I just got engaged but am not excited about it. My man is this very rigid type,he is so stiff in bed,if u try to be creative he will call you a slut,so I just allow him do his boring sex. But recently before the engagement I found a method,I will always pretend like I am dreaming,I will be moaning in my sleep and holding my pillow, and shouting give it to me .when I know he is awake,my man will quickly wake me up and start to touch me,he will say my spirit husband can't take over my body,this guy will bang me silly that night like he is fighting with somebody l.Most times he lives his dick inside of me and sleep off so that the spirit hubby won't over take him .So I continued with that drama and it has been working ,but am tired. The energy I use to moan fake moan tAkes out 7 pants of blood from my system ,why can't he just be normal without drama . Now we are getting married is this what I will be doing ? I even do it in the afternoon and my man will ask,don't this spirit husband sleep ,but I must do that drama before he makes real love to me .I don't want to cheat but it's really frustrating . How else can I make him improve because I have spoken to him and it's not working .

Lol...Which kind madness be this? I can't see this alone: mimzzy, Raine80 (where on earth are you?) , stupedinluv, makydebbie, Estharfabian

hmmmm

i'll drop my advice 2 her by 2mao i wan sleep 1st

Op, this has nothing to do with the Religion section. Go to the Romance or Sexuality section and post this.

HateU2:
Lobatan .

This is dramatic dramas . Continue like that so that he will be banging you like you want and leaving dick inside you (sounds good thou )

When u are in a real relationship then u will understand that women love sexx more than men

Sad state of affairs that the option of sharing all , on social media is the route she takes rather than discuss the problem and resolve matters with the person she is meant to marry. I won't comment on the mention of spiritual husbands shaking my head in despair will suffice.

HateU2:
Lobatan .

This is dramatic dramas . Continue like that so that he will be banging you like you want and leaving dick inside you (sounds good thou )

obontami:

welcome back from whatever

skeendyke:
Op, this has nothing to do with the Religion section. Go to the Romance or Sexuality section and post this.

Na mistake bro...... When I read her post I had to check the section again thinking that I have been redirected to romance section.

The truth is just that sex is good as it still offers one of the greatest pleasure to humanity but according to my own vocabulary, there is more to life than indulging in sex or being a fanatics.

This should not be here