Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 2,744,928 members, 6,512,484 topics. Date: Tuesday, 28 September 2021 at 11:26 PM

Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? - Family (2) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? (3293 Views)

Dare Not Trust A Woman You Live Together With / The Most Difficult Age For Any Man / She Stayed With Her Husband Through Difficult Times,Now This Has Happened To Her (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by crackhaus: 5:08pm On Jan 13, 2017
Alexa222:
Hi, from my own experience between my mother in law and me it's mainly jealoucy and then competition. These are natural instincts for women to survive and to raise up kids.
Hmmmm
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by cococandy(f): 6:57pm On Jan 13, 2017
Yet you're the ones stoning and burning each other to death on the streets for mere stealing.
If women did that to each the world would be agog with news of how women hate each other.

Funny how men can disagree and it normal but women can't disagree without it being a function of our gender.

Acidosis:
Some Nairalanders can pretend for Africa grin grin

Why would anyone deny this obvious fact? Ah, nawao


One said "women don't hate each other, but they are more vocal." grin grin Isn't that enough reason?

Real men (friends) don't exchange serious words...we let go easily knowing that poo happens. Some days we win, other days, we lose.

The inability of women to easily let go, forgive and forget is an apparent trend. Vocal or not, you folks must learn to always state the FACT.

5 Likes

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by KevinDein: 7:35pm On Jan 13, 2017
cococandy:
Yet you're the ones stoning and burning each other to death on the streets for mere stealing.
If women did that to each the world would be agog with news of how women hate each other.

Funny how men can disagree and it normal but women can't disagree without it being a function of our gender.

we are talking about two acquainted females, say room mates, finding it difficult to get along and you are citing a male thief and a male stranger as a similarity. Not in any way similar analogies. grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Acidosis(m): 8:10pm On Jan 13, 2017
cococandy:
Yet you're the ones stoning and burning each other to death on the streets for mere stealing.
If women did that to each the world would be agog with news of how women hate each other.

Funny how men can disagree and it normal but women can't disagree without it being a function of our gender.


Coco my crush, cheesy we are not talking about robbers okay?
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by bukatyne(f): 8:50pm On Jan 13, 2017
megareal:
I'm a woman, but I know our wahala too much, reason I don't have female friends

The reasons vary, from jealousy to suspicion to competition. It's an unending list.


Let's agree with you that women are their worst enemies, can you give me examples of ladies/women you have had encounter with?
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by cococandy(f): 9:12pm On Jan 13, 2017
KevinDein:
we are talking about two acquainted females, say room mates, finding it difficult to get along and you are citing a male thief and a male stranger as a similarity. Not in any way similar analogies. grin
Acidosis:


Coco my crush, cheesy we are not talking about robbers okay?

So say a group of ONLY FEMALE traders happen to stumble upon a female thief, strip her nayked, beat and injure her (god forbid they kill her), you're telling me no one will say anything about the fact that women did that to their fellow woman? Y'all are delusional

4 Likes

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by cococandy(f): 9:26pm On Jan 13, 2017
Front page news.
Man beats a 12 year old boy to death.

Reaction: what a wicked world. End times. Poor boy....the list goes on.

Front page news.
Woman burns 13year old house help with iron

Reaction: women are evil. After devil fear women. The heart of women is wicked. The list goes on.

I don't take seriously anybody who claims not to see the sexism. You're either at best clueless/obtuse or more likely a malicious misogynist.

The women who buy into and support common anti-female theories (like the one in the topic) you have no one but yourselves to blame when your daughters grow up having to endure the disadvantages that come with them. It's your fault.

The underlying goal is to make women more uncomfortable around each other by preaching such lies as truth. The result is that you want to defer to a man and compete with your fellow women to gain their approval. Thereby delaying the progress of women's autonomy.

How else would it make sense for anyone to assume that women she's never met will automatically hate her if the goal is not to put barriers and instant prejudice between women against each other?

It is clever and it is working because now some ladies believe their fellow women are out to pull them down which puts them on the defensive and in turn they exhibit such behaviors to other women because of their own internalized beliefs.

It's clear to me. I hope that with time the rest of you will learn.

If a person hasn't wronged you, don't assume they will because you've been socialized to believe that.

7 Likes 3 Shares

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Acidosis(m): 10:21pm On Jan 13, 2017
cococandy:
Front page news.
Man beats a 12 year old boy to death.

Reaction: what a wicked world. End times. Poor boy....the list goes on.

Front page news.
Woman burns 13year old house help with iron

Reaction: women are evil. After devil fear women. The heart of women is wicked. The list goes on.

I don't take seriously anybody who claims not to see the sexism. You're either at best clueless/obtuse or more likely a malicious misogynist.

The women who buy into and support common anti-female theories (like the one in the topic) you have no one but yourselves to blame when your daughters grow up having to endure the disadvantages that come with them. It's your fault.

The underlying goal is to make women more uncomfortable around each other by preaching such lies as truth. The result is that you want to defer to a man and compete with your fellow women to gain their approval. Thereby delaying the progress of women's autonomy.

How else would it make sense for anyone to assume that women she's never met will automatically hate her if the goal is not to put barriers and instant prejudice between women against each other?

It is clever and it is working because now some ladies believe their fellow women are out to pull them down which puts them on the defensive and in turn they exhibit such behaviors to other women because of their own internalized beliefs.

It's clear to me. I hope that with time the rest of you will learn.

If a person hasn't wronged you, don't assume they will because you've been socialized to believe that.

There are exemptions. No one ever said men don't fight fellow men.

You can pick an event where a dog eats a man and conclude that dogs don't like men. It doesn't change the fact that a dog is man's best friend.

Quit this mentality, and the ill belief that whatever affects a woman most definitely will apply to a man. I bet, you will some day prove to us that men, like women, ovulate.

Can you compare statistically the rate at which men beat their gate men with the rate at which women maltreat their maids? Keep living in denial... with few random examples, anything can be proven.

How many times have you seen men fight over a rich lady on Instagram? Can you compare that with the rate at which women fight themselves because of a billionaire's wealth?

1 Like

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by freecocoa(f): 10:38pm On Jan 13, 2017
I'm a woman and I've been living with my sisters happily, at school, my roomie and I were inseparable, so I don't know what you are talkin 'bout. undecided

6 Likes

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by bukatyne(f): 12:11am On Jan 14, 2017
freecocoa:
I'm a woman and I've been living with my sisters happily, at school, my roomie and I were inseparable, so I don't know what you are talkin 'bout. undecided

Like you, I have never had any lady 'hate' me because of my gender nor do I hate any lady just because...

6 Likes

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Ngokafor(f): 8:30am On Jan 14, 2017
Acidosis:
Some Nairalanders can pretend for Africa grin grin

Why would anyone deny this obvious fact? Ah, nawao


One said "women don't hate each other, but they are more vocal." grin grin Isn't that enough reason?

Real men (friends) don't exchange serious words...we let go easily knowing that poo happens. Some days we win, other days, we lose.

The inability of women to easily let go, forgive and forget is an apparent trend. Vocal or not, you folks must learn to always state the FACT.




....Stop deceiving yourselves abeg you..You do not love eachother more than women,and thats a fact..The reverse is the case sef in my opinion.
..On this forum alone,you fight and curse each other out over tribal and political differences every time,in some cases going as far as threatening to kill or miam each-other off-line!!...for absolutely nothing else but difference in opinion...smh!..you lots are only united when it comes to denigrating women lipsrsealed...aside that its battle all the way.

....On a personal level,get a group of male friends together....throw Power,Money and a beautiful lady in their midst and watch the so-called 'brotherhood love' go south before one can say 'jack' undecided..I could go on and on..

...I am a Women and i am proud to say that a number of good ladies/women have helped me in the past in various ways with no strings attached..so this 'women are their worst enemy theory is absolutely nonsense to me and some well-meaning ladies.Why its a problem for some of you here is what i dont understand.

...Instead of this 'womena are their worst enemy' nonsense,it should be 'badly-behaved individuals(male or female)are a woman's worst enemy. smiley

3 Likes

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Acidosis(m): 8:44am On Jan 14, 2017
Ngokafor:





....Stop deceiving yourselves abeg you..You do not love eachother more than women,and thats a fact..The reverse is the case sef in my opinion.
..On this forum alone,you fight and curse each other out over tribal and political differences every time,in some cases going as far as threatening to kill or miam each-other off-line!!...for absolutely nothing else but difference in opinion...smh!..you lots are only united when it comes to denigrating women lipsrsealed...aside that its battle all the way.

....On a personal level,get a group of male friends together....throw Power,Money and a beautiful lady in their midst and watch the so-called 'brotherhood love' go south before one can say 'jack' undecided..I could go on and on..

...I am a Women and i am proud to say that a number of good ladies/women have helped me in the past in various ways with no strings attached..so this 'women are their worst enemy theory is absolutely nonsense to me and some well-meaning ladies.Why its a problem for some of you here is what i dont understand.

...Instead of this 'womena are their worst enemy' nonsense,it should be 'badly-behaved individuals(male or female)are a woman's worst enemy. smiley

I bet you know more than Forbes


http://www.forbes.com/sites/worldviews/2012/04/30/why-women-are-the-worst-kind-of-bullies/#c8ded2747f41

dailymail

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2018776/Why-female-boss-womans-worst-nightmare.html

and others;

http://www.workplacebullying.org/wow-bullying/
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by jashar(f): 9:24am On Jan 14, 2017
ayam a female. I have stayed and can stay with anyone peacefully. I have many wonderful female friends that can attest to such.

Life is simple abeg.....

2 Likes

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Ngokafor(f): 9:44am On Jan 14, 2017
Acidosis:


I bet you know more than Forbes


http://www.forbes.com/sites/worldviews/2012/04/30/why-women-are-the-worst-kind-of-bullies/#c8ded2747f41

dailymail

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2018776/Why-female-boss-womans-worst-nightmare.html

and others;

http://www.workplacebullying.org/wow-bullying/




...So you want to tell me that those examples you gave do not happen amongst men as well??..that some male bosses do not give their male sub-ordinates hard times??...that there are no schemes and evil plots by some males to take over positions held by their fellow men??..even going as far as murdering their supeiors or colleagues to take over or retain a post by hook or crook??

..Mr man i laugh cheesy...I am talking about real life Nigerian scenario,you are talking Forbes..Come to Ph and ask around about what happens in Oil companies and Oil Serviving firms among male colleagus,Superior and Sub-ordinate alike..The level of evil plots,schemes,with a number of them going diabolical will shock you..keep quoting Forbes,Daily Mirror,Daily Mail,ÇNN,BBC,e.t..c..na you sabi.

...Anyway if it makes you feel real good,then fine men love one another soooo much and can never hurt each other..mbanu!!...*laughs in spiritual powers*

3 Likes

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Acidosis(m): 10:03am On Jan 14, 2017
Ngokafor:





...So you want to tell me that those examples you gave do not happen amongst men as well??..that some male bosses do not give their male sub-ordinates hard times??...that there are no schemes and evil plots by some males to take over positions held by their fellow men??..even going as far as murdering their supeiors or colleagues to take over or retain a post by hook or crook??

..Mr man i laugh cheesy...I am talking about real life Nigerian scenario,you are talking Forbes..Come to Ph and ask around about what happens in Oil companies and Oil Serviving firms among male colleagus,Superior and Sub-ordinate alike..The level of evil plots,schemes,with a number of them going diabolical will shock you..keep quoting Forbes,Daily Mirror,Daily Mail,ÇNN,BBC,e.t..c..na you sabi.

...Anyway if it makes you feel real good,then fine men love one another soooo much and can never hurt each other..mbanu!!...*laughs in spiritual powers*

Even with evidences from ladies on this thread, you still won't agree with my viewpoint, so enjoy your day.

Meanwhile, when next you hear a lady saying words like: "women too get wahala, I prefer male friends", endeavour to correct them. Also, ensure you open more threads on how father in laws treat their son in law.

grin

1 Like

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by jeff1607(m): 10:26am On Jan 14, 2017
In that same room you see visible boundary and plenty of personal stuff, ladies don't share only a few
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by crackhaus: 7:40am On Jan 15, 2017
Acidosis:


Even with evidences from ladies on this thread, you still won't agree with my viewpoint, so enjoy your day.

Meanwhile, when next you hear a lady saying words like: "women too get wahala, I prefer male friends", endeavour to correct them. Also, ensure you open more threads on how father in laws treat their son in law.

grin
cheesy cheesy

1 Like

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by EfemenaXY: 8:06am On Jan 15, 2017
cilifa:
This is not the issue of two women marrying same man.

Am talking of grown up friends, wife and mother in-law, female co-tenant, room mates etc...

This is such a myopic view.

Do yourself a favour and change the sort of people you roll with.

3 Likes

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by obiaguna(m): 11:54pm On Jan 15, 2017
Lol we know damn well what the OP is talking about but female empowerment and feminism yeah?
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by lastmessenger: 9:06pm On Jan 16, 2017
I told my girl to get a room mate so that she csn share the cost of her accomondation with another and she totally disagreed with me saying she does not have the heart bear problems that will come up later.
I tried all i could to persuade her but she insisted and then i decided to let her be waiting the she will tell me she wants to pay house rent. By then is either she get a roomie or go get the money herself.
Nonsense
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jan 16, 2017
In my opinion the ladies that hate other ladies are those that hate themselves too.

1 Like

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Two Females To Live Together Peacefully? by ScarletOverkill(f): 6:54pm On Jan 17, 2017
Flowerlady01:
We women hold grudges and keep malice too much. Most men can easily forgive and move on. Not all o. But half of women folk will carry that grudge to the grave. God help us o.
Recently, I have been conditioning my mind and heart to be like that of a man. Simple and easy going. And easily letting go of hurts. I have started advising my female friends to follow suit. Its healthy.

Kindly speak for yourself and your friends alone. Thank you.
If you're prone to holding grudges, that's between you, yourself, and your nature. I'm a woman. I don't hold grudges. I don't have time to keep malice with anybody. High blood pressure is real, nne. Life is too sweet for all that shite. Just ignore them dey go.

I know men and women alike who hold grudges. I know men and women alike who don't. But of course, when a man acts petty: Ahh some people are just like that. No mind am. When it's a woman: Ahh women ehn. Fear them o. They can kill o. They can do and undo.

When a male boss/office superior is rude and abrasive: oh he's just a no-nonsense person na. When a female boss/office superior is rude and abrasive: Ahh na so women bosses dey be. Women are horrible o!

And other women will carry these stuuuupid stereotypes and convince themselves that other women hate them because na dem be Queen of Sheba. Inspiring jealousy from every quarter because na only them waka come.

Pidgin2:
In my opinion the ladies that hate other ladies are those that hate themselves too.

True. They're usually the ones doing all the hating: themselves, other women, etc. Hateful idïots always think everyone is as hateful and insecure as they are. Projecting their chronic hate everywhere.

jeff1607:
In that same room you see visible boundary and plenty of personal stuff, ladies don't share only a few

Lol you go fear na. E remain for me and my friends to share panties. Na only hateful biatches all of una dey jam. Ride on o. The Lord is your strength, wenne.

And for those ones wey talk say their own na to dey complain upandan about women, kindly pack yourself to a country where gay marriage is legal and marry one man abeg, since men are so perfect as opposed to these horrible creatures called women. Na beg I dey beg una. Make man pikin rest. Shior.

Women this, women that, yet na still una go enter room dey beg just to lick pünani like say na river of life dey flow from there. grin grin cheesy tongue

Make una go nyash down.

4 Likes

(1) (2) (Reply)

Help Please Is This An Hiv Infection?? Symptoms Inside / Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant / Should I Tell My Mum The Truth Or Not ?

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2021 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 198
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.