marriage, you'll only turn her to your maid.

This guy go strict oooo...


Chaii...

The truth is really bitter.