Oga judge, you mean say make the pastor start the fu***ng for court now? I must watch this one.

[quote author=subtlemee post=53330362]You've spoken well ma...some pastors don't know how to separate it,neglecting their wives in the process with incessant fasting and prayers..only God knows what pastor's wives do pass through. They pass through church members.

Baawaa:
They should tell Mugabe,he will have something to say

lol.. Because he's a talkative

subtlemee:



ECC.3v1-8...there's time for everything

You eh...you go like cassava die yoh...wetin these verses deh talk sef?

subtlemee:
You've spoken well ma...some pastors don't know how to separate it,neglecting their wives in the process with incessant fasting and prayers..only God knows what pastor's wives do pass through and i'll never be one

My dear, those women are passing through a lot o. But they won't open up because of what their congregants would say. That's why I always reason with ladies that usually sing your last phrase ("...i'll never be one"!). Although not all pastor's sha ooo

subtlemee:
You've spoken well ma...some pastors don't know how to separate it,neglecting their wives in the process with incessant fasting and prayers..only God knows what pastor's wives do pass through and i'll never be one

Honestly, i thought women don't feel sex at all, i thought they do it to please or reward men.

TheSuperNerd:
Even so called pastors don't understand that The same Bible tells them not to "Deprive" their spouses of sex.... If you like be the proclaimed Prophet Elijah of old.... You have a woman/wife right? Then treat her like one... Not just from a psychological, life-motivational, spiritual and financial standpoint but also from "The Sexual/emotional standpoint"



I Corinthians.7 vs 4 and 5 (NKJV) says:

"The Wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. AND LIKEWISE THE HUSBAND DOES NOT HAVE AUTHORITY OVER HIS OWN BODY, BUT THE WIFE DOES...

Do NOT DEPRIVE one another EXCEPT WITH CONSENT FOR A TIME, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again SO THAT SATAN DOES NOT TEMPT YOU BECAUSE OF LACK OF SELF-CONTROL"

The above scriptures talks about "SEX"


So abeg, did the pastor seek the wife's consent in this?? Why should he marry a wife and also fail to meet her sexual needs?? He is wrong but he doesn't even know it....

On the allegation of him sleeping outside, if that's true, then that's too bad... Seems he is bored of sex with his wife then and wanna taste other "varieties"... Only a silly neanderthal of a man would do such. And anyone that would dare say that man is "naturally" polygamous hence liable to cheat speaks Bollocks and absolute crass.



And what if the woman went out to cheat while enduring all these??
Not saying she should but the Bible scripture above did mention "the temptation due to lack of self-control" in that one moment of Konji madness.... Due in this case to being ignored in the bedroom by the pastor-husband.


Christians need to be super educated on sex matters (and not shy away from it) coz Sex originated from GOD and from the WORD... And not from Satan. Sex is a gift from GOD but Satan has succeeded in making this gift a plague in the world of men........

Well said... Tres bien!

This is an emotional appeal. This woman is faithful to the core. waoo! Mr man should go to the hospital, sort himself out, come home and attend to this sweet innocent woman.asap

Say that to your Company Driver. Or go to a Brothel and ask to be raped.

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ECC.3v1-8...there's time for everything[/quote hmmm d woman should bear it n wait for d right time na. lol

[quote author=subtlemee post=53343137]

ECC.3v1-8...there's time for everything[/quote hmmm d woman should bear it n wait for d right time na. lol

subtlemee:
You've spoken well ma...some pastors don't know how to separate it,neglecting their wives in the process with incessant fasting and prayers..only God knows what pastor's wives do pass through and i'll never be one

Amen

This has been a real problem that women are going through with their pastor husband. They lack affection for the part of their husbands, lack of sexual intercourse under the pretext of constant fasting and sanctifications of their husbands, they take care of their children alone. In addition to the church, they are watched constantly by the assembly, watching for their slightest false steps. If, unfortunately, the woman finds a lover to satisfy herself sexually, it becomes a real scandal, she is indexed like the devil in person and is accused of wanting to bring down the ministry of her husband pastor. Pastors must reconsider their position face-to-face of their wives and their families. If God allows you to marry, it is so that the marriage is consummated, if not it is better to make vows of chastity like Catholic priests. I do not say that fasting and praying are not good for a pastor, but know how to balance, take care of your lambs, but do not forget your family, otherwise, stay unmarried as the apostle Paul advised him.