Why does every woman wish for a husband?

mama-gee:

Why does every woman wish for a husband?

not every woman wishes for a husband---- only Nigerian women HUNT for a husband. Its cultural I think. Some women merely enjoy sex and don't want to be married.

well, it isnt cultural and it is not Nigerian thing at all. The only thing Nigerian in your post is thinking it is only Nigerian women that hunt for husbands.

Olanajim--- I would like to know your thoughts----

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-357020.0.html

^^^^^^ It beats me why Nigerians only think in the context of Nigeria. Go to Brazil you would know the meaning of hunting for husband. With soo many women and no one to marry them.

I see what you mean-- but i've never seen a Brazillian who has fasted 3,7, or 40 days with no food--- to get a husband.

^^^ despiration comes in many forms it depend on what is in vogue in your area. Is an American woman that could kill a man for infidelity not despirate to keep him?

Remii:

^^^ despiration comes in many forms it depend on what is in vogue in your area. Is an American woman that could kill a man for infidelity not despirate to keep him?

Thats a form of domestic violence-- and that is permeated by a stressor.

Cheating
Anger
Revenge
Public Humiliation

Has nothing to do with her desperation to keep him.

^^^ may be my example was not that spot on, lol, but there is desperation in all lands in different forms according to the area, even not complaning about partner's infidelity or allowing polygamy could be a sign of desperation. You would only know much about where you stay. Ghanians practically marry the husband and takes cares of him, culturally.

I see what you mean---- most people desire for a life partner and someone to share their life with. I guess I mostly know much about the Nigerian community.

true talk

At a point in every woman's life they want to settle down, have a home, a husband and children and I think men would want the same.

society and culture mandates it. even though, truly and deeply inside many womens heart, they wouldnt want to be get married but many havent got the option of saying no

coolier:

At a point in every woman's life they want to settle down, have a home, a husband and children and I think men would want the same.

true talk, though men tend to pose as superhuman, but when they are above 40 they desire more stability in living as such need companions and even become more religious, those who played about for too long may even have regrets, lol.

Chaircover your response Nice, really nice. Its a Bravo, I wonder if anybody else hears you which they should,

posakosa:

I see what you mean-- but i've never seen a Brazillian who has fasted 3,7, or 40 days with no food--- to get a husband.

Not all women long for a husband but most women long for a husband and most men long for a wife. Women long for a man because woman was made for man and not the other way around. It was not good for man to be alone, so God made man an helpmeet. Women long for husbands to be in God's order of things. By the way, I fasted 7 days when I wanted a hubby and I'm American. Many women the world over fast for the blessing.

Cos they want someone to control . . . .

hi,
every woman wish for a husband because, in the begining, God made them man and woman. and when the man found out that God has made for him a woman, he expressed a breath of relief and happiness. the sole essence of marriage is for companionship. anyother thing is a blessing.

it's me,
Hary.

Check Garden of Eden Story.

mama-gee:

Why does every woman wish for a husband?

the same reason(s) that makes u mama-gee to be married

chaircover:

Why Does Every Woman Wish For A Husband Partner to share ones life with?

The same reason why every man wishes for a wife Partner to share ones life with

This urge is in no way specific to Nigerians only.

hahahahahahaha.
A man or woman to share life with and yet the woman wanna turn around and control the life of the man and a man that of woman?
Is that sharing or killing the other person's pre-calculated life?
Chaircover, i no gree with you on this one oh

The question corrected:
Why does every woman wish for a good, caring husband?

^^^ Cos without a man, the woman is incomplete

I am laughing at Pasakosa's use of the word HUNT
What came to mind was a woman hiding in the bushes waiting for the perfect man and then shoots his leg and carries him home.

^^^^ now that is funny

Not every woman wish for a huband but every woman wish for a child

That is why some people can be very good friends for years and cannot make good couples together

Diff philosophy for diff pple

rubi:

Not every woman wish for a huband but every woman wish for a child

That is why some people can be very good friends for years and cannot make good couples together

Diff philosophy for diff pple

A woman that married cos she wanna have kids is a wicked woman, cos she will always make the child feel guilty when things are not going smooth with the marriage.

Outstrip:

I am laughing at Pasakosa's use of the word HUNT
What came to mind was a woman hiding in the bushes waiting for the perfect man and then shoots his leg and carries him home.

hehehe------- exactly what I meant

Fhemmmy:

A woman that married cos she wanna have kids is a wicked woman, cos she will always make the child feel guilty when things are not going smooth with the marriage.

I am not talking about married women with kids some ladies are comfortable being single mother instead of attaching themselves to a man. Not every woman have the tolerance to deal with the opposite sex under the same roof with a matured mind. You are just a small growing boy when you are matured we can talk about family issues. _{Limit your post in family section}