You should be happy to bring in a new and more beautiful woman. Congrats.

Culdnt get to the end of ur story, 'cos im allergic to grammatical blunders.
I'm not saying im perfect, but ur own too much abeg.
Pidgin is allowed on this site bros
u wan kill person?

i just want u to take Heart,i just want u to keep on praying so that God would send your OWN GOD SENT WIFE to you,i've so much believe that God would send her to you if you have Faith in God,it seem that Lady isn't your Wife to be that was the reason why she did what she has to do,i'll want u to keep on praying Bros Wale.God would Answer our Prayer.

So much drama.
More to it than meets the eye,what can i say but wish you all the best as you try to make sense of things.
You alone knows what's going on.

Congrats brother, you are fortunate to have a woman that don't pretend to be submissive and love you If you want to live long I will advice you to let go. The fact that her mother is in support of her action complicate issues.

oliidell:

Culdnt get to the end of your story, 'cos im allergic to grammatical blunders.
I'm not saying im perfect, but your own too much abeg.
Pidgin is allowed on this site bros
u wan kill person?

Somebody says his wife moved out of his house you are talking about grammatical blunders isn't that childish? Probably you don't have reasonable comment on this post.

Pathetic if it not a make-believe story.

Thanks u all, for the responses.
   
    Have crossed my heart, what left now is divorce.

 Infact i,m still saying it, that my wife doesn,t value what she had.  we're still trusting God for the fruit of the womb. At her mid-30,she still behave like somebody that is not mature.

  The truth of the matter is this,
     for quite 4mths now, have been facing some challenges in my place of work.
    Which lead to reduction of our expense. I want to ask a question, Did she forget that MARRIAGE is for BEtter  for worSE.
    Or does she think, things will never comeback to normal. There is adage that said " NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT.

wonders shall never end . Who gives a shyte if she moves in with a rwandan man, when will people stop startin crazy threads on this forum. na me say make u no Bleep am well !!!!

oh i c. she left cos u r struggling performing your duties as a husband?
still count ur lucky stars bro.

Wale, put on your best charm, reach out and re-woo her again, she will come back. You can do it guy, remember you have done it before.  
I hope the Bachelors are reading and learning sha, never ignore any unsavoury traits like non-submission or lack of respect in your fiancee thinking she will change in marriage, it can be a time bomb o!  

what did u do to her,afterall she is not mad check urself

@poster,
its unfortunate dat this has happend. Its either her love for u has failed or someone e.g elder sisters is influencing her wrongly which one day she will definitely come to her right sense and will want to return and beg.
And dont worry she wont find it easy staying there in her fathers' house , by the time she and her siblings start struggling over some house stuffs dat same elder sister of hers will make life uncomfortable for her to want to return to u,. however just be a man and remember she left by herself, u ddnt ask her to leave.
Stay good bro.

I gain nothing by making up the story.

Am only trying to ease my mind of d big burden caused by her disappearance.

It is simply d truth believe it or not.

Dear readers, pray such will never happen 2 u.


Anyway,thanks 4 d comments so far.

@ poster
     its like u have made marital blunder big time! well all i can say is can we pick a date together here  for prayer and faster( maybe 3 days )  so that God will restore peace to ur home again, honestly i feel for u, my guy!

its obvious that she doesn't love you anymore, don't call her again, if she doesn't come back after some time, forget about her, remember, PRAYER CHANGES THINGS, PRAY FOR GOD'S INTERVENTION

ALL THE BEST,

I seriously felt so bad about your situation but brother just look unto the almighty God and the best shall come your way dont be trouble I know it is hard to absorb but as the mum and her sister are backing her she will surely one good day realise what she has done to her to herself but I pray not too late for her then. God Bless.

Haba. I have read this posts and cannot but laugh!

In the first place, how did you get to know her and how did you conclude on marrying her?
I refuse to mrary a lady I loved so much because she is attache to her Mum's apron. Definitely, you lack a discerning spirit.

But all hope is not lost, if you will stop being a boy but a man.

I am about telling you some things that works for me in my marriage.
There should be an agreement between you and yr wife, that whatever happens no third party will settle anything for you.

I need to ask, is she not preg yet? Are you not just giving us yr version you want us to know. We also need to hear from her and use our Church mind to settle the matter.

But be4 i rescind my comment. Seek God's face on this, because most breakup nowadays are not just ordinary but spiritual, maybe as others have said, u may not be compatible.

God will help you resolve yr issues.

@wale_ade
think b4 u take any decision,am in a worst situation than u and all am doing is thinking and praying, ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR GOOD FOR THOSE WHO LOVE GOD,

Deciding on a divorce now may be too hasty. You should still give time. She may soon realise her mistakes and come back begging except you really do not love her or can not love her again.

i was tinkin of getting married early, but stuffs like ds just make me tink 2ce.

Whats all these god stuff? I suppose they probably were married in Church and said their vows; so God knows the situation already.

Your wife will not likely change if your story is to be believed. Divorce her straightaway as you appear not to have kids. An external intervention in a marriage is an extreme solution, and you have done so without success. Why beg her to come back - what for? She is probably hot-headed or easily influenced and how many adults actually change their ways without experiencing some calamity.

If you have been a naughty boy, then face up to your bad ways and make amends; if possible. Otherwise, stay single!

what were u thinking? how did u pick that one for a wife.hey! drop this marriage now or face dejection in the near future,your wife cannot be against you at least not in a revolutionary manner.

Wetin she park in front of your house?

^^Hey, Michelin I'm back.

I can see you have been given your username.

^^What do you mean?

I never liked that muffin, so I pleaded Muki to give you back your old ID.

^^Really, did you make her release me?

I don't know if she accepted my pleadings because I was absent for 9 days from the cyber world. But I am glad you have your username back.

Some names are a trademark.

^^Thanks.

this is what happens when you rush in to marraige w/out seeking the face of God.


I will say maybe she married you out of pity or maybe you lured her in to marrying you when she did not want to get married to you, there was nofin like loff in the first place. you should be happy she left this early, na only God no wetin for happen