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Advice by monzi(op): 2:30am On Jan 16, 2007
yea, here is da story, my silblings and myself all have problems talking to our parents because we are either heavely criticised or out parents look for faults in our actions. anytime i try to say to my parent "I got an apartment" or "I have not got any scholarships yet" the outcome is always the same. Yelling, shouting and fighting. I was literally forced to the college I am in cos they want me to get a good job (and i guess pay them back for it took to raise me).

I thought problems where done there. I thought i was cool with my brothers until all of a sudden, I found some old notes from my older brother documenting what he had been through with the family. My name showd up everywhere. This guy was clearly jeoulous of what I had done in life. I was in shock because all this time, we always hung out together, and talked about similar problems we had. I never knew I was really not supporting my achievements and was hiding it behind my back. Things do not seem to be improving and I'm at a complete lost as to what to do, help.
Re: Advice by Omoso(m): 10:17am On Jun 23, 2010
Nothing with a begining that won't end.
I'm seeying God training u in patience.
u ar only learning life d hard way. but i assure u,u wil appreciate God later for having passed thru al this.
This is not meant to kill u but drill u.
Read(Det 4v31,Lk 6v26-29)
and remember ur challenge is not uncommon.Pls don't seek help outside God.Love ur haters
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