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Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by cilifa: 8:27pm On Jan 07, 2017
This is not the issue of two women marrying same man.

Am talking of grown up friends, wife and mother in-law, female co-tenant, room mates etc...

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by megareal: 8:45pm On Jan 07, 2017
I'm a woman, but I know our wahala too much, reason I don't have female friends

The reasons vary, from jealousy to suspicion to competition. It's an unending list.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by pocohantas(f): 8:52pm On Jan 07, 2017
megareal:
I'm a woman, but I know our wahala too much, reason I don't have female friends

The reasons vary, from jealousy to suspicion to competition. It's an unending list.

Upon enquiry, I am sure you would say you are not one of the women with plenty wahala.
Who are these jealous and suspicious women with plenty wahala? smiley

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by MurderX: 8:56pm On Jan 07, 2017
Now this is is irritating, OP I dont know your level of education but you should know the difference between "leave" and "live". This grammatical error is getting too frequent on NL.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by DozieInc(m): 9:02pm On Jan 07, 2017
Here they go again, OP your thesis has been confirmed
pocohantas:

Upon enquiry, I am sure you would say you are not one of the women with plenty wahala.
Who are these jealous and suspicious women with plenty wahala? smiley
megareal:
I'm a woman, but I know our wahala too much, reason I don't have female friends

The reasons vary, from jealousy to suspicion to competition. It's an unending list.


Women understand their nature, same reason most snakes avoid each other.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by megareal: 9:04pm On Jan 07, 2017
pocohantas:

Upon enquiry, I am sure you would say you are not one of the women with plenty wahala.
Who are these jealous and suspicious women with plenty wahala? smiley

I get wahala but its targeted at the men folk. But am never jealous. I'm always content. That's the first lesson I learned from my mum as a child. Satisfied?

Oya start asking yourself, Am I jealous or suspicious of another female?

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by megareal: 9:06pm On Jan 07, 2017
DozieInc:
Here they go again, OP your thesis has been confirmed


Women understand their nature, same reason most snakes avoid each other.

I understand our nature very well. But as is usual in all things, there are the good ones.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by pocohantas(f): 9:10pm On Jan 07, 2017
megareal:


I get wahala but its targeted at the men folk. But am never jealous. I'm always content. That's the first lesson I learned from my mum as a child. Satisfied?

Oya start asking yourself, Am I jealous or suspicious of another female?
Very much expected. I am sure other females will say same...I still want to know who the jealous troublesome ones are...maybe not from you,but from someone else.
Maybe this whole women hate themselves is all in their head. I've seen more male insulting females on NL, than female to female.

DozieInc:
Here they go again, OP your thesis has been confirmed
Women understand their nature, same reason most snakes avoid each other.
And you that quoted us didn't confirm the thesis that men don't mind their business? This is 2017, grow sense. Don't stir trouble where there is none. smiley

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by DozieInc(m): 9:13pm On Jan 07, 2017
megareal:


I understand our nature very well. But as is usual in all things, there are the good ones.
True
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by megareal: 9:17pm On Jan 07, 2017
pocohantas:

Very much expected. I am sure other females will say same...I still want to know who the jealous troublesome ones are...maybe not from, from someone else.
Maybe this whole women hate themselves is all in their head. I've seen more male insulting females on NL, than female to female.

My dear, I'm typing from experience. I've lived in the hostel all through my school years and I can say some stuff are best left in horror stories.

You that is harping on this matter may well be one of them. grin

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by DozieInc(m): 9:25pm On Jan 07, 2017
pocohantas:

Very much expected. I am sure other females will say same...I still want to know who the jealous troublesome ones are...maybe not from, from someone else.
Maybe this whole women hate themselves is all in their head. I've seen more male insulting females on NL, than female to female.


And you that quoted us didn't confirm the thesis that men don't mind their business? This is 2017, grow sense. Don't stir trouble where there is none. smiley
It is easier for two or more men to live together, maybe due to woman nature.
Male/female dissing is just a case of repping your gender, they are mostly light hearted at least for me.
Must you insult? ?

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Clobis(m): 9:26pm On Jan 07, 2017
Its easier for a man and woman to live in the same house than for two women, they can do with occasional visits and gossips but to live together and do that gossiping will breed suspicion and hatred plus an unforgiving heart
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by CoolFreeday(m): 9:30pm On Jan 07, 2017
megareal:
I'm a woman, but I know our wahala too much, reason I don't have female friends

The reasons vary, from jealousy to suspicion to competition. It's an unending list.


Nicely said. Aside these, I think the point that women don't like their right being tampered with is another. They're more vocal and that itself could bring up issues.

#Remembered when my cousin sis told me she can't live with her best friend even for two weeks in order to avoid issues.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by pocohantas(f): 9:39pm On Jan 07, 2017
DozieInc:

It is easier for two or more men to live together, maybe due to woman nature.
Male/female dissing is just a case of repping your gender, they are mostly light hearted at least for me.
Must you insult? ?
It's an advice...grow some sense. smiley
Too late to play nice.

megareal:


My dear, I'm typing from experience. I've lived in the hostel all through my school years and I can say some stuff are best left in horror stories.

You that is harping on this matter may well be one of them. grin
Even men have issues with their fellow men in hostels. There was a thread on bad room-mate experiences long time ago...every gender was represented.

Men are also jealous of their fellow men, don't you see them on NL asking where E-money got his money? grin
The only difference is, women are more vocal. That's why a husband would be considered nice, while the wife would be called the evil one, because she speaks out...not knowing it's her husband's mind she is speaking.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by cococandy(f): 9:42pm On Jan 07, 2017
They have started again.

Women hate each other.

One woman should come here and tell me boldly that she hates her fellow women and we will have something to talk about.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by DozieInc(m): 9:52pm On Jan 07, 2017
pocohantas:

It's an advice...grow some sense. smiley
Too late to play nice.


Even men have issues with their fellow men in hostels. There was a thread on bad room-mate experiences long time ago...every gender was represented.

Men are also jealous of their fellow men, don't you see them on NL asking where E-money got his money? grin
The only difference is, women are more vocal. That's why a husband would be considered nice, while the wife would be called the evil one, because she speaks out...not knowing it's her husband's mind she is speaking.
Thanks for the advice, it is easier to advice than to be adviced.
Yes, women are more vocal and also more in competition and intolerant of each other.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jan 07, 2017
Like poles repel cheesy.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by megareal: 10:39pm On Jan 07, 2017
pocohantas:

It's an advice...grow some sense. smiley
Too late to play nice.


Even men have issues with their fellow men in hostels. There was a thread on bad room-mate experiences long time ago...every gender was represented.

Men are also jealous of their fellow men, don't you see them on NL asking where E-money got his money? grin
The only difference is, women are more vocal. That's why a husband would be considered nice, while the wife would be called the evil one, because she speaks out...not knowing it's her husband's mind she is speaking.

Agreed, jealousy cuts across all genders. But it isnt about jealousy alone. A host of other factors are there. Unnecessary suspicion, revenge on petty reasons, backstabbing, competition etc. Suffice it to say, we are our worst enemy.

Btw, I still maintain , we have the good ones.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jan 07, 2017
We women hold grudges and keep malice too much. Most men can easily forgive and move on. Not all o. But half of women folk will carry that grudge to the grave. God help us o.
Recently, I have been conditioning my mind and heart to be like that of a man. Simple and easy going. And easily letting go of hurts. I have started advising my female friends to follow suit. Its healthy.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Nobody: 12:25am On Jan 08, 2017
cilifa:
This is not the issue of two women marrying same man.

Am talking of grown up friends, wife and mother in-law, female co-tenant, room mates etc...
Even Satan no get answer to this question weh you ask so. Na only God know why he create dem so. Their heart wide for Satan to use thru d most little things.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by lovelygurl(f): 8:20am On Jan 08, 2017
Uhn


It depends if you like the person. Do you want to tell me best friends argue and fight to?

Besides if a woman is also living with a man she does not like then of course there will be fights

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by sisisioge: 8:30am On Jan 08, 2017
True but not in all cases. It is highly dependent on the people involved. My flattie is from another tribe, the popular cone heads grin but she's like my sister from another mother. We were always good together. No silly fights! Why would we nau?

So long as females aren't sharing males in whatever capacity... We're cool. Na the men dey always cause troubles grin grin grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by lilmax(m): 10:56am On Jan 08, 2017
megareal:


My dear, I'm typing from experience. I've lived in the hostel all through my school years and I can say some stuff are best left in horror stories.

You that is harping on this matter may well be one of them. grin
grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by lilmax(m): 11:00am On Jan 08, 2017
most are just like that, now this is how it works

men and women are not equal.... so women look for who they can be equal to grin

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by pocohantas(f): 12:00pm On Jan 08, 2017
cococandy:
They have started again.

Women hate each other.

One woman should come here and tell me boldly that she hates her fellow women and we will have something to talk about.
No one is part of the evil women o, it's their friends and room-mates. They say 'We Women', then exclude themselves grin.

I quoted a lady, one non-troublesome man quoted me to stir trouble. It's okay for him a man to quote me without it meaning men hate women, but I can't do same grin.

All these husband and wives fighting till one party is brutally injured, I guess the man is a transgender.
Confused fellows.

We are still waiting for that one woman that will agree to this.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by cococandy(f): 3:56pm On Jan 08, 2017
Lol. Exactly
pocohantas:

No one is part of the evil women o, it's their friends and room-mates. They say 'We Women', then exclude themselves grin.

I quoted a lady, one non-troublesome man quoted me to stir trouble. It's okay for him a man to quote me without it meaning men hate women, but I can't do same grin.

All these husband and wives fighting till one party is brutally injured, I guess the man is a transgender.
Confused fellows.

We are still waiting for that one woman that will agree to this.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Rapmaestro(m): 4:00pm On Jan 08, 2017
pocohantas:




And you that quoted us didn't confirm the thesis that men don't mind their business? This is 2017, grow sense. Don't stir trouble where there is none. smiley
K. O

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Ngokafor(f): 6:49pm On Jan 08, 2017
pocohantas:

No one is part of the evil women o, it's their friends and room-mates. They say 'We Women', then exclude themselves grin.

I quoted a lady, one non-troublesome man quoted me to stir trouble. It's okay for him a man to quote me without it meaning men hate women, but I can't do same grin.

All these husband and wives fighting till one party is brutally injured, I guess the man is a transgender.
Confused fellows.

We are still waiting for that one woman that will agree to this.




....You got that right cheesy..i understand if men are under the illusion that women 'hate' one another while they(men) 'love one another very much undecided..but for the ladies to agree with them is funny.....so which woman con dey do the hatred na? sad

...I have noticed over the years(from my experiences in school,while serving e.t.c)...that women who complain about other women the most and how they 'prefer men' are usually the problem.

..They are the ones who do all the gossiping,bi**hing,very difficult to get along with,slandering and what have you,when they are dealt with for their bad behaviour,they will cry out that 'women are their worst enemy'..

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Alexa222: 7:54pm On Jan 08, 2017
Hi, from my own experience between my mother in law and me it's mainly jealoucy and then competition. These are natural instincts for women to survive and to raise up kids.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by crackhaus: 4:40pm On Jan 13, 2017
megareal:


My dear, I'm typing from experience. I've lived in the hostel all through my school years and I can say some stuff are best left in horror stories.

You that is harping on this matter may well be one of them. grin
I applaud your honesty, the pretenders know you're keeping it 100 despite... grin grin

It's no news that a lot of women are intolerant of other women whom they consider COMPETITION...the next valid question then is, what are those things that qualify other women as competition?
I can list as much as 20, but I'm not going to because even the pretenders here can list 40 on their lonesome. cheesy

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Acidosis(m): 5:03pm On Jan 13, 2017
Some Nairalanders can pretend for Africa grin grin

Why would anyone deny this obvious fact? Ah, nawao


One said "women don't hate each other, but they are more vocal." grin grin Isn't that enough reason?

Real men (friends) don't exchange serious words...we let go easily knowing that poo happens. Some days we win, other days, we lose.

The inability of women to easily let go, forgive and forget is an apparent trend. Vocal or not, you folks must learn to always state the FACT.

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