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Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by gtrust: 1:44pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Don't mind them. When hunger fire their intestines, nobody go tell them to do the needful obataokenwa: |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by obataokenwa(m): 1:47pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
ireneony:Money is not all that matters in life. read Ecclesiastic 5:12-20, 6:1-3 1 Like |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by Tushborn: 1:48pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
ireneony:hmm this ur advice e get as e be oo |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by handsomePussy: 1:50pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Thank you everyone please keep giving us your advises. I am reading them with my wife and its helping our decision making. God bless everyone |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
ireneony:Ma'am.......are you discussing the same topic as the op Everyone is crying about joblessness that accelerates hardship, breaking families whilst at it and you are saying she must postpone everything. Whilst money is not everything, how did you get to the conclusion that her earnings will be peanuts? 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by Idrismusty97(m): 1:53pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
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Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by ireneony(f): 1:56pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
obataokenwa:so you see as someone that read bible |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by obataokenwa(m): 1:59pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
ireneony:You're finished then. No wonder my people say u know the wisdom of a child when he talks. |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 2:06pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
ireneony: This is disgusting. OP pls don't adopt this archaic mentality ooooo & pls don't relocate to Ur state of origin. its an exceedingly bad idea for the family as a whole. |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by princejones(m): 2:30pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Relocating your family to your home state is not a bad idea as long as your extended family member knows the boundaries, beside l relocating to my home state for the past 10 yrs but in another local government as hardly do l see my family members as none is living in the said LGA and am loving it,please do the needfull as you will not regret 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by DemonMonkey7(m): 2:54pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
[i][/i]you can't eat your cake n have it.. |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by nasiodamus(m): 3:09pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
I can't think of any state in Nigeria in which its capital city isn't okey,since she got a job in the state house then u can locate them in the capital,they will definitely be very secure estates there.just make sure dey are settled in before leaving..you will end up saving more if she is earning and also not staying in Lagos provides less expenses. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by aameyah(f): 4:33pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
If you really want her to take the job, and if she also loves and wants the job but her apprehension comes from her fear of interference, then it is a simple matter. It is YOUR prerogative to ensure she doesn't become meat in the mouth of your people; to be chewed, swallowed or spat out as the case may be. There should be nothing like village people carrying their burden to "our brother's house" or going to spy how big she's cutting meat for her soup. Or packing "our brother's rice" from the store. If there is a clear cut divide, she will enjoy the place more than she does Lagos which is crazy and fast-paced. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
You are based in Lagos yet you are not spending much time in Nigeria. If the amount of time you are away, will remain the same, then let your wife relocate to your home state. The issue is temptation. If there is too much time apart, impure thoughts will creep into both of your minds. Be careful. |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by raumdeuter: 4:53pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Is your entire homestate just a street? Assuming you are from Benue, Lets even assuming all your extended family lie in Makurdi, you can settle your wife in Gboko If youre from Nasarawa your family lives in Keffi you can settle your wife in Lafia or Akwanga EVen if its in the same city you can live so far away from them in the same city that the distace will discourage any unncesary interference 1 Like |
Re: Can I Relocate My Family To My Village Because Of My Wife's Job? by Eddodoh(m): 6:24pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
handsomePussy:I am sure it's Benue or Kogi State |
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