Sex is an important element in marriage and until there is sexual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually recognized. This shows how important sex is in marriage.


When you look at how aggressive men are towards sex you may think that what a man needs from a woman is sex. Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing above your body. But if he really intends to marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never what he needs from you - maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT SEX."

Many young girls think because they are sexually active and experience they will easily be married and have their husbands loving them. And when a man approaches for marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show the man is sex. Others also think once they are giving out their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which reason they will be chosen above all.

There is this young girl who is very beautiful and sexually active. Due to that she thought sex is all that matters to a man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally getting married. Her sexual dexterity could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination a very handsome good man married her. The wedding was grand and her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could stay.

The problem was simple. She thought sex was all that matters so she would never submit. But submission is what men need, not sex. It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his sex drive but a woman who will submit herself to him. Excuse my language, "every woman has vagina but not every woman has humility." So when you are a humble woman, you are an expensive jewelry. And a man of integrity will fear to lose you.

What does the Holy Bible say, "wife, submit to your husband." The reason is that a man's true love goes out only for a woman who is submissive. Your beauty cannot make another woman ugly but your humility can let him love you above all other women.

Sadly, many youngs ladies in our days call submission as "control." And you will hear them saying in tiny romantic voices, "As for me I don't want any man to control me oh." If you don't want to submit don't think of marriage because no man in his right sense will offer his love to a woman whose heart is higher than his height, no matter how short he may be.
When a woman bows her knee before a man, the man will automatically bow his heart before her love. And love her sincerely.

There are, of course, recalcitrant men who will not value women of humility but I tell you that every true man does not need sex, but submission. It is submission that truly makes you a romantic wife. So be the African queen you want to be but when it comes to dealing with your husband, play the role of a humble maid. Don't forget that it is the spirit of humility that has caused many maids to hijack their mistresses' husbands. Be your man's queen and be his maid also.

I wish you all the best as you submit in your relationship and marriage. May God bless you with good marriage, my dear sister.

Written by B.I.C. Abeiku Okai.

http://www.blackberrybabes.com/2016/01/what-husband-needs-from-wife-is-never.html

Notn more dope Dan a wife "having ur back"

op o

Just cos u working doesnt mean u a maid

Number one duty of a wife is love respect ur husband b submissive and take care of d home

Dats why i love an average house easier to clean nd all if d house done too big chai

i must confess u hit d nail on d head.
THIS IS EXACTLY BEEN BEAUTIFUL DOESNT GUARANTEE GOOD HUSBAND.

Girl's if you are not submissive start tutorial now that you are single so that God will help you develop into a humble human being

MOST OF DIS SO CALLED BIG GIRLS ARE SINGLE AND ITS JUST because OF ONLY ONE REASON WHICH IS PRIDE.

The WISEST BABE IN NIARALAND so far

But sometimes that thing is our number 1 food sha ooo

True talk

Yes oooo, wives and girlfriends,, submit to your husband


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Why do I feel like countering this thread and disagreeing with everything?

Oh.... I see it was written by a man. A woman should write her own version first

I concur.Submission, very important.

Too many women have been bogged down in unhealthy and dangerous relationships yet
answered with the simple concept of
“submission”

a woman who genuinely cares about her marriage,her family,her life,does not necessarily "submit" mindlessly to every decision her husband makes.
theres alws a time to speak up.
Its marriage,not bondage.

So on point... while others think is beauty

Ok

Some of you posters always come up with sh!+ thinking it's solution or reason for sh!+!

Hmmm, but what does a wife really need from her husband?

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we are in for a long argument

Interests me to know

Feminists won't like your choice of word "submit".

As a matter of fact, to feminists, the whole write up is nothing but bullz but OP, know that you've spoken well.

Hmmm

Well, that's true



Buh, men need sex too; plenty of it sef. In fact, one of d greatest needs of a man is sex(at least, most men). #beingreal

I think a nice BJ once in a while would cover many loopholes.









My opinion




Don't attack the messenger, attack the message.

Who said so Food and emotional support are paramount

sickstars:
op o

Just cos u working doesnt mean u a maid

Number one duty of a wife is love respect ur husband b submissive and take care of d home

Dats why i love an average house easier to clean nd all if d house done too big chai

You always misyarn take a chill pill dear

But sex is ultimate